Should I break up with my husband?
Q. Hi everyone, I am thinking of leaving my husband, he is an only child and of course which is natural, his mother thinks the world of him. We got married less that 2 years ago, dont have sex anymore, he walked out on me before, but we managed...
A. 3 June 2008: Ask yourself this, could you imagine life without him? Do you still love him? He's willing to move back with you so he sounds more committed in this relationship, i wouldn't worry too much about the photographs, his mother obviously,hasn't let go of ... (read in full...)
How to set up a watching game?
Q. Can those who have watched their wives doing it with other men, give me some advise on how best to set about arranging such action?...
A. 3 June 2008: Do you really need to be told? Is your wife happy with you arranging men to shag her? If so, im sure there is web sites that cater for this,or in certain magazine adverts. Can i just warn you though, while you will be acting out your fantasies, ... (read in full...)
I happened to see my son masturbating and don't quite know what to do about it!
Q. I am a mother of 2 kids, 11 year old boy and 8 year old girl. My husband is on a business tour and will be back only after two months. Couple of days back I happened to see my son doing masterbation in his bedroom. He does not know that I have seen ...
A. 3 June 2008: Masturbation is perfectly normal and at 11 years of age,that is not uncommon to be doing this. He's growing up and why embarrass him by telling him you have seen him? What will you achieve? Its normal............. (read in full...)
I want to leave my partner, and this country, but our children complicate things!
Q. I want to leave my partner , but what makes it so difficult is that I’m from a different country and we also have two young children with a third on the way. When I leave my partner I don’t wish to stay in Australia. I have no social network here ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hey! lets not rush things here, your pregnant here and your emotions are all over the place, are you sure you want to leave your partner? If you want to leave then i would suggest you wait until the baby is born and even then,that would be too ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he doesn't offer me oral any longer! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore. He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't...
A. 1 May 2008: Crikey, sorry to sound prudish but im looking at your age here, your only 13? your far too young for oral sex and how old is your boyfriend....forget i asked that, slow down girl, whats the rush? You want to run before you can walk. Please, please ... (read in full...)
What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?
Q. What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal se...
A. 30 April 2008: I wouldn't read into too much, he probably gets turned on by saying that,because he wants to be dominant....its just a phrase........ (read in full...)
How can I stop my Husband beating me?
Q. How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...
A. 30 April 2008: How do you stop him from beating you?.....Get out now...walk away, you have to leave him otherwise the next time he could kill you. No man should hit a woman, he doesn't love you, he wants to control you. Isn't there any place you can stay,where ... (read in full...)
She says she's going to leave her husband for me, but I'm not sure, neither me or her husband deserve this, should I say enough is enough?
Q. i am having an affair with a married girl , i have tried to end it cause i love her but she cannot be with me . but she came right bk the next day saying she had made a mistake to let me go , and i am the only one she wants so i took her bk , and ...
A. 12 December 2007: I get the impression that your married lover is dangling you on a piece of string, she says she will leave him,so why in the hell is she going on holiday with him? it doesn't add up.She's getting the best of 2 worlds, she has the stability of a ... (read in full...)
I suspected he is a player, but we have really connected and are taking it slowly, am I just his bootie call?
Q. I met this guy about a month ago, hated him at first, he screamed player to me, however after getting to know him I began to like him and have slept with him twice. Both times we connected emotionally as well as sexually. I dont know where we're ...
A. 12 December 2007: Its hard to say, but judging by his history,i would tread very carefully. This guy only see's you every 5 days so he's not exactely, breaking your door down to see you.Take it slowly,your doing that now but if you feel that in 6 months time its ... (read in full...)
How can I support her without giving off mixed signals??
Q. First a little background: I am happily married with 3 children. About 3 months ago a young woman started working in another department in my company. Due to her job, I see her several times a day, and over time I became quite friendly with her, ...
A. 22 November 2007: Well i feel sorry if she's feeling depressed but its hardly your fault. Your a happily married man,end of. You dont need to justify yourself and your not responsible for her happiness. What might happen is if you show a bit of kindness she could ... (read in full...)
It's difficult to leave, hot to save myself?
Q. hie how do you let go of a guy who you know is just using you but does not love you who wants sex from you only but you want more from him, i have tried leaving such a guy but its been difficult.how do i save myself?...
A. 10 November 2007: Sounds to me like your craving for someone to love you and by having sex with them,that will answer all your prays.Trouble is,its not working like that,is it? Maybe your giving yourself too quickly to the 1st bloke that comes along? You need to ... (read in full...)
I helped a disabled girl-was it the wrong thing to do?
Q. I have a friend who nobody likes because she isn't fake like everyone else; she doesn't wear her hair like them, or make-up, or talk like they've never heard English before. She is very shy and only wants to be liked because she has no friends but ...
A. 10 November 2007: With a friend like that,who needs enemies? Your so called best friend is a arrognant,selfish,uncaring little girl,who needs to grow up. And as for the gang who was pushing her,well they need stringing up. What you did was correct,you helped that ... (read in full...)
Should I end my current relationship and hook up with the new girl?
Q. I've been in a relationship just over a year now, it's a rocky relationship at best and more then once has nearly ended but that's not the problem..... A few weeks ago I went back to college and I met this other girl in college. We haven’t slept...
A. 9 November 2007: Well the decision lies with you at the end of the day.If you dont love your girlfriend,or your arguing all the time,then it sounds to me like this relationship has run its course.Your already making eyes with someone else,so it looks like you have ... (read in full...)
Could this be a mommy complex?
Q. hello, My boyfriend of 3 months has a peculiar fetish that turns him on like nothing else I've tried: he likes it when I smoke. He likes it a little too much (to the point that were I to parade in all my naked glory suggestively, it would still n...
A. 29 October 2007: There's nothing wrong in having a few fetishes,but its only troublesome when he expects it everytime he has sex with you....its not only boring for you but it can become a unhealthy obsession where your boyfriend cannot get a erection unless your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving away, I'm staying put, is this the end for us?
Q. Oh, I'm desperate! My boyfriend and I have been "together" for almost 9 months now. He decided against coming to school in the town I live, and is interviewing for jobs in his own country- and that's far away! He always told me that he didn't ...
A. 28 October 2007: Well it doesn't sound like he is making much sacrifices for you,now is he. Its all what he wants....sounds a bit selfish to me. He doesn't even compromise. So to put it in a nutshell,your not too keen to move....and neither is him,so what does that ... (read in full...)
I feel like an addict
Q. Hey Cupids, Why cant I just let go! Even through my ex walked all over my heart and totally took my feelings for granted I still think about her all the time and am fighting the urge to pick up the phone and call her! I have the possibility...
A. 28 October 2007: This is no good,how can you have a proper relationship with anyone else,if you keep running back to her........and she knows it.This woman sounds imbalanced and you cant let go. I suggest you cut all contact with her,that means no emails,no txt ... (read in full...)
Umm ... was it sex?
Q. my boyfriends and i were fooling around the other night. it started as just humping, i had no underwear on, but he had boxers on. Then he took them off. we did the same humping motion, and his penis touched my vagina, an went in, but i dont know if ...
A. 28 October 2007: If he penetrated you,then yes,you had sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for both, should I let one go?
Q. I had fallen for a guy in the city where I used to live. But because I was moving, we never have made anything more of our relationship but have kept in close contact. I began dating someone 2 months ago where I now live. I'm so torn between who I ...
A. 27 October 2007: Stick with the 2nd guy.......the 1st one isn't going anywhere,it never did.....he's just seems more appealing because you cant have him.Give the 2nd guy a chance,if you really have strong feelings for him,it will grow into love.... (read in full...)
Do you think he really loved me??
Q. Me and my boyfriend was having a affair! He lived with me for bit but then went back for the kids he said! Anyway we kept seein each other for past 7mths! We had a row and was made now he doesnt want to know me! He replies me txts sometime...
A. 2 September 2007: Not many married men leave their wives for their mistresses,why would they? If this man truely loved you then wild horses wouldn't keep him away.But he has walked out to be with his wife and kids and your back to square 1 again.I suggest you to stop ... (read in full...)
I have come to realise no matter how much he means to me I can't come to terms with the fact he has kids (he is divorced). Should I leave?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship of two years with a man who I get on really well with. We never argue, laugh alot together, and the sexual chemistry is strong. He is 12 years older than me and has two grown up children (16 and 20). He just recently got ...
A. 2 September 2007: Whats more important to you? Having children or him? You probably need some more time to think.Your 32 years old so if you were to meet another man then you would have to expect some baggage.A man in his 30's is either going to have a child or two ... (read in full...)
I love him but I can't trust him. Will he do the same to me that he did to his ex gf?
Q. Ok, I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on two years now, but we have only seen each other once in the last eleven months for we have a long distance relationship. I know he loves me and I love him. But I don't know if I should trust him ...
A. 5 May 2007: Sorry if im going to sound blunt with you but i cannot see this relationship lasting.You said you have only seen your boyfriend once in the last 11 months,which to me isn't a proper relationhip.I know your very keen on him but the distance is too ... (read in full...)
He still wants me even when his wife is with him!!
Q. I have been seeing a man for a year now and he works here but from another country. He told me last year that he was married and if I wanted to go I could.I love him to much and couldn't go away.I asked did he want that I go bye and he said no ...
A. 5 May 2007: This man is using you for a bit of excitement in his life and while your offering the goods then he's going to just take.He has no intention of leaving his wife or kids,why should he? He's getting the best of two worlds.Dont put up with being 2nd ... (read in full...)
He says: There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE"... views?
Q. I am dating a guy who said, There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE" I am not sure how to take this. Part of me thinks this is a great thing because he is confident and he ...
A. 5 May 2007: Doesn't this bloke love himself?...It sounds to me like you should be grateful and honoured that he's giving you his precious time,what a massive ego he has and yes,i would agree with Dr Psych and that he probably suffers from a touch of ... (read in full...)
Is this guy just using me, or does he like me ? What would this conversation tell you ?
Q. This is a conversation i had with a guy i liked, i get most of it but not all.Is he using me? Does he like me? Just please tell me what he means? Me: What do you think of me? Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate? Me: What am...
A. 30 April 2007: Well it sounds to me like he is using you for sex...why? Because he doesn't see you as a girlfriend but a person to have a leg over once in a while.Lose him.... (read in full...)
He did reply to say he was busy, do you think this is a blow off, or do I still stand a chance ?
Q. a few weeks ago i sent this text to a man i really do like it read, sorry for texting you yesterday i was a little anxious, i know you are a busy man and it wont happen again i must be getting on your nerves, i bet i have put you off that drink now ...
A. 14 April 2007: Ask him again when he wants to meet up for a drink....if he gives out the same excuse then you will know he's not interested.... (read in full...)
Is it true that emotional attachments tend to destroy the creativity of a human being?
Q. Is it true that emotional attachments tend to destroy the creativity of a human being? I am not sure but have felt like this a few times, for in emotional attachment, there are so many do's and do not's that one may feel trapped altogether to have ...
A. 10 March 2007: I agree with the other agony aunts on here but it sounds to me like you would rather be on your own because it sounds like you resent the fact that being in a relationship and getting emotionally involved makes you feel trapped and therefore no room ... (read in full...)
Our sex life is almost non existent, he says he's "going through something", I can't handle it much longer...
Q. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 32, we have been together for almost 2 yrs., lately our sexual activities have been few and far between. He says its because he is "going through something", I guess like a midlife crisis. But, its been like this for ...
A. 10 March 2007: Its a bit premature for your boyfriend to have a mid life crisis as he's only 32,that sort of thing only happens when you reach 40 and onwards.You deserve to know what's going on in his head as you have been together for 2 years,so dont be fobbed ... (read in full...)
Ifa girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks, (no contact at all) does that mean he's a bit of a player?
Q. If a girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks (absolutely no contact at all, no texts, no phone calls, no MSN, no emails) does that mean (he's a bit of a player) that he is leading a double life or has got something to hide? When he does say ...
A. 26 February 2007: Well it could be a number of things but my money is on him either having another girlfriend already or he's living with someone,or even married with kids. Another reason why he doesn't contact her for such a while is because he's not really that ... (read in full...)
Going out of my mind over my workmate!
Q. I am totally going out of my mind for this guy i work with, who is 30. I have been working there since the summer and am not a permanent member of staff. At first i thought he diden't like me, then something happened, he started acting differently ...
A. 18 February 2007: Im surprised he hasn't made the 1st move yet?..The man is 30 years old,so he's not a 16 year old teenager.If you feel that he does like you then take it to the next level and ask him out for a drink at lunch time...strike while the irons hot,if he ... (read in full...)
Do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?
Q. Hi there...do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?...
A. 28 January 2007: Big deal....your only talking a 8 year age difference.So what? Your 2 grown adults so whats the problem? Iv dated much older men that that,so dont fret.... (read in full...)
He doesn't answer his phone and makes up excuses as to why he's late. Is it b/c he's older?
Q. hi im 18 my boyfriend is 25.i love him and we get on really well.but he lets me down alot if he goes out he doesnt answer hes phone to me and makes up an excuse why he was late. hes not very romantic either do u think its because he is alot older ...
A. 22 January 2007: No,it hasn't got nothing to do with his age. Now it could be a number of things,1st you might be becoming very needy and constantly phoning him when he is going out on the days he doesn't see you....if he's late on dates,how late are we talking ... (read in full...)
He's married but will he call me back for a repeat performance?
Q. Question about behaviour of married men.. should I expect a phone call out of the blue in the future from a man I met a little while ago (one night stand, apparently intense feelings on both sides)looking for a repeat performance? Am not familiar ...
A. 21 January 2007: What made you think this bloke had strong feelings for you?
All you were to him was a quick leg over then back to his wife......yes he might come back for seconds but you wont gain nothing out of it,especially if you start to get really keen on him.... (read in full...)
He tells me to grow out my hair and compares me to others. Now he's picky about what I eat! Is this headed into an abusive relationship?
Q. My now fiance always tells me that I should grow my hair long (like how I used to have it). He'll even point out different girls and say things like "You should grow it that long." It made me mad so finally I said something, and he ignored me for ...
A. 15 January 2007: Control freak alert!!!!...Get out now,this man is not the ticket.How about you turned the tables round and told him to lose a few pounds,grow a moustache so that he looks like Tom Selleck from Magnum then bung him a fiver and tell him to go out and ... (read in full...)
Me and my ex are friends with benefits... And now my forthright text made him uncomfortable!
Q. Me and my ex are friends wit benefits. Niether of us dont want a relationship or are messin with no one else. Well earlier 2day i txt him sayin i wanted his body and that i was horny and wanted to gave him head and i asked him if i could. Well he ...
A. 15 January 2007: When you txt him,telling him that you wanted to "give him head" he didn't reply because he was not in the mood,or he was tied up in something else.Now what puzzles me is you said that you two were just friends with benefits with no strings ... (read in full...)
Should I believe that he didn't do anything last night?
Q. My b/f did not want to do anything last night. He lives about 30 minutes from me. I dont drive. He says he just feels beat up/tired and doesnt feel like driving anywhere. So we didnt do anything. I feel somewhat suspicious but feel i shouldnt. I ...
A. 14 January 2007: Well its hard to say whether he was telling the truth or not but lets presume he was.Why would it be strange if he wanted to have a quiet night in? Does he work? Maybe he was very tired and wasn't up to driving.If you start calling him every so ... (read in full...)
He's emotionally unavailable, rarely sees me and lets me down at the last minute..a lot! Stay or walk away?
Q. I have been having seeing a man on and off for a number of years. Orginally we started dating for a couple of years and although we did sleep together in the same bed we never had sex becuase he said he didn't want to take advantage of me. He went ...
A. 14 January 2007: Sounds like he is either married or he has a girlfriend.If he hasn't,he seems rather strange to me.What a feeble excuse to say that he wouldn't have sex with you even though you shared the same bed...how bizarre? This man doesn't want a proper ... (read in full...)
He keeps touching my vagina.... why!?
Q. My problem is this, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he has this habit of constantly touching my private parts (vagina), he says that it is his to touch, this is really starting to irritate me, I have spoken to him about it before ...
A. 14 January 2007: Sorry but i dont agree with what Docsilverback has said.You are not a piece of meat and if you were to keep pulling his todger at shopping centres....the local library,his parents house in the street,how would he like it.This man doesn't care about ... (read in full...)
Why does he like to ejaculate on my belly?
Q. Can you tell me why the man in my life always ejaculates all over my stomach, what does it mean?...
A. 14 January 2007: It might be because you are not using any contraception and so therefore he doesn't want you to get pregnant?....Or he might get turned on seeing himself ejaculate on top of you the list is endless.Ask him,its better coming from him then us because ... (read in full...)
Why did my cheating ex-lover say he wanted to be friends then decide to cut all ties?
Q. 2 years ago I started dating a guy, he is a long distance lorry driver and we only saw each other at the weekends. He has recently left a 10 year marriage and was lodging with his best mate. We had a great time every weekend out drinking and ...
A. 14 January 2007: When i read this it sounded to me like you felt it was all your fault that if you never checked his stuff or didn't lose your temper that you two might be still together...wrong! This man was and still is a player,not happy with one woman he has a ... (read in full...)
My parents found out I am having sex-now they won't speak to me! What should I do?
Q. My mom and dad found out about me havin sex, now they are not talkin to me, when i try to, they ignore me..i just cant cope with it no more, i thought that they wud understand..but i guess not=(.. help me plz!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx...
A. 13 January 2007: My darling,judging by your age you are too young to be having sex.Your parents are shocked and dont know how to approach you....they will in due time come round hopefully but i think that you will find that they are worried about you and feel ... (read in full...)
He keeps touching my vagina.... why!?
Q. My problem is this, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he has this habit of constantly touching my private parts (vagina), he says that it is his to touch, this is really starting to irritate me, I have spoken to him about it before ...
A. 13 January 2007: He's just a dirty little git who thinks your just a sex object.You have told him a million times about this but its going in one ear and out the other.Tell him for the last time that you dont like him doing it and if he still fails to listen then ... (read in full...)
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