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... Send daglish a private message | | | daglish's profile:well big-ups to all of you guyz out there.. its really great that i have got this chance to join you. Its been always my pleasure to help people coz though iam still in my early 20's, i have been thru alot.. i hate to deliberate coz many wont believe it. However in brief, i have done some psychology specifically in the field of relationship-building as the main theme of sociolization. But books aren't all that i have to show but even the numerous complications that have indirectly and directly come my way.. Right now i want to give thanx to God that i finally have a stable relationship with a one Doreen T N back here in Kampala,Uganda. Both of us are having the time of our lives because of the experiences each of us has been thru.Its on this background therefore that i want to help my numerous friends and SPECIFICALLY SISTERS and brothers who might have any gliches in their love affairs in all aspects of the field |
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My partner and I have sex w/ others, but we want a family one day. Am I crazy for doing this?
Q. I am a very sexual person..me and my boyfriend of 4 yrs like to engage in crazy sexual activities.we love eachother and are planning to have a family one day. Just last night I have let him have sex with another girl..he enjoyed it..it turned m...
A. 16 September 2007: You are absolutely right to do sth u love. even if its swinging as long as its fun, just do it... (read in full...)
He's already in love with someone..just 3 months after splitting up with me! How can this be?
Q. hello i need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 half years and he finished it with me he said he still loves me as a person but wants to be single but in 3 months he telling me he is in love with her how can he love some one so fast ...
A. 16 September 2007: Sound really sad when u still love someone and he doesnt seem to realise. Sorry, but i think accepting misunderstandings to break you up, if any, was a wrong move. But the women always hold the keys to a relate as long as u have been to bed with him ... (read in full...)
I want to tell my wife's sister that I love her, but I keep chickening out!
Q. i am in love with my wife's sister, i think she feels the same way about me. i am not in love with my wife and considering divorcing her. i love and care about my wife but i am not in love with her, and not sure if i have ever been. i want to tell ...
A. 16 September 2007: Now u are at the edge of disaster that is without mentioning your marriage. If u ever do it, am 95% sure it will take your wife alot of consideration not to break up with you. Plis keep the animal in you under check cos a bird in the hand is worth 2 ... (read in full...)
Is what you see on porn films real or camera trickery????
Q. In a porn vidio i just watched, this guy put a ping pong ball in this girl's vagina. then he pushed it in so it was out of sight. Then he did something with her ass or something. i saw him put his finger's in her vagina, and fish out the ball.could ...
A. 16 September 2007: Truth is, over 90% of this stuff is real but abt 80% of it is dangerous. ... (read in full...)
I want to attract my bf more, to be sure he never leaves (we marry next year.)
Q. i want to attract my boyfriend more, i know he is truly in love with me, and im his only girlfriend,we wanted to marry but because of some truble in our job and study it has been postponed, so we wanna marry the next year, but untill that i want to ...
A. 16 September 2007: Honey pliz just do it for me and try as much as possible to exactly that kind of personality yo bf is. this way u will know what to do to him and when.... (read in full...)
He won't return oral sex, but he shows affection in all other ways. Starting to get fustrated and perceiving him as selfish though...
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs. the 1st couple of months we were together he had gone down on me, although it only lasted a few times. i had never encouraged him to as i beleive it wasnt of real importance. although lately i feel ...
A. 16 September 2007: Truth is oral sex is tight and it takes some amount of confidence for one to give it anyway. First thanx for being such a nice lover. But dont forget to understand ur lovers problem as well. I nfact if u can find a way of putting your fears to his ... (read in full...)
I think I am falling for my roomates gf! What do I do now?
Q. Oh dear. I've just got a new housemate, and I can't stand him. His girlfriend, however, is another matter. She's really nice and I get on well with her and I know she's relatively happy with her boyfriend, but I can't stop myself from falling for ...
A. 16 September 2007: I do have some really perfect advice but that's if u cud email me coz its kinda like strange and quite odd. But try to keep the animal in under check coz u are treading on very dangerous grounds.... (read in full...)
Scared to tell my councillor the truth as he might call me a liar. It's not true that I noticed my parents of the pregancy, as I said...
Q. i had a boyfriend this time last year and i got pregant and had an abortion. and started to see my school concilor...but i lied to him. i said that i did tell my mum and the father, when really i didnt because i was too scared. now i feel guilty and ...
A. 16 September 2007: The best thing is for u to come clean and tell your consillor the truth. Coz u aint going to go too far by coming up with more lies. Actually the BIBLE say that the truth will always set you free.... (read in full...)
I'm turned off from my boryfriend because of his porn habits. How can I get it out of our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend keeps downloading the filthiest porn behind my back and it makes me so sick I donn't even want him to touch me. I've just found one were a woman is practically being abused by 3 men. He says he's not into anal sex but it's in all of ...
A. 16 September 2007: You have all the right to be upset abt a guy who preffers porn to u in a relationship. However it could be worse for both of you if u call it quits. I know its hard for him to leave porn at once. It takes time , your support, somex conselling and ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I wont be big enough to satisfy my girl!
Q. HI IM 15 AND IM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY GF MY PENIS 5'5 INCHES LNG IM SORTA CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS COZ I HEAR HER GOING ON ABOUT BIG PENISES SHE IS A VIRGIN IM SKILLED IN BED AND I KNOW MANY WAYS TO PLEASE A GIRL BUT I DONT KNOW IF ILL BE ABLE TO ...
A. 16 September 2007: Watch those capital letters coz its kind a like rude. First u are kind of like torn btn having sex and pleasing a girl. I aint sure whether u are just curious or really are ready to shag your honey. Let me hope the latter is true. No need to panic ... (read in full...)
My husband tires to be Superman, helping everybody where it's needed... But it's really hurting me!!
Q. My husband always tries to be a knight in shining armer. Hes always stops things we are doing as a family or together to go of and save some one so to speak. Some examples are: at 11oclock at night his sister (who lives 3 1/2) miles away phoned t...
A. 16 September 2007: There's never such a thing as tiring out on trying to be a superman. First of all, i know it pains but u had better start looking at it in a positive. This way you will be successfull in getting reduce on the excesses. And the good news is the 2 of ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me two weeks ago. But she's really calling me a lot...is she missing me?
Q. Hello I am 24 my ex 27. She broke up with me two weeks ago. She told me she fell out of love. Well anyways she was calling me everyday to see how things were. So three days ago I decided to not return her calls. She tried to call me 3 times one day, ...
A. 16 September 2007: She definately does miss you and you shuold be very proud abt that. You are just one in a 100000. However, THE most notable point there is the kids' factor. Kids are one of the symbols of a relate never dying nomatter how apart the parents grow.... (read in full...)
We want to experiment with squirty cream, but we don't really know what to do? Any advice?
Q. Hi all, just wanting some friendly advice, me and my partner are both on the large side, my partner is also disabled, we want to experiment with squirty cream, but we don't really know what to do, so can anybody give me some advice?...
A. 16 September 2007: Sorry to say but i suppose that you really reach out for a trained personnel in handling sexual health to help you asses the effects and advantages of squirty cream.... (read in full...)
I'm thinking that if I don't start my sexual life soon, I'll be too scared to initiate it later on. I'm 19...
Q. I am 19 years old and never had sex, im now starting to think if I dont soon I will be too scared to have sex later on. Have you got any advice for me please?...
A. 16 September 2007: As for sex, no matter when u start it, it will always be enjoyable as long as u feel ready and do it with the person u feel most comfortable with.. So dont even think abt getting scared to initiate it coz everybody is nervous at his/her first time. ... (read in full...)
How can I get smaller boobs?
Q. This may come as an odd question but it is dear to heart for me. How can you make your boobs smaller? I am only talking about appearence wise. I claim this as odd because all my friends want bigger boobs, yeah at times I do too, but for this I c...
A. 7 September 2007: Sweetie, u dont need smaller boobs than u already have. Thats what makes u difft from other honeys. Pliz dont crave for any other size of breasts coz u just look gorgeous with those ones.... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing, am I being unreasonalbe? I gave him 100% of me and I know in my gut I'm only getting 50% back.
Q. I came out of an engagement last year, it was a 6 year relationship and ended with me kissing someone else and realising that I wasnt getting what I wanted from my fiance. It hurt considerably to break it off. There was a lot of security involved, ...
A. 7 September 2007: a relate cant continue if there is some lack of trust on either sides. If u feel this aint really committed 2 ur relationship, u had beta move on b4 u turn out to be used goods.... (read in full...)
What do you do when every girl likes the same guy you do and you think he likes you?
Q. Hey guys. Well,there's this guy in my band class.I like him and I don't know if he likes me. He always smiles at me or trys to get me to do wierd things with him.Another thing is that he ALWAYS stairs at me!! I really mean it. We'll be in the middle ...
A. 7 September 2007: simply take a step and let him know how u feel abt him. coz these days the first move doesnt have to always be from the guy.... (read in full...)
I've moved from germany to USA when i was 12. Why do people here not feel its right for teenagers to have sex under 18?
Q. I was born in Germany, and I moved to the USA at the age of 12, since I've moved here I have always been curious as to why having sexual intercourse is such a bad act and disrespect to the parents for Teenagers under 18. In my town, it was ...
A. 2 September 2007: Its basically that way without a clear explanation. After all some people are still big babies after 18, the maturity factor doesnt seem to hold for me. ... (read in full...)
Is masturbating like having sex??
Q. Hi, Hope someone can help me?! I masterbate I am a 14 year old girl. And I want to stop masturbating how do i do that? And is masterbating like having really sex? Please help. Thanks Carlar. ...
A. 2 September 2007: It depends on how u are starting to feel abt it. if its making you feel guilty the try to stop. First thing is to cut down on how often u do it and believe me, with time it will go... (read in full...)
What are the general signs that a girl/woman fancies you?
Q. i am new to the dating scene. what are the general signs that a girl/woman fancies you? only the other day a girl walked by me and looked at me for quite a time. i'm sure she fancied me? so, what are the signs that a girl fancies you? c...
A. 2 September 2007: Not yet, women are more complicated than simply looking at you. In most cases she will make passes at you if she is the bold type otherwise you might never know how much she is dying to have you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 30 August 2007: I think if you trust him the that crush will surely fade... (read in full...)
I've taken the morning after pill twice, can i take it again? Is this safe?
Q. I had sex just as i was coming off my period, but the condom split, am i stil able to take th morning after pill. also iv taken th pill twice before. is this safe? would it affect my babies later in life?...
A. 30 August 2007: Sorry abt the condom. However you dont need to take multiple birth control pills coz its not healthy... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with looking up skirts! Yes i know, sounds strange, whats going on???
Q. not sure if you could help me.I supose its an addiction.I am obsessed with womens knickers and constantly try to look up womens skirts,even schoolgirls.I know its wrong but i love to see the secrets.one day i will be caught and arrested,am i a ...
A. 30 August 2007: Too much of anything is bad. I nitially it was okay for u to be curious coz all of us guyz want to know waht exacly every woman,s fruit looks like but if u cant control your curiosity then seek some concelling... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to come from sex?
Q. I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for about six months, he was my first and so far I haven't been able to come through sex. I don't really mind as it still feels really good but I was wondering if you had any tips, is it normal not to come from ...
A. 30 August 2007: It may seem normal because its common but it surely isnt. Sexual ecstacy shouldnt be an exclusive commodity to only men but even to women. However its just hard to come for women especially if you havent been stimulated well b4 intercourse. But try ... (read in full...)
We have an age gap and his children dont approve. What to do???
Q. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 51 with two teenage boys. This past weekend we both had said to eachother that we are 'forever'. Well last night his sons had sat him down and expressed how they do not approve of the age gap. Now for him and myself, we ...
A. 30 August 2007: The good news is that you have found love. The bad news is that his kid may never level terms with you. However its your duty to try and befriend them to an acceptable extent. The assurance is that this guy cant let his kids keep u away from him. So ... (read in full...)
I've never felt so deeply in love before, I'm going crazy faking the smiles and hiding the tears...
Q. Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him to death but the initial butterflies are gone and it's deeper, he's more like a family member. His friend and I became really good friends over the past 5 years too and I can't figure ...
A. 30 August 2007: As long as that element of love has grown that strong, there is no reason why you shouldnt pop the qn if he hasnt .... (read in full...)
What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?
Q. I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we ...
A. 30 August 2007: Sounds strangest when you believe this lady cant play u when she could play somebody else during a steamy sex session in which you are taking part. Players are half born and half made. In most cases such very good ones are born coz they might never ... (read in full...)
I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.
Q. I am in my 20's. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount. However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he...
A. 30 August 2007: So many things determine how u deal with such unresistable forces of nature. First how apart are u with your bf? Are u sure both of u are thru with each other? if yes then go ahead and see what might be in stock for you in the sexual magnet of urs. ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone is cheating? I suspect my dad is, on my mum!
Q. How can you tell if someone is cheating on their wife...i suspect my dad may be cheating on my mom with a close relative. ...
A. 30 August 2007: Now honey thats dangerous businness. Involving yourself in ur parents sexual issues can be disastrous especially if you begin spying on either. I would love you to keep your distance unless your dad brings a woman home for sex in your mother's ... (read in full...)
I hadn't seen him for 12 years. I like him. Does he just see me as a friend???
Q. hey dearcupid.. I am 14 and met up with this guy today and have known him since i was born as our parents were really good friends. Today was the first time i saw him in 12 years or so. At first it was slightly awkward as i fancied him and ...
A. 30 August 2007: Sorry but that sounds like you know the answer. Its funny what guys can take girls to be and so you can never know. How he turns out to take u to be will depend on the signals u give him. Pliz just be modest in your character and be nice to him only ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain impotence????
Q. I have been reading about ED (impotence), i would like to hear some general opinion on how to determine if one has it. would it means unable to achieve an erection at all, or only at times, or persistent, if so, how often is called consisten...
A. 30 August 2007: Impontance not only includes failure to achieve an erection but also failure to fertilise a woman during unprotected sex after numerous attempts... (read in full...)
He's a major flirt! It's very frustrating!
Q. What to do? Should I ask him to leave? We've been married for nearly twenty years and have two doting children. But you can bet that almost every holiday we have ends up in frustration and near separation, because of his prolonged eye-contact with a ...
A. 30 August 2007: Unfortunately no man ever stops looking at women unless he,s dead. Even the importent do. The only problem is that for your case, he doesnt seem embarassed even in your presence. Am afraid 20 yrs is too long for you to be thinking abt separation. ... (read in full...)
My wife treats sex as a reward, as its the only bargainig tool she has... would an affair be the answer?
Q. I am married to my wife for 5 years now, after dating her for 4-5 years. She is good looking and sexy and I love her. We have a 1+ old baby and another one on its way. I work from home and my business is good, so we have no financial problems at all ...
A. 26 August 2007: You almost got it spoton but forgot that two wrongs dont make a right. But some times desperate times call for desperate measures, if you tow sit down together and still fail to reach an agreement then better see a marriage concellor. May be your ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of a year has just found out i'm on probation, shes angry. What d i do?
Q. My girlfriend of a year just found out I was on probation. Shes mad I didn't tell her. What should I do?...
A. 26 August 2007: At some point in life everyone is supposed to pay for a lie he/she told coz truth is never coloured. If u lied to her abt it b4, she's got the right to be angry but if she's just angry at the mere fact that u are on probation then you should start ... (read in full...)
He wants to cheat on his girlfriend with me
Q. basically, ive know this guy for as long as i can remember, and he is 4 years older. he has a g.f but he always says how she moans n stuff. recently he has been textin me askin me to meet him, and i have fallen for him. i am meant to be meeting him ...
A. 26 August 2007: No matter what others always tell you the most important person in such a contescious matter is you. Am madly in love with adventure but that doesnt mean i have no limits. If my vriend's gal wanted me to do sth with her, i would give it a thought. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he has been conversing with another woman. How do i confront him about this?
Q. I desperately need advice. I am in a relationship with someone that I am truly in love with. we have been together for two years. He says he loves me and we have plans for the long road. I recently discovered that he has been conversing with anot...
A. 26 August 2007: Thats exactly where u might easily blow it all. pliz honey unless u have reason to suspect he is creeping on you just dont tamper with the panic button. Men can appear desparate to wed the love of their life but make no mistake, not all are ... (read in full...)
My inner lips are bigger than my outer lips! What will my husband to be think?
Q. i'm a female i think that sth is wrong in my vagina,i mean that i have an inner lip bigger than the other(meaning libia minora).it disturbs me so much and i'm going to get married,will i find any problem in intercourse and how my husband will think ...
A. 26 August 2007: How i would willingly exchange shoes with your husband to be. Am so obssesse with big vagina lips infact its one reason i love my honey so much. And i even feel that element of imbalance makes u one of the sweetest gals any man can ever go to bed ... (read in full...)
I was seeing a married man for 3 years but he loves his family so i ended it. But i'm missing him. What can i do???
Q. I was a girl fallen in love with a married man.I was 20 that time and he was 43 when we had an affair.i love him so much i even sacrifice all for him but nothing i can do. He loves his family thats why now i broke up with him. For 3 years of relation...
A. 26 August 2007: The first mistake you made was letting your feelings crowd the fact that you were dating a family man. However there is always a way out of everything. It's a tough one to call but i think u just need to get hold of your heart, put your morals and ... (read in full...)
I keep getting itchy and smelly.
Q. Hi My name is Sabrina and I'm in a problem now a days kindly release me from this whenever i made love with my guy itching has started in ma vagina and start smelling after 2 days I'm very depressed about it i took so many medicines but useless ...
A. 26 August 2007: It wud be wrong for any of us who aint a gaenacologist to suggest any treatment. But the atmost i can say thats an STD probably candida or siphillis. The remedy is to go for a thorough medical examinationn of your vagina by a gaenachologist.... (read in full...)
Can getting fingered damage you?
Q. When being fingered can your body be damaged? so you can't have kids or anything like that? thanks...
A. 26 August 2007: Well it might especially when you get too excited to take any precautions 'cause when we are in need of pleasure we end up ignoring things like how clean are the fingers and how short are the nails. So girl watch out...... (read in full...)
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