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My boyfriend is offering to take me on an all expenses paid trip but I'm feeling bad because my Valentine's day present can never match his because of my money problems

Q.   My boyfriend invited me for a weekend on a small city 70 miles away. Nothing fancy, just something different for a change. Basically, I just went through some hard family situations. Therefore I'm living with my father and we're both very, VERY ...

A.   8 February 2013: I went through the exact similar situation this Christmas and the previous vacation the summer before. I am a full time college student and had been laid off work. I'm also in a long distance relationship (School). I mentioned I couldn't do vacation ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep coming back to him for sex when the sex isn't even good?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have known this guy for about 3 years give or take. He's 4 years older than me. Ever since I met him I have had this strong sexual attraction towards him. We first hooked up when I was 18, then the second time when I was 19. I am abo...

A.   8 February 2013: You like him! It happens often. I had a similar situation with a guy I attempted to date. I was so attracted to him and couldn't help it. When the time finally occurred in sleeping together, it was horrible!!! Yet, I always went back to him. Not ... (read in full...)

Why can't I have both love and passion from the guy I'm going to marry... isn't that the way it's supposed to be?

Q.   Hello Aunts, I've been with my fiance for just about three years now, wedding is planned for 11 months from now. He is perfect for me in almost every way, and I for him. He was in a real bad place for many years prior to meeting me. He was stil...

A.   8 February 2013: In your shoes when it comes to my boyfriend. You have an amazing person in front of you, but the passion isn't exactly there. My previous boyfriend was freaking astounding in the bedroom. So I certainly do miss the kinks of that. I would honestly ... (read in full...)

Does he like me? Please give opinions!

Q.   Hi, okay, so I think that this guy might like me, but I really like him, so I'm worried that maybe my mind is playing tricks on me. I need other, third-party opinions on the matter please :) Here's why I think he likes me: -He stares at me A L...

A.   28 April 2011: You need to interact more with him. Attempt to become his friend.... (read in full...)

Can't tell if she likes me or not?

Q.   cant tell if this girl likes me or not. i mean she talks about me to her family enough that i started to notice. like if i would talk to one of her sisters they would say "o yea my sister was telling me you" bla bla. she also pokes fun at me every ...

A.   28 April 2011: I believe she does. Make a move. (;... (read in full...)

I don't feel the love between us anymore

Q.   I hate the fact that my husband has to work closely with a very good looking, actually hot looking girl. I'm very possessive and jealous type. I ask too many qs to my husband. I'm constantly suspicious. I also have self esteem issue, weight ...

A.   28 April 2011: You need to dedicate time to yourself. Your self esteem could hurt your marriage as its doing now. Start hitting the gym, or start doing activities that make you happy.... (read in full...)

Do you think it's disprespectful for a guy to dance with another girl at a club?

Q.   do you think is it disrespectful for a guy dancing with any girl in the club while he has a girlfriend? and telling his girlfriend" hey baby im going out with my boys, then ofcourse i'm not gonna dance with my boys over there, only dance, but not ...

A.   28 April 2011: Not really. It's basically what the point of a club is. To interact and forget about troubles. He's at least being honest with you and telling you, unlike most men.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hurt me so bad! What's wrong with him?

Q.   my bf has treated me really bad and always tries to control me and makes me cry!.(btw i am 18 and he is 21) One night I told my boyfriend I was busy with alot of homework for school , and that he couldn't come over that night , but that he coul...

A.   28 April 2011: He's a jerk. Completely remove him from your life of he's going to step all over you and keep treating you like trash.... (read in full...)

I'm falling in love with my dance instructor!

Q.   so.. i am a dancer.. by profession. my dance trainer is extremely serious and strict. He was very serious with me in the beginning of my work with him. Now since exactly a month he has been smiling wierdly when he talked to me.. a wierd smile, that ...

A.   28 April 2011: Attraction and crushes are our adrenaline. I could be a hypocrite and tell you to talk to him or you can break the touch barrier and try getting closer to him. Nudge a bit, joke around, hint at getting a bite to eat. If he's not interested, he'll ... (read in full...)

Soliciting ideas for spicing up my sex life

Q.   hey everyone... i wanna spice up my sex life with my girlfriend... we just have normal sex and she's getting bored ... i tried using whipped cream on her but it wasnt enough.. any ideas what i should do to turn her on? and blow her mind??...

A.   28 April 2011: Depending of what she's into, maybe teasing her all night could do a trick when you have the night yourself. Caressing her inner thighs, brushing your fingers along her neck slowly usually trigger a girls urges. A simple solution. But to spice it ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my teacher and I think he likes me also, but he's married to a woman who is way older than him!!

Q.   Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him that much I just thought he was kinda cute so I thought I would get over it but then he started flirting with me! He started staring at me, smiling at me, and he just treated me ...

A.   12 April 2011: P e d o p h i l e . Save yourself a broken heart and move your direction towards someone around your age group who's single. ... (read in full...)

I had cybersex with someone else. Should I tell him?

Q.   Let me start off by saying I feel really bad about doing this but I cheated on my boyfriend cause I cybersexed another guy. He doesn't know about it and I feel really horrible about it but I don't know what to do. If to tell him or bury it. Help. W...

A.   12 April 2011: The conscience is the death of someone. Cybersex or any form of sex affiliated act with any other person that isn't your partner is cheating. But, spare yourself a fight or break up and keep it hidden in your skeleton closet. It'll be the root of ... (read in full...)

I keep giving him money, he keeps lying to me and standing me up!

Q.   I was seeing a guy for a few months. I thought whatever we had was good. Then things fell off. I wasnt seeing him as often. He'd always forget to call me back. But I put it up with it. Then he lost his job, and me being stupid I started giving him ...

A.   12 April 2011: You remind me of my friend. And unfortunately, you're quite blind. But knowing your situation, here's my perspective ; you're gonna end going back to him even if anybody gives you advice. Look, you're his possession. He can sweet talk you, and you ... (read in full...)

I just broke up with my boyfriend, now I regret it; do you think I could get a 3rd chance?

Q.   iv currently just finished my boyfriend,we've been together 3 months,he treated me like i was nothing and wanted to date 3 other girls while he was with me,i don't know what to do,this would be my 3rd time with him again and i don't think it really ...

A.   12 April 2011: I was in the same boat as you. Honestly, hold your guard. Chances are, he's gonna date somebody else real soon. He's a serial dater. If he didn't appreciate you from the start, your just a pass time. My ex would keep coming back to me, but his ... (read in full...)

Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?

Q.   I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet ...

A.   12 April 2011: Worst comes to shove, consider adoption. He may be indecisive now, but most men who don't plan stuff like this get distant. And they remain like this until they hit some sort of epiphany.... (read in full...)

I lied about being 13 and told him I'm 15; turns out he's 18 and he really likes me

Q.   i really need anyones help i could get at the moment so any comments will do. i met this guy on the internet a few weeks ago,then the other day i asked for his age,turns out he's 18! so i told im 15,but really im 13! then we've been talking so much ...

A.   12 April 2011: He could be lying just as you are. No, no, no. How to Catch a Predator much?... (read in full...)

How do I repay him for all he's done for me?

Q.   hey, right now i am sick. i have the flu and i've never been this sick before in my life. my bf is being soo sweet, like he's here everyday checking on me, and bringing me my school assignments. he makes me feel like a princess even when i ...

A.   6 April 2011: Treat him to dinner or something that makes him feel special.& top off the night with a sweet kiss and a thank you as a reminder :)... (read in full...)

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