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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex was never there for me so I dumped him. But I still want to be with him, but don't know if he'll change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend broke up today. i dumped him, ive been not as happy as we used to be for about a month now. he dont listen to me he wont talk to be, ive said we need to talk he said we do too, i asked him when he wanted to he said i dunno cause im busy, which is true he... (322 words)

I am in love with my friend who is of the same sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 14 year old boy and I have fallen in love with a close friend, C. I think about him ALL the time! He is handsome, playful and really fun to be with. He says he has never loved anyone and doesn't like talking about anything like that, making me think he could be gay t... (113 words)

Would anyone die for someone who didn't love you back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, some people or many would die for someone who they really truely love and the person would love them back aswell.. but what if you love someone but they didn’t you back… Would you still die for them ’cause you love them? Your opinons… :) ... (56 words)

Are women typically interested in one night stands as much as men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

2 August 2008 (M) age 36-40 - Simple question: Are women typically interested in one night stands as much as men? Just curious.... (22 words)

My ex is very flirty and gives me all the right signals, but does he want a relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 8 months ago. We were great together and the breakup was mostly to do with the pressures of living together. We have remained great friends since. Both of us now have our own houses. Lately he has been very flirty, very touchy feely and... (209 words)

My ex and I are very close as friends, shoudl we try again or has that ship sailed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for just under a year. We lived together, and every thing was hunky dory, we got on amazingly, sex was good, we were great companions etc. We had a problem sometimes with sex drives, as in his was all the time wanting it, and my libido lagged behind his. We b... (221 words)

What's the most pleasureable position where we can face each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What is the most pleasurable sexual position for my girlfriend where we can face each other and look into each others eyes (so not doggy style) I’m very overweight and find that when I’m stood up when erect only 4 inches of my penis is easily accessible BUT when I lay on my... (100 words)

Does he really weant me, or can he just not find anyone else at the moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age - I met a man fairly recently we didnt have sex although of course he wanted to but men have always told me to hold back so did but seesm if you do that you still cant win. The facat he wanted sesx with me does it mean he fancied me or was it jsut becasue there was no one else ... (276 words)

He doesn't bother contacting me, does he even care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now. We got together as I was getting to the end of my first year of university, though he's graduated now. He lives local to the university and I don't, so until the start of the new semester we're in a 'long distance ... (221 words)

My son's 11 months and still breast feeding, please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been breastfeeding my son since he was born. I used to pump milk into a bottle sometime, but I stopped. If it's not milk he will only drink from a big boy cup( He's been doing that since he was 4 months) So now I'm back to the breast....He'll be a year old in 21 days. I ... (132 words)

How do I get him back? It's been 4 months...

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i get back with my boyfriend after breaking almost 4 months ago?... (14 words)

Just sex or more.....I wanna know from a males point of view.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy when I was going on vacation. I turned to throw something away and he said "Is there anything I can do to make you smile." I could help but smile and say "You tell me." We talked while I waited for the peter pan bus.(He's a manager there). He asked me not to go ... (711 words)

He's got a rep of a player but he says he's not, do I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - rite well theres this guy i hav known on and off for over 2 years. hes 15 (im only 13) and is a bit of a scally and is associated with a few dodgy people in the area. i hadnt seen him 4 ages until wednesday when he saw me washing cars and came over to say hi. we had an almost r... (319 words)

Can a relationship work without trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a relationship work without trust? trust is only one way.... (11 words)

Am I going to be his rebound? Does he really want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a complicated question. A few months agos I was searching for matches on a dating site and I noticed one of the pictures was someone I had knew through a friend. We began corresponding and even talked about hanging out. We never did, because we each began dating other ... (142 words)

Should I have sex with him just because all his friends are havinbg sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay...my boyfriend is very sweet and all that and we have never gone further then kissing. He once asked me if i did want to have sex with him and i said the time wasn't right. however when we are in the company of friends they are always joking about how good their sex life ... (102 words)

We've only been together 2 days but he's pressuring me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently start i new relationship 2 days ago.i like this guy but when we 2gether he always talk about sex.which im not ready 4.he says im indecisive when we talk about it.he says that can be a downfall in our relationship.i dont know what 2 do pls help?... (49 words)

I feel like I can't compete with the girls of his past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im aiming for a guy i really like we dont really know each other but ive heard a lot about him (im not a stalker lol) but yer ive heard hes got with and laid quite a few stunning girls, hes very handsome himself. how can i compete with these girls? cheers x x x ... (60 words)

His best friend is a girl and I feel they are too close...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and we are so close! but lately i feel as if he's getting taken away from me, his best friend is a girl and he is so close to her maybe a bit too close. he promises me nothing will ever happen between them but sometimes i dont ... (69 words)

He chased me, I didn't want him, but now all of a sudden I do and he doesn't want me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Annoying boy issues. A boy and I have been friends for years. He had a huge crush on me for about 5 months, and finally asked me out. I wasn't really sure at first but said yes. Well, we dated for awhile before I broke up with him. It was over silly reasons, and I was just o... (291 words)

Does my boyfriend actually appreciate me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive been with my b/f for almost 2 years now sometimes i just don't think he really appreciates me because he never romantic and i dont really think he would care if we werent together anymore i really love him is this just how lads act? ... (47 words)

My boyfriend sms-ed a girl telling her that he loves her. What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend texts alot to his friends, at first it didnt bother me because hes intitled to text whoever he wants, well he rectently got back from a trip and after the trip hes been very protective of his phone, and i notice hes always texting girls now. one of them, he ... (200 words)

I had casual sex with him and we agreed to being friends - but I feel as though he blames me for what happened?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, so I recently split up from my boyfriend of 11 years and a couple of months ago I ran into an old friend who was in a similar position. We went for a couple of dates and very quickly ended up in bed. For me this was partly because I was trying to deal with the split from ... (295 words)

Does a man embrace a woman a certain way if he fancies her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - When a man opens his arms to a woman to get/give a hug, what is the best way for her to hug back to test for romantic interest instead of a good-buddy hug? I hate to sound like such a simpleton, but I need to know. Does a man embrace a woman a certain way if he fancies her? ... (60 words)

I have been offered a seat in another university and am really confused as to what to do...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this is not a question that is love related but right now it is the most important question in my life..i finished my first year in dental school,i pursued to be a dentist only after i didnt get into medicine school..i will be starting second year of dentistry soon but i ... (77 words)

My straight friend said that if she was to ever fall for a girl again, it would 100% be me - this encourages me to ask her again to date me?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My problem is to do with my straight best friend. For the past year I've fallen in love with her completely. She's everything I want and everything I need. I know I'm only young (I'm 15) and this is probably nothing uncommon in teenagers, but I still can't ge... (333 words)

Why would he rather wack off than have sex with the girl that's right there?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. I like to have sex regularly but I'm not a fiend or anything. He's a normal red blooded male, I know he looks at porn although it's not something we discuss, and I know he pleasures himself when I'm not around. He's always ... (246 words)

Anything I can do than just wait for this girl to be ready for a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, i've been with a girl that has had quite a few ''bad'' relationships for quite a while now, and just last night she told me that she didn't think she was ready to be with anyone yet, she say's she likes me, and i can personally say i've never felt this way about a girl ... (73 words)

What do I say to her before she goes on vacation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'll try to make this short.i 've known this girl for almost 3 years -lets call her Lailo. a couple of months ago i finally asked myself why i smile for an hour after i talk to her everyday,why i stay up all night talking to her before a really important math test,why i think ... (217 words)

Is he distancing himself from me for a reason or does this just happen in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been going out for about 2 years, and have known each other since middle school. He used to be open and caring and lately he has been distant and insensitive. He does not call me like he used to and he rarely says I love you anymore. I had broken up with him ... (235 words)

How do I get over him now that he's no longer my boyfriend and he's getting married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is getting an arranged marriage. He is in his country right now and he is having the wedding sometime this week or sometime next week. I cannot even call him my boyfriend anymore, because he is someone else's now. How do I stop thinking about this and move on? It ... (85 words)

After 2 yrs of being hopelessly in love with him we are together! Why are my feelings fading?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Three years ago I started dating a guy, and we lasted four or five months, but then he cheated on me with a girl who he later fell in love with and only got over about a month ago. We didn't speak for a while after our relationship ended, but he finally apologised, and showed ... (251 words)

He ended it and now we are best friends. Is there a future for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

Will having sex with my new man hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

- I have been seeing my new man for a while now and im ready to have sex with him but im worried that it will hurt. I have only ever slept with one other man and he was much smaller in the trousers department than my new man. my old bf was about 4 inchs and my new bf is about ... (163 words)

Is he just not that into me or am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, want to know what this guy is thinking. Is he interested in me, or he's just not that into me? Firstly, a bit of background on myself. I'm 28, and just broke up with my ex-bf after almost a year together. I know this guy A for almost a year now. Apparently, when... (440 words)

He seems less and less excited about being around me! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years now. i am 20 he is 24, recently he seems to be losing interest in me. We rarely have sex, he seems to prefer chilling on his own in the evening or going out with his friends, I have always encouraged him to go out ... (240 words)

All things considered, do you think he likes me in the girlfriend way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. I've got a friend, who is a lad. Im almost 16 and he's 17, turning 18 in December. Well, we do get on really well. He texts me all the time, rings me randomly during the day to see how I am and we stay chatting for hour and when we meet (we meet like once or twice a week, ... (195 words)

Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your first? Thanks x... (57 words)

Has my vulgar text scared off my sweet and sensitive man??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just returned to the UK after spending 3 months in Greece. While i was there I met an Albanian man - who although i didnt get to know very well, really fancied. We got on very well, but the language barrier was difficult and then time ran out and nothing more than kis... (375 words)

Is it essential for a couple to have common interests/activities for the relationship to work in the long run?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

- Is it essential for a guy and a girl who are in a relationship to have common interests/activities/hobbies for it to work in the long run? How important is it? If it cant work, then how do you make it work because so far in my life, ive never been able to make it work if ... (78 words)

Is my Assistant taking advantage in our work-place affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a manager and have been having an affair with one of my Assistants for the last 2 years. In my position I do get approached by a fair number of young female workers who are obviously looking for advantage (promotion). However, the worker in question was different as she ... (415 words)

Is my LD girlfriend still in love with her EX? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi viewers, i need your advice regarding my GF, we been 2 years long distance relationship and 4 me its going strong relationship and she accepting my marriage proposal for here and we getting marriage soon after our contract. my problem is she have good memories in his ex... (332 words)

How can I build up a friendship with a teacher having someone to lean on when I'm upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya All I need a teacher i can trust and talk to, when im upset ect... Ive gota couple of teachers that i get along with.. soo thats a start. How can i build up a friendship with a teacher having someone to lean on when im upset. I find it hard to talk to my friends as th... (123 words)

Loving my PE teacher is killing me....will the pain ever end??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay..so lets get it started... I'm 15 years old and about to go into yr 11 however since yr 8 i've been in love with my female pe teacher! I love her so much and would do anything to b with her, but she has a bf already =[. I've told my mates and even my mum knows, i feel like ... (211 words)

The guy I want already has a girlfriend but he says he wants me, although sometimes asks me to help with their relationship! How to deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically there's this guy in my life, we're always textina each other an have recently started spending hours talking to each other on the phone. The problem with this is that he already has a girlfriend, but from reading in between the lines his relationship with his girl... (131 words)

Has she fed me a line and lost interest in me or am I being stupid for not contacting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Advice needed as i don't want to screw-up... Quick back story for you. Met a girl through friends, nothing happened at first as i was coming out of a relationship although she has since admitted she fancied me straight away. After a couple more meetings the chemistry quickly ... (425 words)

I try to be professional while working with both, but my colleague seems hypervigilant of me and her man, knowing of our past attraction. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

- Hoping for some help from the agony aunts.I have gotten some good advice here in the past. I worked with a man with whom I had a strong attraction. I found out he was married and decided it could go no furher. I thought it would be all well and good and cut and dry. He is now ... (170 words)

We even talked about marriage but recently, she says she does not know if she still wants to be with me... what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for over three years now, I thought everything was going great, we looked at moving into together, we even bought items for the house, we also talked about starting a family and gettingmarried, we even went looking for a ring. About 3 weeks ... (146 words)

At the begining he wanted to be with me all the time, now he says he doesn't want me to "change my plans" for him and is more distant!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 26 and i have a relationship with a 37 years old man. he is very social and thats what i liked to him.sometimes though i think he is very close to other girls in front of me, and i get upset. he was very sweet and sexy and i felt in love with him. at the begining he wanted ... (129 words)

He enjoys time with me but says he is bothered by the age difference. Could it be an excuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 34 and I just started dating a 54 year old man. He's never been married. I was married, divorced, and waited 2 years before putting myself out there again. I initiated the relationship and it's only been 2 months. I have very strong feelings for him, and he tells me he c... (148 words)

We're going to different colleges and he works during weekends, so we can't see each other much. I'm so worried about us...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well here's the deal. Basically im worried bout mine and my mans relationship. He's a few years older than me but that aint the issue, we've been together for 5 weeks, well just over. We're both going to college in september, im off to do my gcse's cos i foolishly dropped ... (299 words)

One minute we are great together and the next we are at each other's throat. So what should be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 8 years. We have had some amazing times together and have also had huge huge arguments. One minute we are great together and the next we are at each others throat. For the longest, Ive been wanting him to settle down with me and ... (152 words)

I am so attracted to this man I work with, I am just not sure how he feels. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - There is this guy I work with and with our job he has to travel around to diffrent locations. I am very attracted to him we talk on the phone all the time it starts out about work but always ends up about something else. He makes me laugh and when I have a problem at work he ... (160 words)

Our LDR did not survive as he found another girl, geographically closer. He wanted me to email her to tell her we're only friends now. I can't stop crying.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an eighteen year old that was in the wrong place at the wrong time.\ A few months back,I added a guy that I've known for like two years.I have always had a strong feeling inside of me for him and he knew.He also used to make me feel as if he feels the same way almost e... (552 words)

I like to see him but when he comes in front of me I just turn away like I don't care... why? And why does he not approach me at all??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i am 19 years old and i am totally in love with this guy studying in the same university with me..i just see him around the campus and i am head over heels for him..we kinda exchange looks but then i quickly look down i am that around him..i dont even know him then why do ... (201 words)

Suffering because of my virginity - but it is my choice to be a virgin, until I meet my ideal girl. Do you think she exists?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My dear friends I need advice... Tell me if you this I'm crazy or not... I am a virgin, and the age of 21. Why am I a virgin? because it's my choice. I have had many, many chances to have sex, and yet...I want to waitti marriage. Not jsut for religious purposes, but cuz ... (1496 words)

What should I do? Wait around for graduation and see if I "run into" him again, or just completely get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a slight dilemma. I've recently developed a rather large crush on a teacher at school. He's never actually taught me but I see him around all the time, he's so young that the first time I saw him I thought he was a student. He'd be in his early 20s, and I'm 17, and due ... (261 words)

How do you get by when your children go away on holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Well, my kids (13 and 11) have gone off for a week with their dad on holiday. I feel like a right arms missing! They haven't long left and i'm in tears. I have to be at the hairdressers in less than 2 hours, and i look a mess. Longest i dont have them for is one night every ... (177 words)

After I offered him oral he did not bother talking much to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i think i have made a mistake. i gave a guy a blowjob and was still at his house for the next two days but for those two days he only said one or two words to me. Please tell me why he diint talk to me and how do i fix this so its not akward when i go back to his h... (67 words)

Could there be another guy? Is there a chance to get her back? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i had been going out with this girl for two months who i really loved and she also appeared to love me. everything was going fine throughout those two months, we would talk every night for hours. she lived around 30 minutes from me and would come to see me lot of the time and ... (246 words)

I feel rubbish as a girlfriend because I liked it when another guy acted sexually towards me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, long story short, i've been with my current boyfriend for just over a month now, im 16 and he's 23, and our relationship is great. Great amount of emotion, great amount of communication, great sex life, just, great everything! But tonight was weird, he was still acti... (375 words)

I'm ready for sex but no girl want to go out with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 14 year old boy, and im ready to have sex. I know all about it but i dont know how to get a girl, because no girl want to go out with me. Can you help me? ... (40 words)

Will me being pregnant at 14 send my 17 year old boyfriend to jail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. i have been dating my boyfriend for a year.i fell in love with him as soon as i saw him.but im pregnant and im 14 and hes 17 turning 18 in 3months. will he go to jail? Please reply asap ... (47 words)

Why does my boyfriend's brother hate me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I can really say that this is a relationship question. My relationship is perfect, but I'm a pretty quiet person if I don't know someone. When my boyfriends brother comes over with his girlfriend I never say much more then Hi, How are you? sometimes I'll carry on a 10 minute ... (158 words)

Hoping and wishing or just being foolish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i feel like i really need your help. I was with my partner for nearly 5 years and because of me being in a large amount of debt we used to argue so we decided to call it a day. 8 months ago. He says we officially split up 2 months ago when he started seeing another ... (228 words)

We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that he loves me and that he ... (205 words)

I've gotten used to feeling depressed and it's scary...how will I be happy again after what he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through an 8yr breakup and its been so hard. Its been 5 months now and the pain doesnt seem to ease. He cheated and perhaps was cheating all along throughout the relationship. He has pleaded for me to come back, but I have stood my ground. Now that he finds that Ive ... (151 words)

My first love broke my heart but I continue to have sex with him! How do I let go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in December my first love broke my heart. I didn't want to date for a long time. But, I met this boy in school and automatically fell for him. We only dated for little over a month but were together every waking second. Once we broke up we talked but never kissed or ... (262 words)

Could he just want me for sex or does he want a relationship?

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there is this guy... I've known him for a long time, we just recently started hanging out more though. I have hung out with him a couple of times in the past couple weeks, i really like him. hes really sweet, and he seems like the kind of guy that won't end up be... (184 words)

My boyfriend pleases me for hours, but I still don't cum.

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a little bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have a great time when we are in the bed room. Although, he can give me oral for hours or rub me and it never gets me off. What can I do to fix my issue?... (48 words)

I want to break up with my on-line love as gently as possible.

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know what I should do here...please someone help Recently I met this girl online and we hit it off and all that fun stuff, anyway we both kinda fell for each other, however we live a ways away from each other and I have a good feeling it won't work, how do I tell he... (70 words)

Will he like me for who I am even though we are so different?

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2 August 2008 (F)

- Im 20 years old and recently a guy who I went to high school contacted me via facebook. We have been chatting a bit and we asked for my number. Then on the phone he asked me out on a date for next week. I said yes. But I am so worried that he wont like me for me. You see, we... (318 words)

I have a newspaper fetish. Should I be open about it?

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a strange fetish and i want to be open about it. i love newspapers and magazines. i love to buy them and sleep with them and hold them close to my skin. i feel that this is strange because i have never heard of it before. should i tell people about my fetish or s... (88 words)

My girl's past experiences make it hard for her to trust me. what can I do?

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf has a very bad past experience. She caught her x cheat on her and suffered a great pain. Since we started our relationship, that bad experience still stayed around her. She said she will not be able to stand if another guy cheat on her. I assured her in many ways but... (97 words)

I still have feeling for him, but he dumped me. I want to get back with him but don't want to sound desperate.

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My x boyfriend and I both still like each other and I want to get back together, but don't know the best way to let him know. I am scared to just tell him straight up because he is the one who broke up with me and I don't want to look desperate. When we broke up he wouldn't ... (117 words)

Does he want to french?

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When i kiss my boyfriend i can feel his tounge in his mouth with my lip. Is he doing this to let me know he wants to french kiss? Cause i give him the opportuniy by having my mouth open but i dont know how to let him know other than doing that with my mouth that i want to ... (63 words)

My boyfriend uses steroids and thought he was sterile but now I'm pregnant! I'm not getting an abortion so how can I deal with him?

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I been with my boyfriend for over a year. He uses steriods and thought he was sterile. A few weeks ago we broke up and i was feeling sick and was late with my period. I tock a pregnacy test that came back positive. I called and told him, he thought i was lying because i wanted ... (305 words)

Sent pics of myself in bra and pants to another boy, who then showed my boyfriend!

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone I feel so terrible about myself right now. Well my bf was recently in a wreck I heard (at the time hes was ex) And his cousin texted me saying that he wanted to fix things with me and when he woke up she would tell him that I forgave him like I did. Well that mor... (276 words)

Miserable with my husband, should I have an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

2 August 2008 (F)

age - I am thinking of having an affair out of frustration and low self-esteem. My husband and I have not had any sexual encounters for eight years because he feels I am too aggressive and direct in general. He views me as a huge source of pressure and he feels the need to defend ... (189 words)

He wrote notes to other girls in school!

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and basicly he was emontionly ... (211 words)

Catastrophic phone sex. Does she hate me? Have I messed up?

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have just come off the phone with my girlfriend after an unsuccessful phone sex session. I feel really bad as she was really horny and I didn’t know what to say as I’ve never had phone sex before. (or real sex for that matter) When I said “Sorry babe I really don’t ... (103 words)

It's a big risk financially to finish my degree, will it be worth it?

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'd just like some "life advice" please aunties. I have just finished my second year at Uni, and am due to start my third in September. However, I have lost interest in a large part my course (it wasn't really what I was expecting) and don't really want to go back. It woul... (322 words)

Would he be excited by ANY girl telling him they liked him, or just me?

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - would a guy be really excited if a girl said she like him and if he had not dated in a while i think. Let say his name is zach and I admitted I like him. He was really happy and all that. would he act the same with another girl?... (51 words)

How can I explain my church to my parents - they say it's evil!

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2 August 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i am an apostolic christian and my parents dont understand about this type of church. the fact we call on the holy ghost ect, we have tried to explain to her about the holy ghost and that i might speak in toungues but she thinks its evil and wont accept it. this is an issue ... (104 words)

My teen friends are mad at eachother, no idea why, any thoughts?

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this isn;t about love relationships or sex but about my best friends my bf's austin and bryce wont talk to each other bryce for some reason he wont say is mad at austin and now they wont talk to each other it all started when me and my friends forced austin to dance with a ... (116 words)

Blood in my poo, what do I do?

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2 August 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay look this is ganna sound really really nasty but i need help and i figured yall are the people to ask!! now my ass has been killin me.and i was spossed to be starin my priod yesturday but its late (as usual) so i aint worried bout it but the thing is when i take a crap i ... (95 words)