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How do I cope with these mixed feelings? He was abusive towards me but I still hate the idea of him being with someone else!

Q.   Hi. I just got out of an abusive relationship and I am consumed with lots of mixed emotions and I'm just looking for some guidance and advice. Above all I want to understand why I still have feelings for him. He is acting so nonchalant about the ...

A.   31 August 2009: Let GO. He's too set in his ways, and I will tell you from experience because I was set on my ways too. If he's non chalant about the ending of the relationship, he isn't worth it. I have damaged my wife as well, and now I am crying over what I have ... (read in full...)

Trying to make amends for what I did wrong...

Q.   Hello, my name is Mr Castillo. I have been married for 2 years to a very beautiful, wonderful woman and our connection is beyond the effort of having it verbalized. We make ourselves feel so alive in ways that are surreal, and most of all she is my ...

A.   31 August 2009: Out of respect I am not going to openly say what her confession was, but it wasn't worth that damage it brought from my part. I would end up blaming her for everything without realizing my monstrosity because I couldn't allow myself to feel guilt. ... (read in full...)

Trying to make amends for what I did wrong...

Q.   Hello, my name is Mr Castillo. I have been married for 2 years to a very beautiful, wonderful woman and our connection is beyond the effort of having it verbalized. We make ourselves feel so alive in ways that are surreal, and most of all she is my ...

A.   31 August 2009: Here is a typo "when I asked her if we were still married she said NO" not "angry" "married"... (read in full...)

Where do I fit in with him?

Q.   I dont get it.... There's this guy who asked me out and asked was I single etc... I said I was and he met up with me. I knew him just from being in a club I'm a member of. He obviously took a shine to me. He then tells me he has a gf away he had i...

A.   31 August 2009: You should put on the brakes as soon as POSSIBLE. I'm sure she felt the same for him the same way he's been after you like he was after her. You're not his beggining and you're sure enough aren't his ending. Too many men out there with an honest ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my abusive ex?

Q.   I don't know what to do. I need serious help. I broke up with my fiance a year ago, and I have been in a new relationship for 6 months. I broke up with my fiance because he was abusive on many levels, and plain disrespectful. He would constantly get ...

A.   28 August 2009: I'm going to say from personal experience that people do change. They change dramatically and these are the people who commit to better a better person for themselves. And it takes ALOT of effort, such as admitting you're wrong, understanding why ... (read in full...)

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