A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I'm 24 years old and have never been in a relationship.But three weeks ago, I met this guy, and we've been dating since (1-2 times a week). Things are going great. We get along, we laugh together, and we've had sex (he was my first...).When I told him I was still a virgin, he admitted that he didn't really know what he wanted (relationship-wise), but that he was willing to "try", because he thought I was a really nice person. I didn't ask further because I didn't really know what to say!By the way, he was really considerate when we had sex and made sure I was OK (both morally and physically).He touches and kisses me a lot (he loves to cuddle), we text/chat online every day and he's sent me some texts which suggest that he misses me when I'm not with him (eg: during a night out with friends, he texted me: "it would be better if you were here").He remembers a lot of details about stuff that I tell him. Also, he's showed me a lot of pictures/videos of his friends and family and gave me access to his private website, to which only a few people have access. He also showed enthusiasm when I told him I'd prepared some pictures to show him in return.The other week, he cancelled his plans with his friends in order to go out with me.Now, I'm having a really good time with him. I like him a lot and could very well fall in love with him. I'd like to know where this "thing" is going, but I'm afraid to ask him... I don't want to spoil our nice moments together by pressuring him. But I can't stop thinking about it! Is he my boyfriend? Does he want to be my boyfriend? Is it too early to even bring that up after one month of dating?Thank you for your advice!Regards,Em
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 February 2014):
 Just relax and enjoy the ride. Don't over-think things just let the relationship develop on its own. Have fun.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 February 2014):
He's not your boyfriend, you're "dating". It's too early for some people to commit, but if it feels right then go ahead.
My guess is that he's not very interested in making things official, but he likes you and is happy he's getting laid. Be careful, if he doesn't show a willingness to commit at some point then you might get hurt when he finds someone he likes better.
Good luck!
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