How can I overcome irritation when she doesn't call as promised?
Q. Women not returning calls. I would like some advice on what do when a lady promises to call even though she knows she won't call. I have a friend who is a girl. Whenever she has an academic need she bombards my phone with calls. In fact one day ...
A. 4 November 2009: Forget her....she's just not that into you...and do you want luke warm relationships? There's a user born every minute...Lose her and meet someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.... (read in full...)
Is he not that interested in me or is he bad at staying in touch for other reasons?
Q. I work with a guy whom I am interested in. Lately I have shown this by meeting up and spending a few hours together. Problem is, he's got a history of depression (which he has apparently got over now) and bullying which makes him rather reserved, ...
A. 4 November 2009: Its hard to say, it could be the depression thats making him act the way he is with you, but if you want to test the waters, i suggest you invite him out for a coffee or a meal, nothing too heavy and agree to meet up, rather then pussyfooting around ... (read in full...)
Do you think I am a slut?
Q. Do you think I am a slut? I have been flirting with this guy for years, he likes me because I am shy, we have kissed a couple of times, we get on really well and very recently we were kissing and as we were kissing he asked me to make him cum, wh...
A. 23 October 2009: No, your not a slut, you have been interested in this guy for years and only now it went a step further and become more sexual,trouble is i think this fella is using you....Reason being,he hasn't asked you out on a date even though its obvious that ... (read in full...)
I came clean to him about how I felt, and he still hasn't replied! I thought we were friends!
Q. i have been seeing a man for two years, i suppose u can call it friends with benefits, i have always felt he only wants to see me for a quicki. but we have built a good friendship up, i have had a 6 month relationship during this friendship, with ...
A. 15 October 2009: I shall tell you why he hasn't responded to you...the man doesn't give a damn about you,im sorry to be blunt but he see's you as just a leg over...you have been pregnant twice by him and all he does is sends his regards....who in the hell needs ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me saying "she just doesn't want to be in a relationship"..I don't get it!
Q. Dear Cupid, I met the love of my life 14 months ago. At first I wasn't sure I wanted to get involved. But she did all the right things to woo me, until she got me to fall for her. After I fell in love with her, she started distancing herse...
A. 8 October 2009: Its hard isn't it? You fall in love, you expect your partner to feel the same,and when they dont, your lost..you feel empty and i know you feel very sad.This woman should of had the decency to tell you face to face but instead she took the cowards ... (read in full...)
This married man has really got me confused big time.
Q. No moral judgements please it's to late for that. 30yrs ago i met a married man we had a 3yr affair,i moved away that ended it. now 6yrs ago we catch up again and we have started this all over again,he is still married i am not,the thing is i have a...
A. 5 October 2009: I cannot add too much to your problem because most of it has been said by the other agony aunts and uncles...BUT to be honest with you...there's not many married men who do leave their wives for their mistress and if he has children then its mostly ... (read in full...)
I was doing so well getting over him but all my hard work has been undone
Q. 2 years ago i fell in love, it was amazing, i had never met anyone like him,. everyone said we made the perfect couple, and we were so happy. we went out for a year, but towards the last month he said that it was going to quick, he was too young ...
A. 5 October 2009: Cant you see a pattern here?...your ex throws a few crumbs and you come running.He is without a doubt, using you...Please, please, stop sleeping with him...how will you ever get over him if you are having sex together? You are too emotionally ... (read in full...)
It appears to be over, but I have no closure...
Q. Okay, so a beautiful relationship I was in ended badly. We were together for a little over two months, but I poured my heart and soul into the realationship during that time. After she did many hurtful things to me in the last few weeks, she call...
A. 11 September 2009: Looks like she has changed her mind about you but didn't have the guts to tell you,thats why she is ignoring you.She would of got your emails and definately your text messages but she has had a change of heart. Long distant relationships can work ... (read in full...)
Hung up and don't know what to do...
Q. I have a situation with the girl I am in a relationship with. I am 40 and she is 43. Most of the time she is very sweet, has a tone about her that is just so cute to me. But other times she gets in a mood where she just demands that I do things, ...
A. 21 June 2009: Have you always had trouble with getting an erection or was it after meeting her? Either way you need to see your doctor and he will help you with the best treatment.Your girlfriend isn't very understanding so is it any wonder why you dont get the ... (read in full...)
Am I being too cold towards him?
Q. Hi, I had met a wonderful guy from internet, we date once, on the whole it was nice, he's a gentle and caring guy, I shall say he is a potential guy that I'm longing for...as I'm a abit shy towards new friend, most of the time he talked and I jus...
A. 16 June 2009: Im taking a wild guess here because i dont know what this guy is thinking but i really dont think he's that into you.The reason i think that is he's not consistent enough. He says one thing then does another. If i was you i would stop all contact ... (read in full...)
Together for 3 years and still no sex, what should I do?
Q. So I have been dating a girl for almost 3 years. From day one she was against oral sex, which is fine. But I believed that after dating for a while she would be willing to have sex....3 years later an this has not happened yet. Basically, I am ...
A. 14 June 2009: I must admit, its abit strange that after 3 years she wont have sex with you, is she religious and only believes in sex after marriage? You really need to talk to her because your both adults and you are definately not a pervert, i think you have ... (read in full...)
Had a great time together, but he didn't text me later. Now what?
Q. i'm 15. ok so my friend told the guy i liked that i liked him. me and the guy i liked texted all day and he asked me out by text. i told him i wanted to be asked in person. so then he took back the question. the next day he didn't text me at all so ...
A. 14 June 2009: Im so glad im not 15 anymore, you see the trouble with 15 year old male teenagers is they say one thing and do another, he probably did enjoy your company but if you dont hear from him after 3 days or so then i say he has lost interest...or the guy ... (read in full...)
Is he just using me to get physical?
Q. I just wanted some advice, because I really feel like my bf is jst using me. We knew each other really well b4 we went on our first proper 'date' and by the end of it we were snogging. Since then we have had abt 5/6 dates and every time he just ...
A. 12 June 2009: Does this fella take you anyway? or is it up a back alleyway somewhere? It does sound like he is using you and why should he be disappointed if you dont put out? He should be happy enough just to get to know you first, but all he wants to do is ... (read in full...)
She is a liar and a cheat but I am madly in love with her
Q. I am having an affair with a married woman . I was working on her home and she began to tell me that she was very unhappily married and that her husband had not given her a sexual orgasm in 8 years . I told her that she should get counseling but She ...
A. 12 June 2009: She's playing you for a right sucker. Walk away and find someone who will appreciate you. This woman is going nowhere, and if her husband was that bad she would of left him ages ago, in fact i bet she is still having sex with her hubby and you are ... (read in full...)
He Cheated on me for months & lied about it: Do I end it?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me and I cannot continue to be with him. Am I doing the right thing by ending it? We fell in love and lived together for several months, but he had to move for job reasons. Ever since that time, we have been lon...
A. 7 June 2009: Unless you can forgive and forget and move on,i think you will always wonder if he will cheat on you again? He said it meant nothing, but they always say that, maybe it was just sex on his part but he still lied to you, personally i would end it, ... (read in full...)
I want to harden the skin on my penis how could I do this?
Q. I want to harden the skin on my penis how could i do this? I've heard that surgical spirit is really good at hardening skin would it be okay to put some on a piece of cotton wool and rub it into my penis head?...
A. 7 June 2009: This is a wind up, unless this fella wants his cock to fall off.... (read in full...)
Why do men not break up with you?
Q. You've helped in the past so here we go again. The NAVY man. I send him texts saying its over, then he reels me back in and i fall for it. Then he ignores my texts over and over again and reels me back in again. Today I told him he was a jerk, bu...
A. 7 June 2009: Get rid of him, the man's a user, he only wants you when he needs sex, after that he disposes you like a piece of nothing, dont be treated like this, your worth more then that.... (read in full...)
I love him but he's changed
Q. been dating my boyfriend for the past 2 and a half years.....i am 25 and he is 37 and has 3 children never been married ... i been in love with him and had the biggest crush on him since i was a teenager for 6 years before we ever even spoke.... he ...
A. 6 June 2009: Sweetheart, i know your hurting here and its obvious that you truely love him but he doesn't really love you, because he is treating you very shabbily.You said you only had sex twice within 6 months with him and when you try to touch him or show any ... (read in full...)
My g/f is spending time with her questionable uncle
Q. Hi i'm very confused and need some advice about my girlfriend. I have been together with my partner for 4 years now. She is younger than me and is now 24. When she was growing up she received a lot of attention from her mother's brother who live...
A. 3 June 2009: Sorry but her uncle is a pervert, who has an unhealthy interest in his neice....the fact he asked her to go and get undressed tells me he is sexually interested and thats incest. You will have to tell her straight that it is very wrong to be having ... (read in full...)
What kind of gift would be fun and nice for a young lady?
Q. I am going to be home from uni over the summer, so I won't be seeing the young lady I like until possibly until September (though as I only live a couple of hours away I will probably try to visit when I can) Our current situation is that we have ...
A. 3 June 2009: Give her perfume, i wouldn't refuse it, most women love scents...or a book she might like to read? What is she into? what is her interests? that should give you some idea....but please...no tacky see through underwear or crutchless knickers, that ... (read in full...)
Wife, lover or solitude?
Q. married. long time. beautiful home, animals, no kids. love her, really really do, just never developed much sexual chemistry, when that was something really important for both of us before we got married. felt lonely, sad. years later - last year - ...
A. 1 June 2009: Ok, if you really do miss your lover, you want to be with her 100% then go and be with her...life is too short,and also...if your willing to take on her children then you must be really keen on her.....Remember it takes alot of serious thinking and ... (read in full...)
Wife, lover or solitude?
Q. married. long time. beautiful home, animals, no kids. love her, really really do, just never developed much sexual chemistry, when that was something really important for both of us before we got married. felt lonely, sad. years later - last year - ...
A. 31 May 2009: These are the questions you have to ask yourself........
1)Can you imagine life without your wife?
2)Can you imagine life without your lover? what pains you more?
3)If it was just sexual boredom that was causing you to stray, then you have ... (read in full...)
Did my boyfriend really love me?
Q. I have a boyfriend and we were 8 months together now, we were leaving in one house, he had a wife but their relationship is on the rock,. My boyfriend had the attitude that he dont care others at all, but when we leave together he started to change ...
A. 31 May 2009: Im abit confused here, is your boyfriend living with you or his is still with his wife? because if he is now with you then why in the hell is he going on holiday with his wife? Cant he make his mind up? sounds like he's dangling you both on a piece ... (read in full...)
She's with a new guy but I want her back!
Q. me and my girlfriend was going out for to years one day we split up i begged her to come back i pushed her to a point where she asked for no contact i left her alone for about 3weeks i didnt ring her or text her she told my friends she hated me...
A. 28 March 2009: You didn't say on why you split up? Did you dump her 1st? Either way she's with someone else now....but if i was in your shoes then i would text her again but this time just saying that you are very sorry for what has happened and that if she ever ... (read in full...)
We're both married to others, but can he really love me?
Q. can a married man ever love another woman. i am a married woman who still lives with her husband and kids but have told my husband ive been seeing someone else. i met this other man through a work conference. hes married for 16 yrs me 9yrs. at ...
A. 12 January 2009: Probably both, he did leave his wife and asked you to leave your husband so the ball was in your court at that time but i guess you felt pressurized to just walk out on your husband, would your lover have taken your kids on? Im thinking that nothing ... (read in full...)
I like to dress up like a little girl and wear diapers
Q. Hi am a normal guy youngish but knowing i should of been born a girl loved to wear skirts mainly but instead of dressing like a normal woman or guy i find myself self wanting to appear more like a child or dressing a certain way to that of a little ...
A. 12 January 2009: This problem is definately a wind up but Mothercare have a sale on now, get buying!... (read in full...)
13-household items & sex
Q. im 13and a boy and i want to use house hold itams to wank cuz im bord of using my hands im also wondering if i shud try and have sex yet cuz i rilly one two its just if i have sex now i wouldent have it with any older girls so thay would have to be ...
A. 31 December 2008: Crikey, what happened to childhood? why is kids so anxious to grow up quick? Let me know when you get a 13 year old pregnant, then it wont be wanking with different household things that will be your problem.....Happy New Year!... (read in full...)
Trapped in my marriage and tempted to cheat again....
Q. I am currently seperated from my husband. We met when I was 17 years old, I got married to him at the age of twenty. I thought that I was mature enough to handle something like marriage. However three years later I am realizing that we are ...
A. 31 December 2008: I think you miss your husband because your not there with him, he probably seems more attractive now your not living as man and wife, i dare say you would probably feel jealous if he was to sleep with another woman? But you say you are in love with ... (read in full...)
He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?
Q. I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...
A. 31 December 2008: Fellas get side tracked....i wouldn't worry too much about it, you two are very young and a long distance relationship can be very testing...have fun and go out yourself, i know you are very keen on him but you need to focus on yourself for a ... (read in full...)
I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...
A. 31 December 2008: I got pregnant after 5 years of using the with drawal method, i thought i got away with it before that, but i obviously didn't. Sooner or later you will fall pregnant this way....... (read in full...)
What are some hot things to say while having sex?
Q. What are some hot things to say when your having sex that will get him really turned on?...
A. 14 December 2008: Well there are a number of things that you can say to him like....I want to lick the whole of your shaft while i play with your hairy balls....or, i want to finger your hole while i tongue you all over....the list is endless.....Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 14 December 2008: Becca, its so easy to be fooled by someone. I think you had a romantic notion that maybe,you two could of been an item, you saw him look into your eyes, it meant nothing to him but you were mesmerized, just forget him, time is a great healer and you ... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 13 December 2008: Well, even if he did pay you back before, he isn't now...Anyway, regardless on whether his friend died or not, why on earth should he delete you off Facebook...charming....Do you really want this relationship? If you could call it one.He had sex ... (read in full...)
Does he really care, or is it just lust?
Q. If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust? I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon. ...
A. 13 December 2008: Kiss the guy for god's sake, put him out of his misery, otherwise your just teasing him.You either want him or you dont.... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant or is my period just disrupted?
Q. Hi, I am going through the same situation... I am 23 years old. I always get my period 4-5 days earlier than the last one. I had sex 2 weeks after my period for the first time. I did bleed a lot, and we had it again the next day... I started...
A. 13 December 2008: You need to do a pregnancy test if you want to know for sure. Guessing wont do you any good, you need an answer, buy a test kit today......good luck... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?
Q. I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw ...
A. 13 December 2008: I tell you why, because he doesn't want to cough up the £20 quid he owes you, so he's done a runner. And the old chestnut,where he said his friend just died is a load of old bull....plain old fashioned lies, i dont believe a word of it.
The man is a... (read in full...)
Should I ask my married lover to leave his family for me?
Q. I'm 41yrs old and single. I have been seeing a married man 55yrs. We had been friends for about a year when one day he asked me if we could just have sex. He said that he was lonely he had no companionship with his wife anymore. I was lonele too I'd ...
A. 13 December 2008: Has your lover actually said to you, that he loves you? I bet he hasn't, it sounds a bit one sided to me, but then im not emotionally involved, so i guess its easy to judge. Right, this is what you do, you say to your lover that you want to be with ... (read in full...)
Should we try councelling or is it to late will it never work again?
Q. My husband has had an affair with a woman he has known for 5 years through work who is ten years younger. It had been going on for 7 months before I found out. Around the time it started my father had just died and he lost his business so we were ...
A. 14 November 2008: You move on, he said he's not in love with you, so tell him to sling his hook.I know you still love him and your emotionally involved where im not,so yes, its easier for me to say all this but please believe me, you will get through this and you ... (read in full...)
Burning questions about guys and your erections!
Q. Hey guys, I really want to know all about erections; a)How does it actually exactly feel when one has an erection?! b)What can a woman do to make it feel better? c)What NOT to do...? d) Are there different types of erection? Thanks...
A. 12 November 2008: No dear, there is just one erection, the penis goes straight up when its aroused, simple as that...its not a science.... (read in full...)
Should I politely tell him to go away or should I throw caution to the wind and meet up?
Q. About 7 months ago I started temping at a company I worked at 6 years ago. A couple of weeks after I started I got an e-mail from a guy I used to work with saying hiya how are you, saw you in the canteen, you're still hot, are you still single. I ...
A. 12 November 2008: While he's sending you sexy emails,i bet my bottom dollar that he is having sex with his wife and your just a distraction. Yes, he's bored at home but not bored enough to leave her, they never do. What happens if you start to see this guy for ... (read in full...)
Should we try councelling or is it to late will it never work again?
Q. My husband has had an affair with a woman he has known for 5 years through work who is ten years younger. It had been going on for 7 months before I found out. Around the time it started my father had just died and he lost his business so we were ...
A. 12 November 2008: While he is having strong feelings for this woman then personally i wouldn't make him choose or ask for him to come back.He is feeling very guilty,thats why he is upset when he visits you.But your not his psychiatrist, you have children to take care ... (read in full...)
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