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So ladies, hairy chest or not?

Q.   So ladies, hairy chest or not? Im like Steve Carrell hairy, is that too much? I would prefer answers from high school and college girls, as that is my age. Thanks....

A.   24 November 2008: I think niether reli matters as long as its not over caveman style haha but i do prefer hair free but it dosnt reli matta as long as its wat u feel comfortable wiv ok Good look xx... (read in full...)

The signs guys give to girls....

Q.   Heya, This is a question about guys and the signs they give to girls. And do any of these situations fall into the 'does he like me category'? 1. We are at the bus stop. Since he reached it before me, and I didnt want to stand next to him ...

A.   20 November 2008: Hell yeh gurl He defenetly is into u Its his way of showing it boyzz hav been lyk that wiv me then in there own time they eventually ask me out So be ready cos 1 of these days he might just ask u out:D Hope it goes well 4 ya Hun Good... (read in full...)

Gay or bi or neither?

Q.   I am 30 years old and gay! I have a friend who is 20 years old and claims he is totally straight. We live states apart but every time he visits which is a few times a year I always perform oral sex on him sometimes a couple of times a day. Yhe most ...

A.   27 October 2008: he could be bi and be in denial but like emilysanswers said he can close his eyes and think of who ever he wants he can be using you every time he sees you he gives you hand jobs that could be a hint hes telling he is bi but he could be just doing ... (read in full...)

Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?

Q.   I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...

A.   27 October 2008: im against an anbortion i have protested my friend was i the same prodicument shes 16 and she got pregnant and her family wanted her to get rid of it and she considered it she finally got to the clinic and she couldnt go through with it she cud ... (read in full...)

Why am I like this?

Q.   When I am on my period, I have an a major urge to clean everything and tidy up. The rest of the month I'm fine, its just when I'm menstruating. Is this normal? Why I am I like this?...

A.   14 October 2008: hey i used to hav the same problem im a lazy cow now tho lol its not just cleaning ppl can get other urges to strange things can happen really weird things has happend to me really and like eyesopen said at least you house gets cleaned... (read in full...)

How do I get closer to him and kiss him?

Q.   I've started a new school because I got bullied and since I've moved it's been great, a fresh start and I met this guy who I'm with right now and he is so sweet and cares for me and we have hugged and had a peck on lips but that's it The probl...

A.   12 October 2008: ive already had my 1st kiss i think ill be to nervous to do that thanks 4 the advise tho any other sugestions... (read in full...)

Does true love exist?

Q.   Does true love exist? I am in my late 30s and can honestly say that in all my life I have only ever been asked out once by a man I truly wanted to be with (but since have split up with him). All the other occasions I have been asked by men I h...

A.   11 October 2008: i do believe it exsists but it has to be with the right person or it dosnt it will eventually happen for every one i use to think it didnt untill i met my boyfriend and i love him to bits and he does If you really think u still love him and hes ... (read in full...)

Were we wrong to want to smoke weed? My boyfriend freaked out about it...

Q.   Please don't judge me on this but i really need your help, for a while now me and 2 of my friends hve been wanting to try and smoke weed just once and not even a whole joing just to see what its like. so i spoke to one of my really close friend w...

A.   28 September 2008: Really i smoked normal and once a guy asked me to try weed so i did it was awful and i was really sick after wards + no1 was aloud near me after the guy spread all across were i lived and at school i gave it up i had to move and move school it all ... (read in full...)

I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...

Q.   hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think...

A.   28 September 2008: hey i rek boys will like you more because its says that gingers are good in bed and confident so go on be confident show your hair off proud if oys tease you its ecause they like you it wont be because of your looks they will be calling ya good luk ... (read in full...)

I fancy my mum's boyfriend's son?

Q.   ok heres the problem My mum is going out wiv this guy she has been wiv for 8 years and he has this son called sean, and ive started having strong feelings for him, sometimes i just feel like kissing him He has a girl friend and i hav a boy frie...

A.   27 September 2008: Thank uu babe wiv brains really helped im gonna leave it he hit me the other day cos i was messing about wiv him i put lip gloss on him 4 a laf he wiped it off straight away grabbed my arm and hit me so i cant forgiv him at the mo... (read in full...)

I fancy my mum's boyfriend's son?

Q.   ok heres the problem My mum is going out wiv this guy she has been wiv for 8 years and he has this son called sean, and ive started having strong feelings for him, sometimes i just feel like kissing him He has a girl friend and i hav a boy frie...

A.   26 September 2008: hey the anonymous ine was great advise but cos my mu and his dad r apart i never c him i reaaly like him and want to date him but wat wud our parents say... (read in full...)

I fancy my mum's boyfriend's son?

Q.   ok heres the problem My mum is going out wiv this guy she has been wiv for 8 years and he has this son called sean, and ive started having strong feelings for him, sometimes i just feel like kissing him He has a girl friend and i hav a boy frie...

A.   25 September 2008: i dont actually think he has a gf i think he just sed that because he told me that he liked someone and he was gonna ask her out then i told hi wat my bfs name was then he sed well my gfs called _______.so i dont no if he actually dus hav a gf... (read in full...)

Does this guy fancy or have a crush on me?

Q.   Righty, Yes this question comes up alot, but i dont care. =] Okay, does this guy fancy/have a crush on me. I'm not sure if he does, because i was talking to him in geography last week and he randomly came out with 'Your fit!' then i said what and ...

A.   25 September 2008: He probably does fancy you but he seems to be to imature to no wat love is yet so he will probably use u mabey get you drunk have sex wiv you then never talk to you again i know this because its happpend to me i was so imbarrased Its up to u if u... (read in full...)

The condoms we have are for oral sex, can we use them for regular sex?

Q.   I want to have sex with my boyfriend but the only condoms we have are for oral sex, is it possible to use them for normal sex or do we have to buy another type? ...

A.   24 September 2008: Lyk hopeful romantic sed make sure u use the latex ones darlin gud luk happy sex... (read in full...)

It was just a few strokes unprotected, but I am worried.

Q.   Hello, I am hoping someone can answer this question. Well it might seem like a stupid one but it is one I need an answer to. Can you get pregnant through just inserting the penis in a few times? It was just a few strokes unprotected, but I am worr...

A.   19 September 2008: emilyanswers giv u sum good advise i would take the morning after pill or if its to late take a test just in case be more carefull nx time if you r not ready to get pregnant GOOD LUK HUN Danielle xox... (read in full...)

I can't even afford to eat a cookie, and he's brought up the subject of getting me plastic surgery for my stomach and breasts!!

Q.   My husband stood me up while i was in labor. I'm still really upset about it. When I was in the early stage of labor (when you're just waiting for the contractions to come closer together) my husband left me alone to go out drinking with his ...

A.   19 September 2008: Oh and him not likin your body and wanting you to get plastic surgery id giv him a slap 4 id have his clothes in bin bags and out on the street again good luk hunniii my heart wiv u too as well as aunty ems get him out of ur life 4 good Da... (read in full...)

I can't even afford to eat a cookie, and he's brought up the subject of getting me plastic surgery for my stomach and breasts!!

Q.   My husband stood me up while i was in labor. I'm still really upset about it. When I was in the early stage of labor (when you're just waiting for the contractions to come closer together) my husband left me alone to go out drinking with his ...

A.   19 September 2008: Like wat aunty em sed about him being selfish idle pathetic and ignorent but i cud call him so much more that wouldnt be appropiate 4 this site That has made me sick that a guy could do this to his pregnant wife you have had to cope without him ... (read in full...)

I'm really worried about my girlfriend, she's just had an abortion.

Q.   My girlfriend had an abortion ten days ago. When she went to the clinic she kissed me and said it wasn't going to be a big deal, but ever since then she seems really depressed. I text her and she doesn't reply. I went to her house and she says she's ...

A.   19 September 2008: She might have made it out not to be a big deal but it obviosly was Did you discuss this theroli before she did it cos that would have helped my friend is 17 and she had an abortion and was like that but her boy friend supported her and was ther... (read in full...)

With no hesitation, she just said no, does this mean she has ANY feeling for me?

Q.   i asked a girl out on the bus, and she didnt even have to think about it, she just said no, and that she just wants to be friends. does this mean she has any feelings for me or she doesnt want to ruin being friends or something else? also it took...

A.   19 September 2008: If she said no with no hesitation then its obvious she does just want to be friends darlin U never no she might already be wiv someone or has to much going on in her life for a boy friend. But 4 now hunii id just be friends with her u never... (read in full...)

I feel so fat....but am I just paranoid??

Q.   Hey guys, i feel so fat right now, im 9 stone 6 and 5"5, but it doesnt help, im curvy i know that and ive been through hell with my body as one year i just didnt eat much and ended up going down to 7 stone and being very ill, and then went up to my ...

A.   18 September 2008: im 15 and i dont look over weiht but im 10 stone and 5 5 too i dont like to show my body i think im really fat but ladz and girls say my bodys perfect but i dont feel comfortable wiv my body I tried slimming pills they didnt work they made me ill ... (read in full...)

Is he really in love with me ?

Q.   Arhh, I have a bf and i love him, but it seems like he dosnt love me much well i mean, ok so, at dinner time at school b4 we went out he was all ways all over me hugging holding hands kissin ( only messin bout on face nd hands nd tht0 and propa ...

A.   18 September 2008: Mabey he is to imature to no what love is you seem to feel really strongly for him and if you feel excluded u need to tell him and let him no or its not worth it i do really hope this goes ok for u hun i really do private message me if yyou need... (read in full...)

Can you get pregnant and still have your period?

Q.   i was wondering if you could be pregnant. and still have ur period?...

A.   18 September 2008: if you are on your period you are not pregnant darlin but id take a test to make sure GOOD LUKK HUNI Danielle xoxoxox... (read in full...)

How long should you wait before you tell someone you love them?

Q.   hello, i just have a question really as you know i havestarted seeing a lad 1 year and 37 days younger than me. my question is how long in peoples opinion should you wait before you tell someone you love them? please give me some advice on ...

A.   18 September 2008: In my opinion there is never a rite time tell him you love him when you no its real and you think he feels the same way tell him he might be holdin bak not telling you cos he might be waiting 4 you to tell him first If you love him tell him im sure... (read in full...)

I've started having feelings for him - should I tell him?

Q.   well my mum has this bf and they are always and are on and off in there relationship but have been like that for 8 years and her bf has a son who ive started having feelings for he dosnt no this yet should i tell him he is my age and is not really ...

A.   18 September 2008: thank u 4 the answers so far helpful stranger i didnt leave a post no sori plzzz if any more advise ... (read in full...)

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