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writes:ok here we go i dated this girl for over a yr and a half before that we were friends but when she left me i was hurt bad since then she found another guy and i had moved on but neither of are relationships panned out now she has been texting me going to lunch and hanging out and also sleeping with me but she keeps telling me that we are just friends she no's i still care for her and love her and my friends say she is just using me until someone else comes along plus she hates every girl ive ever been with and points them out if there around i have two kids that adore her and she feels the same but there not her's ive been told that she dont want me but doesnt want anybody else to have me either please help what gives. i mean after sex she looks at me and gives me that look like she wants to say something but never does and she doesnt complain about the sex either. is it true am i just her comfort until someone else comes along or does she secretly want me back and is scared? she likes to flirt with other guys and give out her cell number,my problem is i dont want any other women just her and she no's it but what do i do i m older than her and i just want to be happy im tired of being alone and scared at the same time some one please help me
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reader, lost and confused38 +, writes (19 August 2008):
lost and confused38 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto elliott im not for sure im being used and she is the right girl u c i cant have kids anymore and she wants one real bad but thats the trouble she just got off of blood thinners after 4yrs and has to get checked again and if its bad then she will be on them for ever she does care we have been in public plus my roommates has seen her her and knows her and so do her friends they also know whats going on so are they just as bad for letting her do this? plus her mom jusknows also that she stays here the other night she said as a joke im only with her for her dog that confused me i thought we werent dating again lol
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reader, lost and confused38 +, writes (19 August 2008):
lost and confused38 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advise but there is one thing we were and r very good friends and she was hanging out with another guy and they were just friends but he asked her friend out and now i thinks she is depressed and thinking she isnt wanted she no's i care for her i tried to tell her to stop texting me and when she figures out what she wants text me until then dont she got pissed off and said that she dont want a bf cuz she dont want anyone to answer to cuz she is a flirt but a flirt dont give there cell number out to a guy u just met and now she wants too wear short skirts and dresses to be noticed ive tried to date others but it just dont work she drives by my house texts me and says she would come and entertain me but my gf is there whats that about i mean she though this girl that came in the bar the other night was one of my ex gf ands she was like wanting to kick her butt she is very pissy when it comes to me talking to other women but its ok for her to talk to other guy's ive been told that she dont want me but she dont want anyone else to have me either
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