I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 17 July 2014: The OP likes dating you guys apparently.... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 13 July 2014: Escort meshcort ...say it like it is. You are looking for a hooker to get laid not escorting someone to a formal dinner party.... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 20 March 2014: Ask the girl you've spoken to already to lunch or dinner. Get your feet wet. Please don't make us chew the same hash twice. Report back after you actually go on a date.... (read in full...)
He screams at me, he disregards my opinion, he's paranoid about some friends. Can anyone confirm if I'm crazy?
Q. Am I crazy? My bf n I have been together for almost 2 years. We've been friends for almost 10 years. My bf can be very defensive, emotionally immature, and selfish at times; straight up. So these faults dampen a mood, conversation, experience every ...
A. 20 March 2014: You are indeed crazy if you stay in this relationship.... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 20 March 2014: locust, is this post going to go on for days with you just making excuses, ignoring all the advice given, and simply wasting everyone's time? OR Will you be giving updates on some actual steps and progress you are making?... (read in full...)
Should I call the manager to see I have the job?
Q. What should I do? Do I wait or just call? So I went for a nursery nurse interview and the manager said she liked me and ask me to come back for a day trial even though I couldn't really give good answers to 1 or 2 questions. Anyway I went for...
A. 20 March 2014: I wouldn't want to work for someone who doesn't have the courtesy to call you back anyway. You're better off NOT getting this job in my opinion.... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 19 March 2014: You received many many tips and suggestions on your last post. Reread it, then get off your backside and utilize them.... (read in full...)
What kind of game is my ex playing? DId our kiss mean anything to hiim?
Q. So here's the story... meet my ex 4 years ago (2010), he broke up with me after 5 months (april to september) for his ex (who cheated on him before he met me) (Our relationship had everything one should have, trust, love, freedom etc) he then get...
A. 18 March 2014: You are living in some sort of dream world. Come on girlfriend, wake up and smell the coffee. Yes he's playing games and you are playing right back. He's not ever going to come back to you, to stay anyway and quite honestly it doesn't sound like he ... (read in full...)
When I told him "no" he sent all our correspondence to my husband! Why would he do such a thing?
Q. He Was All I Ever Wanted.. Okay this is really long story I really need advice not commended for my actions or thus confession. It started 3 years ago I began work and myself and a colleague started to develop feelings but never acted on them. W...
A. 12 March 2014: So what has your husband said about all this?... (read in full...)
Should I call the manager to see I have the job?
Q. What should I do? Do I wait or just call? So I went for a nursery nurse interview and the manager said she liked me and ask me to come back for a day trial even though I couldn't really give good answers to 1 or 2 questions. Anyway I went for...
A. 11 March 2014: yep, call her, it will show interest in the position and that you have a follow through mentality.... (read in full...)
Do men have sex with women they aren't attracted to?
Q. This is a question for the men: would you sleep with someone you weren't attracted to? I was recently shocked to find out that a very attractive male acquaintance of mine had a one night stand with a very unattractive woman. This has lef...
A. 11 March 2014: I'm willing to bet HE found something very attractive about her.... (read in full...)
My heart knows that I need to leave! But I don't want another failed relationship! Advice?
Q. I am engaged to a man that I have been dating for over 3 years. We have been engaged for 6 months and the wedding is fast approaching. I am finding myself very unhappy. We don't see each other very much because of his overly busy schedule and ...
A. 10 March 2014: There is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about, you just are seeing his true colors. Break off the engagement and show him what you wrote here. He's the one dropping the ball not you. If that doesn't give him a wake up call then you will have ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 4 March 2014: Maybe you shouldn't be waiting around for an email, just walking around campus you'll see flyers and announcements for activities. Get pro-active if you really want to change your life. It's up to each person to make significant changes ithey ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 4 March 2014: Maybe you shouldn't be waiting around for an email, just walking around campus you'll see flyers and announcements for activities. Get pro-active if you really want to change your life. It's up to each person to make significant changes ithey ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 4 March 2014: Maybe you shouldn't be waiting around for an email, just walking around campus you'll see flyers and announcements for activities. Get pro-active if you really want to change your life. It's up to each person to make significant changes ithey ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 4 March 2014: Maybe you shouldn't be waiting around for an email, just walking around campus you'll see flyers and announcements for activities. Get pro-active if you really want to change your life. It's up to each person to make significant changes ithey ... (read in full...)
Women, do you prefer it when a man delays ejaculation?
Q. I just want to find out if delayed ejaculation is necessarily than premature ejaculation where the female perspective is concerned. I sleep on a regular basis with sex workers. Normally, I ejaculate within a minute or tow, sometimes even within ...
A. 2 March 2014: Excellent, Taste!!... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 2 March 2014: I'm not buying your " budget cuts so no clubs on campus " excuse. I work at a mid-sized university with budget cuts and there are ALWAYS plenty of activities going on. You are wasting everyone's time. You have a rebuttal for everyone's advice and ... (read in full...)
I am starting to get angry at his attitude!
Q. I have been dating a man for 3 years. I have stupidly "overlooked" some interesting behaviors on his part including: does he like and respect women? (Example: if it's breast cancer awareness month he goes on about how come its all about women? If ...
A. 1 March 2014: Life is simply too short to be around such a pain in the ass.... (read in full...)
Do guys like being touched in the back of their neck?
Q. guys do you like it when a girl runs her fingers through your hair above your neck /touch the back of your neck too? ...
A. 26 February 2014: My husband would sit and let me stroke the back of his neck until my hand was a bloody stump if I'd do it.... (read in full...)
Even if I started something with this co-worker it couldn't last. What do I do?
Q. Hi, i am so disturbed because I like this guy very much.we started out as friends but he took it to another level by really engaging with me, getting at a very personal level.I have a partner but my relationship with him is not strong.This guy on ...
A. 24 February 2014: Yeah, what "situation" exactly? I get that you have a current partner, so if you get rid of him what's stopping you and the new guy from having a relationship?... (read in full...)
Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?
Q. Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our ...
A. 24 February 2014: What are the reasons his Mom and best friend hate you? How do you even know they hate you or is that just what your boyfriend tell you? I for one wouldn't allow myself to simmer on the back burner while he goes out and socializes, why do you? Of ... (read in full...)
I am being shut out by his language!
Q. Hi! I need advice on a relationship with language differences. When I met my boyfriend he didnt know any English, but he insisted on being with me. He worked hard to learn English and did well. Now his daughter came to live with us full time and he ...
A. 24 February 2014: You are right, it is very rude to purposely exclude you, not only rude but very revealing as well. Since you have repeatedly told him how much this bothers you, and yet he still continues, I guess you know just how much he cares for and respects ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 22 February 2014: I think you actually don't like women or find them attractive at all. Maybe you have been barking up the wrong tree this whole time?... (read in full...)
Falling in love with a man who might have to move away. We discussed it, but what did he mean?
Q. I started dating a man about three months ago. We see each other almost every week-end. We'll spend most of it together. The week-ends usually consists of hours of conversation, laughing really hard, watching movies, sex, eating, driving, laughing, ...
A. 21 February 2014: It appears that you are likely to get hurt sooner or later since you already have fallen for the guy. I would just have fun while it lasts. You've only been together for 3 months, who knows maybe he'll decide he does want you in his future. Since ... (read in full...)
Is he my boyfriend? Does he want to be my boyfriend? Is it too early to even bring that up after one month of dating?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm 24 years old and have never been in a relationship. But three weeks ago, I met this guy, and we've been dating since (1-2 times a week). Things are going great. We get along, we laugh together, and we've had sex (he was my fir...
A. 21 February 2014: Just relax and enjoy the ride. Don't over-think things just let the relationship develop on its own. Have fun.... (read in full...)
How do I get an aggresive suitor to back off a little without chasing him completely away
Q. This year, I told myself and God that I am going to get married. I don't have a boyfriend yet but just dating. I went to Dublin to see my ex December and even though the long distance is still an issue we are still very hopeful. Then when I came bac...
A. 21 February 2014: What's the reason for your decision to marry come Hell or high water? And it sounds like any Tom, Dick, or Harry will do, even some unknown nutcase from Africa. What's the reason for your hurry?... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 21 February 2014: Go ahead and get laid we'll be here waiting for your follow up.... (read in full...)
I want my wife to give me a break! I am NOT looking at other women!
Q. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me of looking at another women, even though I most certainly am not, and most of the time don't even know who she is referring to until I really do ...
A. 21 February 2014: I like SVC's response. If your wife is around your age, she may just need some reassurance that you find her the most attractive women in the world. Some women take aging very hard, myself included, so maybe just be a bit more understanding. Help ... (read in full...)
I want my wife to give me a break! I am NOT looking at other women!
Q. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me of looking at another women, even though I most certainly am not, and most of the time don't even know who she is referring to until I really do ...
A. 20 February 2014: I like SVC's response. If your wife is around your age, she may just need some reassurance that you find her the most attractive women in the world. Some women take aging very hard, myself included, so maybe just be a bit more understanding. Help ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for disliking my sister?
Q. Am I wrong for this? I'm starting to not like my sister. She is always gossiping about someone and she has nothing positive to say about anything. I hate it when people clean other people's closet and not their's. I'm college student looking to go ...
A. 20 February 2014: This where the "you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family" comes from. I have two older sisters, one of which I like and one I ignore whenever I can. It's life.... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.
Q. I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...
A. 20 February 2014: Your confusion comes from the fact that you really want to get it on with this chick, if you didn't you'd have the "whatever" attitude going on.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 10 February 2014: What kind of pet did you have?... (read in full...)
Feeling guilty about bad decisions I've made
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in a relationship with a 25 year old man who I am breaking up with on Saturday. I saw controlling signs before but now I've really seen them, I actually feel afraid of him. We have only been together for 3 months ...
A. 6 February 2014: I can't believe your parents (shame on them) allowed you to date a 25 year old to begin with, so I'm glad your are breaking it off. As far as getting rid of your guilt, you simply vow to never have sex until you are in a relationship that has stood ... (read in full...)
Am I too boring and weird to ever get a girlfriend?
Q. Lately I've been thinking about future relationships and stuff, and it's just hit me that even if I did get a girlfriend, I would have no idea what to do with her. I do not like the bar or club scene at all. I cannot and do not like to dance an...
A. 6 February 2014: Do you want a girlfriend? Are you trying to meet girls at school, work, or the gym? Do your friends know you are looking for a girlfriend?... (read in full...)
Sex, dating and relationship. When should we have sex?
Q. I've being dating a girl for four months and we've had nice times and whenever I am away from her and I don't call for a day, she gets angry with me or suspects me of having another girlfriend. She has that soft spot, very pretty and respectful and ...
A. 6 February 2014: I agree with the Owl, you can bring up with her during one of your tender moments together.... (read in full...)
For nine years I believed my lover was married but I've recently learned he isn't
Q. I began this relationship with my lover over 9 years ago and up until a 2 weeks ago believed that he was married because he told me so. He revealed in an online conversation that he was never legally married to the woman he claimed as his wife. N...
A. 6 February 2014: Oh yes the irony, the irony! Good call female anonymous!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps promising me big gifts but gets me nothing
Q. My boyfriend told me throughout our entire first year that he had a huge birthday surprise for me... along comes my birthday Jan 29 and he just called me in the morning and then never came over (even though he promised). His reasoning was that he ...
A. 6 February 2014: Talk is cheap...dump him... (read in full...)
Why do women at night clubs dress provocatively?
Q. Why do the girls at the clubs dress like sluts?? We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. One had a dress on so short that her ass was showing and she bent over a few times. Do they really need that much attention?...
A. 5 February 2014: My guess is that they dress that way because they can. Now if I were to try it I'd get busted for committing a crime against nature.... (read in full...)
Cheating- is it always wrong?
Q. Is it ever acceptable to cheat? I'm in a marriage and very happy aside from the fact my hb and my sex drives are in completely the opposite directions mines very high and his due to medication is virtually nil, I've lived with this for ov...
A. 4 February 2014: Cheating is always wrong hence the word "CHEATING". Now if you can do what SVC suggests and get your husband's permission then that's not cheating. Did you wed with the vow "in sickness and in health"? Just curious.... (read in full...)
Don't want to misrepresent myself but ...
Q. I am a 25 male and trying online dating I am short most of the woman are taller than me I have no problem dating taller women but I have heard that most women won't date a shorter men I don't know how true this is. I know complete honesty is ...
A. 4 February 2014: Put the truth...it will work as a weeder.... (read in full...)
Yes he has a Gf, and yes I'm engaged. But I still have a feeling he has a bit if a crush on me. What do you think?
Q. So I just wanted some input from a guys perspective ideally . (Ladies, you can comment too. So I'm in my early 20s and this coworker of mine is 10 years older. He works in the same department of mine and he's a musician. A singer/songwriter and I am ...
A. 4 February 2014: I think if he ever had a crush on you, he's pretty much over it by the recent way he's been acting towards you. There, problem solved.... (read in full...)
Big age difference. How should I approach him and ask where I stand in our relationship?
Q. Last year I started a part-time job at USPS as a material handler. I'm very timid, often at times people tend to think I'm a teenager and I just started dating a 51 year old guy who's worked for USPS for many years. He lives down the street from my ...
A. 4 February 2014: Quit having sex with him and you'll find out whether he really cares about you.... (read in full...)
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