I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. Opinions?
Q. So, I need your guys' opinions on this. So, I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. So, I'll tell you guys some of the stuff he does, and you guys give me your opinion. Please, and thank you. Oh and I do like him, i just ...
A. 10 October 2013: I did not mean home alone (sans parents) I meant home without a bunch of your friends, just you and the guy.... (read in full...)
How do I gain my boyfriend's trust again? How do I prove I won't cheat?
Q. How to gain my bf's trust on me again? I been together with my bf for almost 3 years, he has always been the jealous type. But he recently found out that just before we stated to go out I had a started texting a married guy who is a player an...
A. 10 October 2013: Ask him to spell it out, EXACTLY what does he expect you to do to show him your faithfulness? Get him to be specific, and then you can decide if it's something you are willing to do. If he can't tell you specifically then I fear you'll always going ... (read in full...)
Abusive husband wants wife to move to Iraq with him when he's deported! How do we help her?
Q. My cousins husband is from iraq. He is a failed asylum seeker and is now in prison as he was violent and abusive towards her. my cousin has stood by him as he begged her not to leave him. The home office want to deport him and if they can deport him ...
A. 10 October 2013: Find the movie "Not Without My Daughter" starring Sally Fields and have your cousin watch it. Google Women's Rights in Iraq and email all the information to your cousin. You can't MAKE her understand the danger she faces if she were to go to Iraq ... (read in full...)
How do I choose where to live now that I'm on the job market? Boyfriend's or grandparents' town?
Q. I've just come to the end of my two College degrees, and I'm finally looking for my first graduate job… but I really can't decide where I want to live - back in my hometown at my Grandparents house or stay at my boyfriends parents house where I've ...
A. 10 October 2013: Apply to jobs in both places, in all places. You may not have a choice as where you live, jobs are hard to come by at the moment. Let the job decide for you.... (read in full...)
I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. Opinions?
Q. So, I need your guys' opinions on this. So, I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. So, I'll tell you guys some of the stuff he does, and you guys give me your opinion. Please, and thank you. Oh and I do like him, i just ...
A. 10 October 2013: Sounds like he likes you quite a bit. Do you guys ever just hangout by your selves? Why not ask him to come over and watch a movie with you?... (read in full...)
How do I gain my boyfriend's trust again? How do I prove I won't cheat?
Q. How to gain my bf's trust on me again? I been together with my bf for almost 3 years, he has always been the jealous type. But he recently found out that just before we stated to go out I had a started texting a married guy who is a player an...
A. 10 October 2013: The only way to prove you won't do something is by not doing it. Behavior over time is your only proof.... (read in full...)
My FWB guy has dropped off the radar. What should I do?
Q. I had a fwb for the past 2 months. We've gotten together about 3 times and the sex was great, he also said he enjoyed it very much. I even began liking this guy a lot, possibly falling in love. Now all of a sudden, he wont respond to my calls or ...
A. 9 October 2013: Ha ha Code Warrior! Where the heck have you been? That response is exactly why we've missed you!... (read in full...)
How do I dance at the homecoming?
Q. Hi :) so homecoming is this Saturday. I'm going with that mixed signals guy lol and I have like 2 questions. So we have been talking more, like last week he called me and asked to hang out and called me "babe" which of course I freaked out (not when ...
A. 9 October 2013: You put your left foot in, you take your left foot out, you put your left foot in and shake it all about... no really how are we supposed to TELL you how to dance? Just do whatever everyone else is doing is my best guess.... (read in full...)
I want a career that I enjoy but doesn't require years of schooling
Q. I am currentlly attending college for radioailgy. I love the medical field but I really hate science and math so im considering changing my major. I also love criminal justice, or something in the psychology field, but Im really stumped, I dont know ...
A. 8 October 2013: Definitely go to the career center on campus. There are quite a few very good assessment tools, Meyers-Briggs,and the Kudor Journey are really accurate. It's very important to do it right away so you don't waste that expensive tuition. Remember if ... (read in full...)
I have yellow nails from my parent's smoking!
Q. Hi. Both my parents smoke (roughly 5-a-day each). They smoke outside or in the porch with the door open. Recently I have noticed I hav been getting yellow nails no one else has at home because I have the longest nails. I don't smoke! What can I...
A. 8 October 2013: Gee Whiz we parents get blamed for everything. See a doctor.... (read in full...)
Thoughts on writing to your ex?
Q. Is it a good idea to write a letter to your ex? I've been doing the no contact rule, but it has been really hard. I've been thinking about writing a letter to let her know how I feel and how much I am hurting. Will I be making a fool of myself by ...
A. 8 October 2013: Don't do it or do it but don't send it.... (read in full...)
I've become the maid and babysitter in my house because of the way my wife now acts. What can I do?
Q. i am 35 and my wife is 30 we have been married a year but together almost 6 years. we have sex maybe 1-2 times ever other month. before that about 1 year ago it was 1-3 times amonth, we have a son together and her 8 yr old daughter whom believes im ...
A. 7 October 2013: Have you talked to your wife about all this? That's the starting point, if you both can't resolve this situation you will then need to get some marriage counseling. By the way, is the 8 year old's biological father paying any child support?... (read in full...)
Worried because my boyfriend spends so much time with his gay friend
Q. Help. My boyfriend likes to spend more time with his gay friend rather than me. My boyfriend doesnt have that many friends so the gay friend is really the only friend he has. I love my boyfriend so much and I know he loves me but his gay friend is ...
A. 4 October 2013: Your boyfriend may not be gay but he sure does prefer his company over yours. He doesn't even want to spend is birthday with you! Time to trade up, Chickie.... (read in full...)
Yells, screams and is needlessly hostile to me. How do I deal with my BF when he is like this?
Q. Needlessly hostile boyfriend, hard to deal with. I'm on my last nerve with my boyfriend, and I feel like I have no one else to turn to. We've been dating for over a year, and we're both 21. This weekend was supposed to be a good, fun couple of days ...
A. 4 October 2013: So this is your second abusive relationship. Honey, that is very worrisome. It could be bad luck but it also could have something to do with you. You need to find out which it is. First step is to get out of this last abusive relationship. It is not ... (read in full...)
Should I stop the jealous rage?
Q. Im in a relationship with a man who has been in a twenty yr relationship ...When we first met he told me about her. I am 43 and he is 65 yrs of age.Besides the fact of the relationship he is in.. He treats me so kind.. upmost respect ..supports me ...
A. 4 October 2013: He apparently enjoys your jealous rages so I guess you shouldn't stop having them. Are you foolish? All the way to the bank. Does that answer your questions? A word of advice though, I'd take my tarts while they are being passed cause I think this ... (read in full...)
Do women really want on FWB relationships?
Q. someone just told me the new "in" thing was fwb. The lady i was talking to said even women wanted this now. Why? is because men were I think she meant men were not that nice. I know per my recent post I think I have become that..but i do not ...
A. 3 October 2013: "per my recent post" you mean your NUMEROUS recent posts. Your relationship is a FWB and the guy you've been seeing has made that as clear as a bell to you, yet you refuse to see it. All the Aunts told you that as well. If you don't like then walk ... (read in full...)
I was going to end my affair then his wife found out and he told me not to contact him. What should I do?
Q. I am married and in love with a married man. It's the same old story as so many of the other stories on this site. Over the weekend, his wife broke into his phone and found out about me. i texted him yesterday morning not knowing this had ...
A. 2 October 2013: Serial poster: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/married-man-got-caught-would-he-lie-to.html... (read in full...)
Married man got caught. Would he lie to me about this?
Q. Are there any reasons why a married man would lie to his mistress about getting caught by his wife? NO judgements please........ He was caught over the weekend and told me they were having a major fight and that he would get in touch with me. I d...
A. 2 October 2013: I love the "no Duh" questions we get.... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for giving my b/f grief about answering her text?
Q. Hi!! A few days ago my bf asked a girl something about class over twitter, they talked about that for a few posts and then a guy that studies with them said a joke involving both the girl and my bf. The girl answered saying that she loves them, th...
A. 1 October 2013: It's like when someone says "Thank You" the polite thing to do is to respond with "you're welcome" or something of that nature. It's the that fact you responded and didn't leave them hanging. You are over-reacting. Your boyfriend was just being ... (read in full...)
Are we using each other somehow?
Q. Well, if any of you checked my other questions, i was pretty in love with someone who didn't really loved me anymore, and we did broke up. I did helped my friend and him to get together, and i am happy for them. I have no feelings for him anymore....
A. 1 October 2013: I guess my first thought is that 13 comes early in life because otherwise we would be so exhausted we would never make it out of our teens. You asked.... (read in full...)
Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her
Q. hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...
A. 1 October 2013: Tell me, are you really 22-25 years old? You sound more like a 7th grader with a crush on his homeroom teacher. Give my 13 year old grandson your credit card and he can book your flight for you. Sheesh man, piss or get off the pot.... (read in full...)
Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her
Q. hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...
A. 1 October 2013: Book the ticket chicken ass book the ticket and prove all of us wrong.... (read in full...)
Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her
Q. hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...
A. 1 October 2013: You aren't really going to go are you, it's all talk.... (read in full...)
Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her
Q. hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...
A. 1 October 2013: I don't know where she lives in TX but boy howdy Dallas Ft Worth is a nightmare of an airport, be prepared. Best get that ticket Buddy.
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Is it possible for a fwb to turn into love and if so how?
Q. seeing my guy 1 yr now. He says he there will never be anything between us. yet one time after sex (he sometimes thinks out loud) he said emotions cannot get into this. He gets closer i think and then pulls away spacing out visits i think to ...
A. 30 September 2013: You pick the ball and go home. Tomorrow find a new playmate and a new court to play in.... (read in full...)
Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her
Q. hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...
A. 30 September 2013: Better buy your ticket to Texas before the big Thanksgiving rush.... (read in full...)
What should I make of her very friendly actions?
Q. A female who I've hung out with a few times before, a few days ago grabbed and pulled my head into her breasts on a few separate occasions 10-15 mins apart during a sporting event. We cheered for different teams, each time her team scored, she would ...
A. 30 September 2013: I'm not sure what to make of it either other than you'd better hope her team has a very very good season.... (read in full...)
Going to meet my online girl and would really like to lose my virgnity with her
Q. hello. i'd really like your opinions and advice on my current situation... this is going to be a bit long, but PLEASE bare with me. i am 24 years old and STILL a virgin and it's frustrating. i'm not a bad looking guy by any means. i've b...
A. 30 September 2013: A "mistake" that been going on for a year? I want some of whatever you're smoking. Go to Texas then write us when you get back.... (read in full...)
My FWB says he feels no connection. What does he mean?
Q. He says he does not know why but he cannot feel a connection to me. he says he cannot feel anything in his heart anymore since his live in gf of 5 yrs cheated on him. It has been 4 yrs since she did this. we started seeing each other 1 yr ago. He ...
A. 30 September 2013: And this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-he-say-he-feels-no-connection.html... (read in full...)
My FWB says he feels no connection. What does he mean?
Q. He says he does not know why but he cannot feel a connection to me. he says he cannot feel anything in his heart anymore since his live in gf of 5 yrs cheated on him. It has been 4 yrs since she did this. we started seeing each other 1 yr ago. He ...
A. 30 September 2013: This one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-for-a-fwb-to-turn.html
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My boyfriend is flipping out because my family is here helping with our new baby!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years and just had a baby a month ago he goes to school and works and I stay home on leave, my family and him dont get along and lately my family has been up to help me out with the baby because ...
A. 30 September 2013: It's been a month. Your family should now back off and let you and Daddy bond with the baby. It is very important for new fathers to have this time with a new baby. Unless you have a physical problem you should be mostly recovered from your delivery ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a fwb to turn into love and if so how?
Q. seeing my guy 1 yr now. He says he there will never be anything between us. yet one time after sex (he sometimes thinks out loud) he said emotions cannot get into this. He gets closer i think and then pulls away spacing out visits i think to ...
A. 30 September 2013: As you can see we are very consistent with our advice. Posting this question over and over again will just get you more of the same. This is a dead horse, quit beating it. I personally believe a FWB arrangement is a recipe for disaster. Time to find ... (read in full...)
How late is too late to start dating in the modern world?
Q. How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start looking for a relationship. 25? 30? 35? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, never had sex, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due to many combi...
A. 30 September 2013: It's never too late to fall in love.... (read in full...)
Should I invite my mother wedding dress shopping, even though it will be stressful?
Q. Hi! So my question is probably a little different. Im wondering whether or not I shoud ask my mom to come with me when I go Wedding dress shopping. I love my mom, but we really dont get along. My fiance and I actually live with her, we moved into ...
A. 28 September 2013: I lost my mother 21 years ago, I would give just about anything to be able to spend a few minutes more with her. Include your mother in everything you can. A mother is a terrible thing to waste... (read in full...)
How do I let him know I'm interested without embarrassing either of us?
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like someone aged 25. I understand that we're at different points in our lives and I may be a bit young for him at the moment but we really connect and get each other really well. I feel he's hinting at ...
A. 26 September 2013: Wow, I can't believe your parents would not only ALLOW their precious 17 year old teenage daughter date a 25 year old man, they said they would SUPPORT the idea. I know as a parent it wouldn't be even in the realm of possibility for one of my ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know I'm interested without embarrassing either of us?
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like someone aged 25. I understand that we're at different points in our lives and I may be a bit young for him at the moment but we really connect and get each other really well. I feel he's hinting at ...
A. 26 September 2013: What do or would your parents say about your dating a 25 year old man?... (read in full...)
Why can't he have sex properly?
Q. hi i was with a guy for few years then he cheated on me. he was away few years ive just recently started to talk to him. he came over to my place we tried having sex things were ok but he cant seem to have sex properly. why? does anyone know the ...
A. 26 September 2013: Just wondering if I've been doing it "improperly" all these years, Cindy. Course it's really hard to teach an old dog new tricks (him not me) and plus I'm not as limber as I used to be.... (read in full...)
Would a penis pump work?
Q. I've thought of getting a penis pump. I'm not big, between 4.5 and 5.5 and not very thick either. I wanted to know if i use a penis pump and pump it up say just a half inch bigger everyday over a long period of time would it grow to say 6.5/7 and ...
A. 26 September 2013: You are not listening....... (read in full...)
Why can't he have sex properly?
Q. hi i was with a guy for few years then he cheated on me. he was away few years ive just recently started to talk to him. he came over to my place we tried having sex things were ok but he cant seem to have sex properly. why? does anyone know the ...
A. 26 September 2013: What's the proper way to have sex?... (read in full...)
I asked him out over facebook and don't know what to say if he calls and accepts?
Q. So I asked a guy out the other day, unfortunately via facebook although it was really my only option. We were studying together, but our course ended- we were never friends, but were only friendly terms.. The problem is that he doesn't use f...
A. 26 September 2013: This wouldn't be the guy you owe a birthday drink to, would it?... (read in full...)
If I'm a lovely guy then why haven't I had one date?
Q. I've had replies from here before but nobody could suggest anything that worked so I'll try again. I'm 37 now and have never been in any kind of relationship in my entire life. No woman has ever been sexually attracted to me and I have never ev...
A. 26 September 2013: What sort of woman are you looking for? Are you being realistic or do you have a very narrow criteria?... (read in full...)
Would a penis pump work?
Q. I've thought of getting a penis pump. I'm not big, between 4.5 and 5.5 and not very thick either. I wanted to know if i use a penis pump and pump it up say just a half inch bigger everyday over a long period of time would it grow to say 6.5/7 and ...
A. 19 September 2013: No those things are just a scam. It's all about genetics, my man. You just need to learn to use what you have.... (read in full...)
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