Lost my best friend because of her "cousin"
Q. Ok so my bestfriend of almost 3 years ... Just all of a sudden cut me off. Her pretend cousin is like the BOSS of her . She runs her and tells her what to do so I think she played a HUGE part in it ! School starts in august an I just don't want to ...
A. 7 July 2014: You can be friendly without being friends with them. Do that and at the same time focus on making new friends. I had a totally blast my senior year and made lots of friends and lots of memories.... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but this turns men off
Q. I'm a virgin and I plan to stay that way until I'm married. I'm not particularly religious, but I was raised that way and the few times I did try to have sex, it was impossible because I was so tense! The guy got sick of being frustrated (I'd ...
A. 7 July 2014: Are you sure you are bisexual?... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to kiss!
Q. I've been going out with this boy for 3 days, we both want to kiss each other but we're scared what can I do?...
A. 4 July 2014: Humm I wonder if they've kissed yet...check out the date... (read in full...)
My periods have stopped and I don't know why
Q. Hi i was just wondering if anyone knew why my periods have just stopped im 15 they stopped when i was just turning 15 im gonna be 16 this august i havent had underage sex of any kind so i know im not pregnant someone help plz ...
A. 2 July 2014: Have you had a significant weight loss recently? If you are a die hard runner that could be a factor. Your best bet would be to talk to your doctor, ask your parent to make you an appointment. What does your Mom or Dad say about this? You have ... (read in full...)
How do I get the approval of my girlfriend's family and friends?
Q. Three years ago I started dating an amazing girls named Jessica. We had a great relationship, she was sweet, fun no always up for an adventure. You can say I have always flirted with danger, I live for excitement but I needed up getting mixed up ...
A. 2 July 2014: By staying clean and sober that's how you will be able show everyone you've really changed your life around. Test of time kind of thing.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to be a Male escort ...
Q. I have just discovered that my boyfriend is taking a part time job as a Male escort , and would consent to having sex with another woman . He was honest with me , but I feel hurt and betrayed knowing he will not be faithful to me . He cl...
A. 2 July 2014: There wouldn't be enough time in the world for me to come to terms about this if I were in your shoes. Surely he can find a more acceptable part time job. Insist that he does or dump him.... (read in full...)
He told me he liked me but he has a girlfriend. Why did he do that?
Q. I liked a guy and I told him how I felt and he told me that he felt the same way. about a week later he told me he had a girlfriend. I asked him why he did it and he told me because they liked each other. So then why didn't he ask me out? Should I ...
A. 2 July 2014: Do your parents allow to you to date?... (read in full...)
What do you think of this married man who gets attracted to all beautiful woman he finds?
Q. At my workplace, there is a handsome man but he is married. He is of the cheating type. He is a player. At one moment he would be attracted to a particular woman and then when he sees another more appealing woman, he will be attracted to this woman. ...
A. 30 June 2014: I'm with SVC, (good call by the way) just why are you going after this man and that woman? What's your agenda?... (read in full...)
Why does he want pictures of me if he isn't going to save them?
Q. My friend and i started out as just co-workers and then started talking more and eventually things led to where we started talking about him taking my virginity and he would ask me for private or "personal" pictures and I was hesitant at first ...
A. 30 June 2014: This op is all over the board, just look at her posts. Too trollish.... (read in full...)
I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?
Q. My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with ...
A. 29 June 2014: You need to check into all your options so start your research. But the fact that you have an underage child is key, he will at least have to provide for her. Lawyers often offer free consultations so check into that. In my state a wife was able to ... (read in full...)
Is giving a blow job to another guy cheating? My Bf is getting all worked up about what I did.
Q. This is just a quick one so you guys can help see my bf that he is over reacting. We've been going out for just over 1 year and we are very much in love. at the start of the relationship we did everything that we could possibly do both socially an...
A. 29 June 2014: Well the problem is solved and everyone is happy. So ends one of the dumbest questions that ever showed up at DC.... (read in full...)
How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me
Q. Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without...
A. 28 June 2014: Cindy I used to blast "Girls Just Want To Have Fun" out of my office every Friday afternoon at 5 minutes to 5. Was told to quit because somebody complained...still looking for the son of a bitch... (read in full...)
He's 18. It feels right but wrong. How should I handle this considering that I live in a very closed community?
Q. Hi i really need advice on this,i feel so confused.. I recently met my best friend's cousin and i knew the minute i saw him that i liked him,i feel so attracted to him It's like nothing i have ever experienced.. The problem is he is 18!! A Also i...
A. 28 June 2014: If you are willing to risk losing your best friend then go for it. But as the owl said don't sneak around be up front about it. What have you got to lose except according to you maybe your best friend?... (read in full...)
My online boyfriend shouts at me and hangs up, but I am lonely without him
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy. We came to know each other through online dating website. It's been 1 year we have still not meet each other. In the initial 2-3 months he was very loving. He made me feel true love. He has been going through ...
A. 28 June 2014: You feel miserable and he gets his phone bill paid. You get verbally abused and he gets his phone bill paid. You sit home every night by your phone and he gets his phone bill paid.... (read in full...)
It's like I don't exist when his child is visiting
Q. Hi everyone. I would like to ask for advice on dealing with my boyfriends behaviour. We have been together 3 years, not living together. He is fun and good company, cooks meals and helps clean up, he is attractive and we seem to have had good ...
A. 28 June 2014: The child came before you in his life. The child is here to stay in his life. Suck it up or end the relationship. If you always expect to be the center of attention it ain't gonna happen in this relationship.... (read in full...)
How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me
Q. Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without...
A. 28 June 2014: In this day of instant communication the MIL certainly could have contacted you for permission. I agree with the aunts who have told you to tell her that in the future you want to be consulted regarding any non routine decisions concerning your ... (read in full...)
What's this woman's problem with me?
Q. Can i ask a question here for other women please, i usually dress with jeans and a low cut top, or if am wearing a skirt i make sure my chest is fully covered, so i don't think i dress trashy at all tbh, i look around at girls my own age and are all ...
A. 27 June 2014: Next time she offers you unsolicited advice politely say, "thank you, I'll keep it in mind". Then ignore it and go about your business. Water off a duck's back, my dear.... (read in full...)
Could this be a learning disability?
Q. I'm 23 and for some strange reason I've always struggled with my learnng throughout life. I fear I may be dyslexic, infact thats incorrect, I don't fear the fact of being dyslexic, I fear I will never find out whats wrong with me. I recently los...
A. 26 June 2014: You sound just like my daughter-in-law. She has been diagnosed with ADD and is now on meds which have made a HUGE difference in her life. Make a doctor's appointment ASAP.... (read in full...)
He went away without me and I feel like I need to even the score
Q. My BF of a year and a half is away for a month. Visiting family in South America. I am not going because I have no $$. He knows this and still went for a month without me. I am hurt and jealous and annoyed. It comes after several rocky months of him ...
A. 25 June 2014: Oops and agree with my pal Cindy, who slipped in while I was responding.... (read in full...)
He went away without me and I feel like I need to even the score
Q. My BF of a year and a half is away for a month. Visiting family in South America. I am not going because I have no $$. He knows this and still went for a month without me. I am hurt and jealous and annoyed. It comes after several rocky months of him ...
A. 25 June 2014: Sure hope you clicked the wrong age bracket. But anyway I totally agree with the owl and Mark, you are acting immature, needy, and are obviously annoying your boyfriend. Sooner than later I think you will be going on a very, very, very long vacation ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for extremely painful periods?
Q. Help! My periods are awful! They are so painful. I am currently on Tranexamic tablets for when I am on my period. It was okay when I first started them, but now they do not seem to be helping anymore. I went onto the pill and tried a few but I wa...
A. 25 June 2014: We aren't doctors, and that is exactly who you need to talk to about this. I'm sure there will be something he/she can do for you.... (read in full...)
How to get over this fall out with my uncle?
Q. Hi I had a 'fall out' with my uncle back in September last year and since then he has just totally ignored/blanked me....when before he wuld have spoken to come and not walk past and totally ignore me. It all started when he said I need to 'earn ...
A. 24 June 2014: I guess it's maybe in the way you refused. A curt "No" would most likely piss off most adults when they ask something from a younger family member. If you were polite and respectful in your refusal then maybe I would just let it go and wait for your ... (read in full...)
How to get over this fall out with my uncle?
Q. Hi I had a 'fall out' with my uncle back in September last year and since then he has just totally ignored/blanked me....when before he wuld have spoken to come and not walk past and totally ignore me. It all started when he said I need to 'earn ...
A. 24 June 2014: Do you pay any room/board with your earned income?... (read in full...)
Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?
Q. I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...
A. 23 June 2014: Is this a real post? Sheesh.... (read in full...)
My partner's lifestyle has me completely turned off
Q. I've been with an individual for over 11 years. We have one amazing son together, but I feel like our son is what/who keeps us together(now).I was never physically attracted to my partner. I fell in love with how safe I felt with him,how gentle he ...
A. 22 June 2014: Are you just venting or do you really need some advice? I hate to have the Aunts and Uncles spend time when all you want is to get it off your chest and continue on.... (read in full...)
My friend is copying me! it is annoying me!
Q. This is so annoying. My friend is copying my piercing - I know there are many out there who have the second lobe piercing. She is copying me because I've been deciding if I wanted the second piercing done now for about a couple of years and finally ...
A. 21 June 2014: Why are you friends with someone who has betrayed you numerous times in the first place? You can pick your friends, not family but definitely friends.... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on the Mrs. America Pagaent?
Q. I was wondering what people actually thought about the MRS America contest. Do people think it is a good thing for married women to try out for or do they feel sorry for these women trying out or that they may have self esteem issues and need ...
A. 19 June 2014: As long as world peace is the focus I'm all for pageants of any kind.... (read in full...)
Was the choice I made cowardly or sensible?
Q. A few nights ago, I took my girlfriend out to eat. It was about 1:30 in the morning when we left home, and yes there are restaurants open at that time. I've never personally been to the place but my friend recommend it with high praise. We were on ...
A. 19 June 2014: Discretion is the better part of valor.... (read in full...)
Why do so many women have issues with men watching porn?
Q. I'm just a bit curious. I dont understand why some women get mad just because they caught their husbands/bfs watching porn? what's the deal? I used to watch porn with my bf, I dont see the big deal... It doesnt bother me... but why does it bother o...
A. 19 June 2014: Go to the porn section of this site and you'll see all kinds of different reasons why some women don't like porn.... (read in full...)
Wondering about the "swinging" lifestyle
Q. My wife told me one of her friends recently confided in her that she and her husband have been visiting swingers clubs over the past few months. It started off with her fantasies to have two men at once, but since then has escalated and both of them ...
A. 17 June 2014: No. And it might not only not be healthy for the psyche, it may also not be healthy for your marriage or your health.... (read in full...)
Were there enough red flags on this first date to justify no second one?
Q. So, I went on a first date with this guy tonight, and, while he was a nice enough guy (easy to talk to, interesting), there were a couple of things that seemed like red flags. We met up in an area where there were lots of restaurants in o...
A. 15 June 2014: He sounds kind of weird but I probably would give him another date before I throw him back in the pond.... (read in full...)
My husband is masturbating ALL the time!
Q. My husband is masturbating ALL the time. He does it 3-4 times a day during the work week and more on weekends. We will just be sitting there enjoying a movie and I'll look over and he's doing it. We have sex regularly. We've had it four times this ...
A. 14 June 2014: I too wonder if this is new behavior for him. If it is then he needs professional help to get at the root cause. (No pun). If it isn't then why on earth did you marry this guy?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps looking at attractive women no matter where we are and its making me lose my self-confidence
Q. I have been dating a guy for two months who I get on well with and really fancy. However, when we are out together he seems to notice every young attractive woman in sight. He doesn't stare but he does notice them and keep looking at them if we are ...
A. 14 June 2014: Tell him in no uncertain terms that if he can't refrain from this behavior when you two are out and about together, it's over. Repeated rudeness is most definitely a deal breaker in my book.... (read in full...)
What should I ask for as an entry level salary?
Q. I'm graduating from college soon and applying to starting positions like Sales Coordinator, Executive Assistant, etc. I don't mind my first job not being ideal; I just want to gain experience and look better on paper. I have only worked in food ...
A. 12 June 2014: Do some research online. Check out similar companies and what similar jobs they are offering and at what salaries. That should more or less get you into the right ballpark figure.... (read in full...)
Should people have to change their personalities for others?
Q. Hello people. I was reading an article about relationships today, and it said that you can't go into a relationship expecting that you won't need to adjust your personality. This seems like a pile of horse turds to me, but I was wondering what y...
A. 8 June 2014: After being married for 39 years, both my husband and myself have most definitely adapted and changed over the years. Certainly any real personality changes were done voluntarily since I can't come up with an example. The secret is finding the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend enjoys looking at other women. Is she bisexual?
Q. My girlfriend has suddenly enjoying looking (or maybe leching) other girls when we go out. Every guy loves looking at sexy girls with nice boobs and sexy feet and shoes. My girlfriend also has started enjoying looking at them and admiring them with ...
A. 8 June 2014: Maybe she is just beating you at your own game.
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I feel like men don't want to enter a relationship with me because I have a child.
Q. I'll try to keep this short. I'm 25 years old and I have a 6 year old daughter I've been dating for the past 4 years since I split from her father. The problem I'm having is I feel like men don't want to enter a relationship with me because I have a ...
A. 3 June 2014: My daughter was divorced with two sons when she met her current husband. They both are very happy and now have a total of 5 kids. My other daughter's husband has a son from a previous marriage and they now have a total of 5 kids as well. So tell ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always broke and using me for money.
Q. I have a bf and lately i noticed that he was always broke..he borrowed money and doesnt bother in paying..now he uses my phone line and it was cut due to overlimit and up to this time he didnt settle the bill its late for 2 weeks already and the ...
A. 3 June 2014: You are allowing this to happen. Just say no. You'll find right quick whether he's just using you or truly does care about your relationship.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to cope with these feelings of being too small!
Q. I need to know who feels the same and how to get rid of these feelings. I feel below women who are more attractive than me (pornstars, glamour models) I feel like they have more power over men, it hurts me. I feel small. I want a boob job. I'm ...
A. 17 May 2014: Do some googling on botched Breast enlargement surgeries, if that doesn't change your mind I don't know what would...(shudder)
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What to say to this inquisitive but kind work colleague?
Q. a woman at my workplace similar age to me (35-40) may at times asks me what I think of my colleagues, she has only been working at my workplace a few months and I dont know her well and dont work everyday with her, but I do li...
A. 14 May 2014: I agree with my pals Cindy and Honeypie, you are responding to her just fine, keep it up, she will eventually stop trying to pump you for info on your co-workers.... (read in full...)
I want to stay friends with 'the other woman' but she says she hates me
Q. I am a separated male who still is friendly with my wife, we have 2 beautiful teenage girls and we remain very close after 6 years of separation. We still share family vacations and days out as a family and even the bed 1 - 2 times a month. I live...
A. 14 May 2014: "I don't want to lose the friendship. We both know and understand each other so well. Please advise."
First off the so called friendship doesn't exist anymore if it ever did. You obviously don't know and understand her at all or you wouldn't be i... (read in full...)
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