I want to stay friends with 'the other woman' but she says she hates me
Q. I am a separated male who still is friendly with my wife, we have 2 beautiful teenage girls and we remain very close after 6 years of separation. We still share family vacations and days out as a family and even the bed 1 - 2 times a month. I live...
A. 14 May 2014: "I don't want to lose the friendship. We both know and understand each other so well. Please advise."
First off the so called friendship doesn't exist anymore if it ever did. You obviously don't know and understand her at all or you wouldn't be i... (read in full...)
How to deal with a friend who is alway trying to out smart people?
Q. How to deal with a friend who feels like they are too smart for their own good? So I have this friend who is always trying to out smart someone and it is starting to annoy me. Is father was a business man in South Africa and the father is always...
A. 13 May 2014: Friends come and go, let this one go.... (read in full...)
How can I be so romantic it leaves her breathless?
Q. I have a few different questions one is for all the girls on here. My gf said that none of her exs have ever been romantic and honestly I have never really given a rats ass alit a girl before. I'm ashamed to say that at 29 this is the first ti...
A. 13 May 2014: You posted a couple of days ago about the problems you've been having with your boss over dating his daughter. You have made numerous mistakes and now her Dad, YOUR Boss, is furious with you. So do YOU think it is possible to date the Boss's ... (read in full...)
Why does he choose to not invite me to functions where the Gfs and wives are invited? I am feeling excluded.
Q. Hi all, I'm feeling a little left out and rejected. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over four years. We got together at 17 and have been together since. We have a really good relationship together and normally I find we can t...
A. 13 May 2014: Just go this Saturday and see if you will enjoy going in the future. Guys can be pretty stupid about things like this so don't make a big deal about it. Who knows maybe you might make new friends and have a great time or maybe you will be bored ... (read in full...)
Why does he choose to not invite me to functions where the Gfs and wives are invited? I am feeling excluded.
Q. Hi all, I'm feeling a little left out and rejected. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over four years. We got together at 17 and have been together since. We have a really good relationship together and normally I find we can t...
A. 13 May 2014: Insist on going to his presentation this weekend. See what happens.... (read in full...)
People think I'm her sugar daddy
Q. I'm 32 and have been dating a girl for 18 months. She is 11 yrs younger then I am and even though its been a year and a half both our families still don't think our relationship will last. I love her. And I hate to say that in the beginning I didn't...
A. 13 May 2014: When I think of a Sugar Daddy I think of a wealthy old man hooking up with a nubile beauty 20 or MORE years younger. You two don't fit into that category in my opinion. Let time be your proof to your family.... (read in full...)
I am dating the boss's daughter and he is not happy about it!
Q. My gf and I have been dating for a few months now and her father is also my boss. When I first started working he was always going on about his "little girl" and I literally thought she was a 13 yr old girl not a 20 year old college student. I met ...
A. 11 May 2014: Mark said exactly what I would tell you. Tread very carefully young man.... (read in full...)
Can you lose weight in the vagina area?!
Q. I have a vagina question! So, in the last couple of years (since I've been with my current BF), I've noticed that my labia looks different. They seem a bit longer - for want of a better word... I have lost about 8 kilos or so in that time. Is it po...
A. 11 May 2014: Beef curtains! That's going in the DC Manual for sure. Thanks for the input! Oh and OP, I agree with CMMP, you are just fine.... (read in full...)
My husband requests fellatio all the time and not only that! What do you do when your husband denies you a sexual orgasm or intercourse if you don't do it first?
Q. I don't want to bash my husband or write insensitively of him but it has caused a little ripple in our marriage where it hasn't completely gone away. By continually asking for me to give him oral sex but it's not as bad as it was before when he kept ...
A. 9 May 2014: Oh yeah you should get some counseling alright...from a lawyer not a marriage counselor.... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy at work, but I'm married
Q. I'm 54, married with children (grown up) and I've become obsessed with a guy at work who is younger than most of my children. I get on so well with him, but for some time my feelings toward him have become sexual. What the hell do I do??...
A. 9 May 2014: Crushes are funny things, you can get them on just about anybody even people of your own sex. But it doesn't change the nature of the beast. You just need to distance yourself as much as you can, focus on your wife and family as much as you can, and ... (read in full...)
I am fed up of arguing about her wanting breast enlargement surgery!
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice on a frustrating situation that I am in. About 7 months ago I had a breast enlargement. At 22 I was fed up of feeling self conscious, unhappy and miserable about my body. I never ever developed more than buddin...
A. 8 May 2014: If you are fed up then quit arguing. Her boobs, her body, her money, her reasons, her business.... (read in full...)
Living with sister is hurting our relationship! Please advise!
Q. How can I talk to my sister? My sister and I are more than 10 years apart in age. She's in her 40's and I'm close to my 30's. Both of us are single and never been married. We've been roommates for years, and it's only since this past year t...
A. 6 May 2014: You aren't the most horrible sister on the planet...mine is lol. No really your sister owes you not the other way around so look over the bills split them down the middle (just the ones you are accountable for only) and make your plans to move ASAP. ... (read in full...)
The ex came back and he has changed.
Q. Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been ...
A. 1 May 2014: Way to step up owl, the poor thing appears to have been waiting for a response for a very long time!... (read in full...)
Is the girl in my class jealous of me?
Q. There is a girl in my class who is annoying me. Whenever I'm happy she tries to make me down. And she always tries to call me fat, stupid and ugly and imperfect. Whenever a guy compliments and flirts with me, she acts like she is not listening. And ...
A. 29 April 2014: Neither one of you sound like a very nice person, you both need to work on that I should think.... (read in full...)
My husband's chasing another woman.
Q. I have been married to my husband for 6 years and it's been great but in the past 4 months he has got really close to a female at our workplace, he then asked me to be friends with her which I was ok with because she seemed nice, however I noticed ...
A. 29 April 2014: I would also advise you to hold off trying to get pregnant until you see where your husband's crush takes him. If he starts acting secretive you have bigger problems. His behavior is unacceptable, to me anyway.... (read in full...)
Why would his comment about weight bother me?
Q. I've been getting closer to a man online for several months and we are about to meet in person . He knows I am overweight and somewhat worried about him being attracted to me but he had assured me that he feel attracted to me and he too struggles ...
A. 24 April 2014: If you are so sensitive and worried about your weight why don't you work on losing the extra pounds? If you do it a little bit over time you'll be amazed how easy it is to take it off and keep it off. Now if your weight was not a big deal to you and ... (read in full...)
Living with sister is hurting our relationship! Please advise!
Q. How can I talk to my sister? My sister and I are more than 10 years apart in age. She's in her 40's and I'm close to my 30's. Both of us are single and never been married. We've been roommates for years, and it's only since this past year t...
A. 22 April 2014: Yep just tell her you are getting your own place, she's your sister, she'll get over it.... (read in full...)
I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!
Q. Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...
A. 21 April 2014: Can it be used as an adverb...impermeably?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to adopt a child and I discouraged her. Should I have encouraged her?
Q. I recently started dating this girl,who I met thru a common friend and I one look at her and my heart literally started pounding,I jus couldn't take my eyes off her..everything is going soo well but nowadays I don't see her that much!cuz not only is ...
A. 19 April 2014: Let her do want she wants to do...there is nothing else you can do. If you want to stick around that is your decision. Plain and simple.
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How can I attract a boyfriend? I want to have someone reliable who I can count on to be my boyfriend.
Q. I'm 16 going on 17 and I still don't have a boyfriend. My friends have boyfriends and have at least had their first kiss except for me. It's not that I want to have a boyfriend because of my friends or that I'm in some kind of race to find a b...
A. 19 April 2014: Are you really lonely? ... (read in full...)
I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!
Q. Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...
A. 19 April 2014: Past not pays... (read in full...)
I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!
Q. Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...
A. 19 April 2014: Here's the heads up: Tish is easy once you get pays her links, Cindy is easy once you get past her vocabulary, and Honeypie once you get past her angry caps...you don't want help...you've had the best we have to offer
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I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!
Q. Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...
A. 19 April 2014: You are dating, you are dating the aunts.... (read in full...)
Would you date a busy person?
Q. My son has grown up and left home and I've met someone lovely who works shifts and also does voluntary work leading teens for outdoor awards some week ends. I really like him and he wants it to work. He was being honest saying his last two ex's ...
A. 17 April 2014: I think you already know that his overly busy schedule is unacceptable to you or you wouldn't be concerned. ... (read in full...)
I'm having a confidence breakdown even though she's a virgin!
Q. Theres this girl I was best friends with for years and we get along really well. We thought we froendzoned each other then talked and told each other we liked each other. Theres only one problem, as a friend she told me about the guys she has been ...
A. 17 April 2014: I gotta hand it to you guys, your persistence is very admirable, I gave up many postings ago...... (read in full...)
I feel so safe when around him!
Q. Is this sexual tension? There's this older guy at work,and when I'm around him I feel nice, like floaty but I don't think dirty thoughts, when he's there, I just feel peaceful and happy. When he's gone I feel sadness. I want him to show more aff...
A. 17 April 2014: How much older than you is he? Is he single?... (read in full...)
Any Easter traditions or ideas we can partake in?
Q. I started dating a Jewish guy (I am Catholic) 6 months ago. We have moved in together recently. Things are going great! With the upcoming holidays (Passover and Easter) we find ourselves spending time with each other's family and taking part in each ...
A. 17 April 2014: Oh and putting a marshmallow chick or bunny in the microwave is lots of fun too!... (read in full...)
Any Easter traditions or ideas we can partake in?
Q. I started dating a Jewish guy (I am Catholic) 6 months ago. We have moved in together recently. Things are going great! With the upcoming holidays (Passover and Easter) we find ourselves spending time with each other's family and taking part in each ...
A. 17 April 2014: Biting the ears off a chocolate bunny is great at any age.... (read in full...)
What's worse? Being in a relationship with a cheating coward or an arrogant know-it-all?
Q. What's worse? - Being in a relationshpip with a cheating coward or a arrogant know-it-all? Or are both types equally undesirable? Any related comments or thoughts would be very helpful. Thank you ...
A. 15 April 2014: Which is worse...getting hit by a Mack truck going 85 miles per hour or getting hit by a Peterbilt going 85 miles per hour?... (read in full...)
I know that we'd be better together than he is with his current girlfriend, but how I do I handle this?
Q. Long story short, I like my guy friend. We met through a campus organization and have known one another for a year. As I am preparing to enter the executive board of the club this year, we have gotten closer as he is already on board. He is a g...
A. 15 April 2014: You "conduct things" by acting respectful of his relationship status. Be a class act. What will be will be.... (read in full...)
Is there one person you've never got over?
Q. Is there one person you've never got over? When I was in my early 20s I had a brief (2 year) relationship with a man. He was the first man to ever treat me properly and he was the perfect gentleman - for the first 18 months at least! The last ...
A. 15 April 2014: Why would you feel you need to shake those feelings if they bring a smile to your face? If you love your husband and are happily married then what's wrong with a butterfly feeling every so often? Harmless.... (read in full...)
Can a man control his arousal?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have decided to get married before sex. This is his decision. I am divorced on my mid thirties and he is on his mid twenties and saids to be a virgin. Well turns out he's religious aswell. When we kiss and fondle heavily , ...
A. 2 April 2014: After reading both your questions I gotta say you are barking up the wrong tree, Girlfriend. There is not one good slant I can get on this situation, everything spells train wreck. Time is a mighty precious commodity, don't waste anymore of it.... (read in full...)
My parents are not as excited as I am. Their reaction has dampened my sense of achievement. Are Internships in Italy easy to get?
Q. Are internships easy to get? I applied for one in Italy and a few days after having the interview I got a call saying I've got it. However, my parents and a few my friends weren't as excited about it as I was, they just simply said it's great ...
A. 2 April 2014: Paid Internships are fewer and harder to get than unpaid internships. Since doing a internship is now a requirement for graduation at my university, there does seems to more these days than a few years ago. However, just like everything in life, ... (read in full...)
Why do guys not commit to the girl they were with, but with the next?
Q. Why is it that every guy I have dated, is now in a serious relationship, or engaged? But while they were with me, they did not take me serious at all. I was a good girlfriend, I prob could have i?mproved in some stuff. But above that why do guys do ...
A. 2 April 2014: That's what dating is all about, like trying on shoes, sooner or later you find one that just fits and feels great. Maybe your next boyfriend will be coming from a relationship that was just not quite right and you'll be the one that fits. You can ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has celebrity crush and it makes me uncomfortable.
Q. My boyfriend has a crush on a TV star, she has been in several movies he watched when he was a child and basically grew up with them. Everytime he sees her on TV he is sooo enthusastic, and goes 'aaaawwwww look, it's ******'. It's extremely ...
A. 1 April 2014: Pick a hot male celebrity and give it right back to him.... (read in full...)
Her new hair colour makes a radical difference!
Q. This is probably a very unusual question to ask, but I'm just curious. My girlfriend has always had very dark black hair in the time that I've known her and we've been together. In fact, her dark features are what I found very attractive and b...
A. 30 March 2014: You are in a win-win situation Buddy! Count your blessings!... (read in full...)
Should I have unprotected sex to please my guy?
Q. Please can you give me advice - my boyfriend and I have a great relationship, however he now wishes to make love without using condoms. I am not happy with this, as by his own admission he slept with a lot of women in the past . I just want our...
A. 27 March 2014: Tell him to get a complete STD testing done, and that you will too, plus you need to get on some form of birth control before you will even consider unprotected sex.... (read in full...)
How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?
Q. Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...
A. 26 March 2014: Well Honey you knew about his daughter when you started dating the guy. You knew about the daughter when you allowed yourself to get knocked up. He sounds like he has enough love to spread around and is a good father. If you can't overcome this and ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and I'm interested in a 16 year old
Q. I'm 21 years old, and I'm interested in this 16 year old girl. I've known her casually for a couple of weeks. We both work at the same workplace at the moment where she is part time waitressing and I'm full time on the bar. She's definitely inter...
A. 26 March 2014: Why not cut to the chase and see whether her parents will allow you to date their daughter?... (read in full...)
Facing the guy that hurt me, advice?
Q. Hi, I posted not long ago about my situation with a boyfriend who I met at my works meal and he was our waiter, he was very full on telling me that he loves me after 2 weeks and took me to meet his mum then dissappears on me and I never hear from ...
A. 21 March 2014: You said it yourself, you need to be an adult and face it. If he's a waiter/bartender then your interaction will be very brief, be polite and business-like with your ex and focus on your coworkers.... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 20 March 2014: Ask the girl you've spoken to already to lunch or dinner. Get your feet wet. Please don't make us chew the same hash twice. Report back after you actually go on a date.... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 20 March 2014: locust, is this post going to go on for days with you just making excuses, ignoring all the advice given, and simply wasting everyone's time? OR Will you be giving updates on some actual steps and progress you are making?... (read in full...)
How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.
Q. Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...
A. 19 March 2014: You received many many tips and suggestions on your last post. Reread it, then get off your backside and utilize them.... (read in full...)
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