Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?
Q. My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...
A. 19 November 2009: I think PeanutButter has said it all. Wow good job!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!
Q. my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying ...
A. 5 November 2009: That's the biggest load of hogwash. If he didn't want to do it he wouldn't get aroused. He can't fake that, a man is either ready for sex or not.
The next time he initiates it tell him that you already finished on your own, because you didn't w... (read in full...)
Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.
Q. please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...
A. 30 October 2009: You need to find another man altogether.
Don't feel sorry for the ex-married man I mean really how do you know that he divorced her. She probably found out that he was a low down cheater and kicked his butt out. Now he's running back to you - do... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 30 October 2009: Just set the mood and do it. I don't need a bunch of chatter. I think the element of suprise is better, its like - I think he's gonna kiss me, I think he's gonna kiss me. Yea, we're kissing!!
For me if you ask me and then I have to reply it... (read in full...)
I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?
Q. When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...
A. 22 October 2009: I don't think you need much advice. You're doing the right things. Bide your time, get all your ducks in a row and when he least expects it -wham- hit him with it, right between the eyes. And while he's trying to figure out what happened to his ... (read in full...)
I need help saying NO!
Q. Hi everyone, i have a problem... okay well every time i go out with a guy for the first time and so on they all wanna have sex with me and its really hard for me to say no to people so i just do it. well i just recently got out a relationship and ...
A. 21 October 2009: I've learned that one of the best things you can do for yourself is learn to say "NO". This is a lesson that will serve you in every aspect of your life.
NO:
Say it with a smile
Say it with an attitude
Say it however your mood dictates, ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to pursue my major or give up?
Q. ok so i know this isnt a relationship question but i really need help. right now i am studying to get my BSW degree. but im conservative. i am constantly surrounded by liberals that attack me for my beliefs. all i want to do is get this degree and ...
A. 20 October 2009: NEVER let anyone dictate your life.
If they don't like your chosen profession, just look at them and say "sorry you don't agree, but this is what I have chosen to do" and then walk away. You don't owe them any explanation.
If you quit these sa... (read in full...)
Pregnant at 15: how do I tell my parents?
Q. hey there. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just found out that I'm pregnant. I'm preggers with my ex boyfriends baby who my parents forbayed me to see a long time ago. my ex boyfriend want anything to do with me or a baby. I've decided I'm going to ...
A. 20 October 2009: There really is no easy way. You need to either tell your parents straight out or tell a trusted adult that can intervene for you and talk to your parents with you, like an aunt.
At this point you need to start getting pre-natal care for your... (read in full...)
Should I try to bury the hatchet and send my daughter a card for her 21st???
Q. My daughter's birthday is coming up Monday October 26. She will be 28 years old and she and I don't talk, her decision, not mine. She moved out June 08 and only speaks to my sister. I'm torn whether to send her a birthday card or just ignore it. ...
A. 20 October 2009: Absoulutely send the card. A birthday is not only the day she was born but also the day you gave her life. Maybe this step on your part will be a new beginning also.
If all else fails, at least you tried.... (read in full...)
Is it unusual not to have your father give you away at your wedding and have your brother do it instead?
Q. I'm getting married soon (yay!) and I'm worried about that tradition where the father of the bride gives her away. You see, my dad was never around...I think I've met him on 3 or 4 occasions and never had more than a superficial conversation with ...
A. 11 September 2009: You do what you want to do. You can ask the mailman to give you away if you want to. Go ahead and invite your cousins they are still apart of your family regardless of him. And don't feel bad for not inviting him to the wedding. Was he... (read in full...)
I hate my life, I've ruined it!
Q. here goes i hate my life ! why ? well because im a complete and utter idiot ! 6 years ago i made the mistake of leaving my ex fiance. he was a nice person but didnt really show me any love or affection and i found he let me pay for stuff rather ...
A. 4 September 2009: You left your ex fiance for a reason. Just because your most recent relationship didn't work out dosen't mean that the first one would have. It just means that you need to get up dust yourself off and get back out there in the dating world and try ... (read in full...)
How can I show my daughter that her fiance is an ass?
Q. My daughter is 23 and has been dating "Jason" 25, since high school.I always looked at him as a good kid,a little inmature but figured he would grow up to be a respectful guy. Three weeks ago my daughter came home in tears saying that she she found ...
A. 4 September 2009: If a buck naked video of him having sex with another women just weeks ago didn't do it, I'm afraid there may not be much you can do except support her when she finally gets the "picture". Unfortunantly, she'll have to get it the hard way - ... (read in full...)
My partner broke up with me because her daughter doesn't approve! Should I stick around to see if things change or let go?
Q. I've been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 7 years. We are in love. Her teenage daughter has broken us up as a couple, and says she doesn't want her mom seeing me anymore. My girlfriend basically told me that has to make sure that her daughte...
A. 20 August 2009: It seems to be that she is using her daughter as a scapegoat. If the daughter lives with the father there is no reason why she would have to stop dating you completely. She could see you whenever the daughter is not with her which seems to be most ... (read in full...)
Distance was the problem but I have my license now, should we try again?
Q. Okay well I was going out with this girl for about 8 months and then we broke up because we didn't get to see each other enough. I do still like her however. We still hook up at the discos and stuff but sometimes I just get jealous when I see or ...
A. 20 August 2009: If distance was your only problem, I think you should definitely try again. I would find it sweet that I am still on your mind and I'm sure she would appreciate it too. Drive Safely.... (read in full...)
Christians: is it a sin to have sexual feelings?
Q. as a christian,having feelings of sex when growing up,is it sinful?...
A. 19 August 2009: Having sexual urges is normal for all human beings and is not a sin. But as Christians we must learn to control those feelings until marriage.
Talk to some trusted members of your church, you will see that ALL of them have these feeling. Youn... (read in full...)
My married lover went back to his wife when he said he wouldn't!
Q. I'm in love with a married man. he was thrown out of his home on several occasions. 4 out 7 times he came to live with me. so the last time he said to me he wasn't going back. he did!!! I'm so hurt over it but knows I got to move on ! please help me ...
A. 10 August 2009: He was thrown out of the house and 4 out of 7 times he came to stay with you. Where did he stay the other 3 times? Maybe with his other mistress?
Also, the only reason he stayed with you the times that he did was because his wife kicked him out ... (read in full...)
Why does he always cheat on me?
Q. Six of you kindly replied to my question dated 31st july 2009 about my cheating husband, while i write this my so called loving husband is in bed with the woman who has caused most of my problems. I thought i was just being paranoid about his ...
A. 5 August 2009: Glad to hear it sister!!
You're not going to take it anymore! Good Job.
... (read in full...)
Why does he always cheat on me?
Q. Six of you kindly replied to my question dated 31st july 2009 about my cheating husband, while i write this my so called loving husband is in bed with the woman who has caused most of my problems. I thought i was just being paranoid about his ...
A. 4 August 2009: I'm not really sure what to say. I replied to your last question and advised for you to divorce him. I still say the same thing. I really feel bad for you. You will never be happy with your life until this guy is completely gone from it.
H... (read in full...)
We do 'stuff' and I get an erection. How do I prevent it?
Q. Hi everyone, so ive been dating this girl for a little while now and have decided to not have sex or anything until we're both 16 in october. Anyway, the question is about other stuff....basically we make out, cuddle and stuff and most of the time...
A. 3 August 2009: If I were in a makeout session with a guy and he didn't get aroused, I would think there was something wrong with him.
As it is you are perfectly normal, and most girls would take it as an ego boost that they could get a "rise" out of you.
You w... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I'm excited about my girlfriends pregnancy?
Q. Hi people, Just found out my partner is 4 weeks pregnant. I was just researching about tips for fathering, I researched about males thoughts on pregnancy and alot of it is negative! Some of them say my husband is not excited about our pregnan...
A. 3 August 2009: I believe CONGRATULATIONS are in order.
And NO you are not weird. Babies are a priceless gift from God. And create awsome experiences in life and abundant joy.
Enjoy being a new Daddy!!... (read in full...)
Spooning sex
Q. Alright, so my friend and I are thinking about having sex. She loves it when I hold her tight around the waist and hug her. I've come to the conclusion that we should try spooning. We're both first timers. I heard that this is a very comfortable and ...
A. 3 August 2009: Missionary is acutally the best for first timers. It is more intimate and easier to Maneuver.
Spooning sex actually takes a little more experiance with the person you are with. She has to be in the correct position to receive you, you have to b... (read in full...)
He's leaving to go back to the USA but I want him to stay here with me!
Q. How would i describe the something in my mind. It just happened last week. I met a guy from USA and i am Asian girl i think i love him. At all first met every thing so easy and happy. Miss, love and always talk on phone when we away from each o...
A. 3 August 2009: I'm sorry to say you really only have two choices.
You could move to the US with your BF and do some environmental and human rights work here.
OR
You could say Bye,Bye to the BF it doesn't seem like he's going to change his mind.... (read in full...)
I've done everything so why does my husband keep cheating?
Q. i have been with my husband 23 years and married for 18 years, in the past ten years he has had three affairs and he has always come back to me, but this last one has really got to me. he has been staying at his mums as she has mental health issu...
A. 31 July 2009: You've done everything except take his lying, cheating, lazy, cheap, no count behind to Divorce Court!
I can't tell from your post who assulted you, him or her but whoever it was, you take them to court too. Criminal Court for assult and battery,... (read in full...)
I'm dying with guilt! I feel like I cheated...
Q. Ok this is kind pf complicated but ill try my best to put it in writing ….I was in a long distance relationship and we were totally in love .We meet and after a past abusive relationship I never thought id ever feel for some1 like I did now. His ...
A. 31 July 2009: If I really cared for someone I would do anything in my power to see them and be with them. This guy has turned you away 2 times already and is now coming back for a 3rd try. Live your life, don't feel guilty, and don't put your life on hold ... (read in full...)
Why is life so hard when you've found your soulmate?
Q. What do I do???? I am 45 and in a relationship with an 18 yearold!!! Where do I begin? Well for nearly a 10 months I have been seeing a woman/girl whos is nearly 27 years my junior!!! at first we knew each other as we live close and saw each other ...
A. 30 July 2009: This is not really that hard:
1st - she is 18 years old, an adult (no problem).
I was really feeling for you until I got to your last paragraph and then all sympathy went out the window. I also feel for her parents. I can understand w... (read in full...)
We want to have sex with another couple, is it fair to go ahead without the other husbands permission?
Q. i am 35 years old married person and my wife is 29 years beautiful and charming lady. actually we both like sex very much and we have sex almost daily. now we are feeling to change some the partner for sex not permanent just for change only. we both ...
A. 29 July 2009: What happens if you do just switch without completely convincing him; and you are over there having a merry ole time with this mans wife and he says no to your wife?
Well now you've slept with this mans wife and your wife got nothing. She's pi... (read in full...)
If our ages were reversed, would it be such a problem?
Q. Hello. I have a big question! Last week end i went to a friendly/family reunion for my friend. There was someone really interesting there. We had good conversations over the fire, some lafing, connecting... he is single and so am i... We fond ...
A. 29 July 2009: You are both concenting adults. I say go for it!! Why not?
You've convinced me now you have to convince yourself.... (read in full...)
Should I say goodbye... or should I stay?
Q. In three more days my boyfriend and I are going to be together for one year, we have been living together for about 11 months now and I have a 2 1/2 year old child that is not his. When we first got together we were so happy but here lately there ...
A. 29 July 2009: Without the particulars of what your are fighting about etc. its kind of hard to give good advice. but I will say that ALL relationships are going to hit rough patches and if you love this man like you say, I think you should try and work it out. ... (read in full...)
Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?
Q. This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all ...
A. 28 July 2009: Intercourse! No Contest.... (read in full...)
He slept with 71 women, I've only been with 2 men - am I over reacting?
Q. Ive just found out that my boyfriend of 5 month has slept with 71 women!! I went out with him the other nite and i heard a conversation mentioned bout the number 71 i asked him and he said i was number 72! I feel sick cos i got the impression that ...
A. 25 July 2009: You do have self worth, that's why you're out here talking to us. You know that this is not the life you want.
You can do bad all by yourself, you don't need this creep to help you along. Leave him please. tell him that #75 is signing off. he... (read in full...)
We have an agreement so my wife can have sex with another man, but now he has started to be abusive to her!
Q. I have a new question . My wife has had sex with another guy while we are married. And thats ok with me because i have medical problems that prevent me from getting an erection .AND we both are in agreement about this arrangement so dont preach to ...
A. 24 July 2009: I assume this guy is paying her for keeping his child. If she is working for this man then she needs to get another job. It would be the same on any job you work at, abuse is abuse.
Oh yeah, she should also find someone else to sleep with, no... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!
Q. My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...
A. 24 July 2009: Excellent! Thanks for letting us know that we made a difference, and that you're going to give him the boot.
God Bless!!... (read in full...)
19 and looking to get my tubes tied
Q. I am currently 19 and looking into getting my tubes tied. I know that this is a risky operation and I can blow my chances of ever having children but I am strongly curious about this option. Does anyone know what the chances are of pregnancy after a ...
A. 23 July 2009: Great day in the morning women, don't do this!! This is major surgery. I know someone who had her tubes tied, this was after she had already had two kids and decided she didn't want anymore. Well she eventually met a man and got married and her ... (read in full...)
I need a date for the wedding fast!
Q. Hi! Need a bit of advice please guys and galls, Been invited to a mates wedding at work but the invite is for mke plus partner im single have been for 2 months. I really wanna go to the wedding but cant let my mate down I need to find a date ...
A. 21 July 2009: You don't have to take a love interest. Take a good friend or a relative that you don't mind hanging out with.
Or you could get together with your other co-workers that are going to the wedding and hang out with them.
Or you could go stag. Y... (read in full...)
Foreskin doesn't retract! Help!
Q. i am 20 years old and a hindu. when my penis is erect , my foreskin gets tight and doesnt pull back... plz tell me some soluton to it as i fear that it will affect my married life? [email address removed per DearCupid guidelines] plz r...
A. 21 July 2009: I know a guy who had the same problem as you. He had to get circumcised to remove that skin.
Talk to your doctor see what he says.... (read in full...)
How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?
Q. my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her ...
A. 21 July 2009: That's right rcn!
I dated my boyfriend (now husband) for 3 months. I told my parents that I was meeting some of my friends and going out. finally I decided to bring my boyfrind home to meet my parents so I told my mom that I had met this guy... (read in full...)
How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?
Q. my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her ...
A. 21 July 2009: ha ha ha, I agree with the other posters. She already knows sweetheart. One of your friends put a dirty condom in your bag and it made it all the way home contents in tact. I don't think so, and neither does she.
Maybe she's just letting ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!
Q. My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...
A. 21 July 2009: Get rid of this wierdo. If he's in pain for hours and days, with headaches and muscle cramps; then he needs to see a doctor because there is something wrong with him. Menally and Physically. Think about it what would happen if he didn't have a ... (read in full...)
She's way too pretty for me but I like her!
Q. last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...
A. 20 July 2009: I have seen some beautiful females with some ugly guys. And the first thing you wonder is what in the world is she doing with him. But the fact of the matter is that its not the wrapping that makes a girl swoon, its the present on the inside.
A... (read in full...)
Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?
Q. if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?...
A. 20 July 2009: Yes there is a tool that will detect the hormones that were secreted from your other lover. if the hormones don't match up with the husbands then the detector will alert.
If you believe that, I have a bridge in Brooklyn I want to sell you, I ... (read in full...)
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