The crush for my married teacher is affecting my study and work. How do I concentrate?
Q. hi im 17 and im at college, i have a little problem. Ive started to have strange feelings for one of my teachers at college. He's 26 and he has a partner and child. I feel really stupid and sometimes i fool myself and think he likes me back. I'm ...
A. 14 November 2007: You cant help the way you feel, and its harder said than done to just walk away. But, for your best interests you should try. Its affecting your study and your work, which is affecting your future. Just try and avoid him for abit, even if he does ... (read in full...)
What are women like
Q. i am 22 years old but still i dont have girlfriend.even i dont know how to asking girls for love .what am i suppose to do?...
A. 13 November 2007: Love comes when least expected. You cant ask for it. It has to have time to grow. Dont fret about it, your time will come. And when you meet the one for you, you will find it love comes easily. Just at the moment, have fun with your mates and enjoy ... (read in full...)
How can I get to talk to her on her own?
Q. Hey, I'm 15 and i'm currently in a relationship with a girl my age. We've been together 2 months now and we still find it hard to talk to each other directly. We mostly hang around with her mates and i don't mind that but i think its stopping...
A. 13 November 2007: Dont worry about it, my friend has been with her boyfriend for nearly 6 months and they still have awkward moments where they find it hard to talk to each other. I think you should just try and come out of your shell abit, you know, make the first ... (read in full...)
Should I 'Quit it'?
Q. I am currently 18, and I'm dating this 40 year old who used to be my teacher in high school. My grandma and aunt heard about us, and told me to "quit it" because it just isn't acceptable. We've been dating for a total of 6 months now, and I must ...
A. 29 October 2007: I really dont see why you should quit. You both sound happy, age doesnt really matter as now you are officially an adult. You should make your own decisions. And if you dont want to quit, dont. As long as he makes you happy and you feel like he ... (read in full...)
It's been a year, but I still have a crush on my teacher. What should I do?
Q. I graduated from High School last year and I've recently met my old Bussiness Law teacher at a festival in town. I had him last year and I had a huge crush on him and I still do. What I'm wondering is, if I was to go out with him could he get into ...
A. 28 October 2007: No he couldnt get into trouble, as like previous answerers said, he is no longer your teacher and you are now at a legal age and classed as an adult.
I agree that age is just a number. Try it out, see how it goes.
:)
Take care xxx... (read in full...)
14, my boyfriend is 16. Why are boy his age so obsessed with Sex?
Q. why are boys his age so obsessed with sex!!!. hi everyone!! I was recenly back with me ex and he broke up with me by text message saying that "i love you megan" and I was like wtf? he told me "ahahahah" and i asked what was so funny and his response ...
A. 28 October 2007: Every guy goes through this stage. Its the hormones. He will grow out of all this once his hormones have settled down. Its good that you have self respect and the girls who do gladly hand sex on a plate to guys, obviously dont. Keep it and dont give ... (read in full...)
Please tell me your stories about finding your soulmates! I'm feeling down right now!
Q. dear cupid, Do you believe in soulmates? Does anyone believe they actually exist! I am having a down moment in life at the moment and i need to hear some stories about people finding their soulmates! how did you find them? can you break up with a s...
A. 25 September 2007: Yes, soulmates do exist, its just hard finding them as the world is so big and full of people. :) but dont go out looking for them, they will come along your path sooner or later in life, and when you do find them, you easily you will know. There ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I like a girl in my class. Im shy. How can I let her know I'm interested???
Q. Hi i am 14 years old and there is a girl in my class at school that i have wanted to go out with for 3 years. but im relly quiet and shy. just wanted to know of any ways to let her know im intresded without having to do much talking to her....
A. 2 September 2007: Well, you can send her secret looks. Little gestures maybe, but she may be confused with them. Basically you may have to tell her. For her to know. Good luck and take care xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm 13. Am I ready for sex?
Q. Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl 14 in two weeks an I'm stuck in a situation because I met this boy on msn and he's really nice to me an everything. I've seen him before but the thing is he wants to have sex with me and I am fine with that but I'm still a ...
A. 2 September 2007: No, you are not ready for sex. Your body and organs are not properly developed yet. It could damage your insides. Also you shouldnt let a guy push you into sex, because thats basically all they want, most cases where there are young girls, that is ... (read in full...)
What can I wear that would make me seem older?
Q. Whats the best thing to wear when you are trying to look older? I dont want to look seven anymore. Any tips? ...
A. 2 September 2007: You want to make the most of being younger. Because once those years are gone, you will regret wasting them. But, makeup does the trick. Mascara, eyeliner, lipgloss. Etc. Clothes, skinny jeans, strappy tops. Boots or classy dolly shoes. A... (read in full...)
Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do....
A. 2 September 2007: If you love her, you wouldnt think of dumping her for something like sex. Which is against the law at your age. Your girlfriend has the right mind to say no. You should wait, dont let something like sex get in the way of your relationship, yo... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and always really depressed...
Q. Hi I'm 15 and always really depressed, since I was 10. I moved from my hometown to somewhere I don't like, I've lived here 5 years now and it depresses me. I can't trust people around here and my past still haunts me. I was sexually abused by my ...
A. 2 September 2007: Oh, I'm really sorry to hear about what you went through in the past. And its understandable you feel this way. I think you should let it out and tell someone you do trust and someone who will be understanding. You may feel much better when its out ... (read in full...)
Forbidden or not?
Q. I am adopted and I was wondering if it would be wrong to date my cousin? I don't think it's incest at all or anything. I really like my cousin. He is a boy. Please help me. Thank you....
A. 2 September 2007: Well, Im not sure about whether its forbidden or not law wise. Really. But it could cause some problems with family. Especially if hes a real cousin. Because you are blood related and if you became pregnant by him, your child could face some ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and fancy my 48 year old married uncle
Q. Hi, I am 14 and i fancy my uncle who is 48 and has a wife and two children. everytime i see him i have to wait before i go out otherwise it makes me nervous and i dont know what to do! please help me. thank you Carla ...
A. 1 September 2007: Yeah, I agree, you do develop crushes at the age of 14. But no you cannot act on this. This is your uncle, and you have an aunty and cousins. The whole family would explode. And may think something is going on, which could get your uncle in a lot of ... (read in full...)
I want a friend to tell my teacher I love him
Q. Hiya, i have a real bad problem. For about 8 months now ive really really fancied my teacher, and its beyond a crush, i kind of love him. Hes all im thinking about to be honest. Lately its getting so bad, that when i start college, im gonig to go ...
A. 1 September 2007: Well, as your leaving school, I suppose it isnt as bad as you still attending there, it may be awkward between you. So, even if it does make you look abit silly, you wont have to face embarrassment and nobody else will have to know. Id tell him, ... (read in full...)
Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating?
Q. Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating? Its only four years. Just look at my parents they're six years apart and they love each other and my friend's parents are fifteen years apart. But when young ...
A. 1 September 2007: Nope, 4 years isnt a huge difference. Especially when you are at a mature age to date and know what you want out of a relationship. No you dont need sex to make a great relationship. Its just a way to express love which people take for granted. It ... (read in full...)
Should i be unfaithful or should i just end it?
Q. Hi, I got a bit of a juicy one for ya. I've been going out with my girlfriend a little over a year now, and we've had some really good times, along with a few rough patches. Lately, its been all good, really. However, I'm 22 and she is 25. I have ...
A. 1 September 2007: If you love her you wouldnt even think about cheating on her.
Cheating is horrible and no-body deserves it, especially the people you love.
If you cant see you being together forever, just take it as it comes, and if its not meant to work out it w... (read in full...)
I've been with him 4 yrs but now he's started disrespecting me. What shall I do?
Q. Hi, I have been with my bf for4 yrs, sex was great till he started calling me names, disrepecting me.Just verybally abusing me to the point that I more sad and now I question myself of how good of a person I am, and what he thinks of me. Beca...
A. 30 August 2007: Well, maybe ask him why hes changed towards you? If he cant come up with a decent answer, I wouldnt put up with it. If hes making you feel so low, stand up for yourself and put your foot down, perhaps threaten to leave him? It might give him a kick ... (read in full...)
I have to look stunning the next time i see my ex. Any tips?
Q. I have to look absolutly amazing the next time i see my ex. so does any one have any tips how to look absolutly flauless. much appreciation, Xxx ...
A. 30 August 2007: Well if you want to look flawless and gorgeous, I suggest new outfit, face cleansing washes so no spots can appear or blackheads, new makeup. That sort of thing.
Good luck xxxx... (read in full...)
I think my mum is looking at porn and joined a dating site, but she has a boyfriend!
Q. I am 15 and recently i have found porn on the family computer, the only people who use it are my mom and brother who is 13 (my mom and dad are broken up but my mom is with someone now). i was on bebo (a site where you talk to friends from school and ...
A. 30 August 2007: Well she should no better, because that being a family computer, obviously she would of been found out. I wouldnt confront her, I would rather just let it pass to be honest. But I can see why you are disgusted. She would probably be embarrassed and ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and i can hear my mum and her boyfriend in the next bedroom. I also found some condoms in her bag! I'm sickened!
Q. I'm 14 and my mom and dad are split up but my mom has a boyfriend and after about 3 months of them going out he started to sleep in our house sometimes, he is nice but at night i cry myself to sleep because i can hear my mom and him moaning and ...
A. 30 August 2007: Eugh, I know exactly how you feel. I have had to listen to my mom and my dad do it in the next room with their door wide open. It sickened me too. I also felt outraged at this because they knew I was awake. It something kids should never have to ... (read in full...)
What does the word 'freak' mean?
Q. what does a FREAK mean? I hear people used this term a lot at school, and saying it to people....
A. 16 August 2007: I get called this alot, just because i like to dress differently and listen to rock music. And i find it completely pathetic and immature. People say this to me in a hateful way but i find it funny.
It generally means different, 'chavs' norm... (read in full...)
Should I marry my fiance even although I am not in love with him?
Q. Hi, I have been dating my fiance for 1 year and we have just got engaged. He is a very kind, caring and thoughtful guy and would do almost anything for me. I have never been out with anyone who has so wanted to take care of me and thinks of me...
A. 16 August 2007: Its not really fair to you or him if you go through with this marriage because you dont feel the same as him. So you should break it to him gently as you think alot of him as a person and then he can find someone who will fall in love with him and ... (read in full...)
How do i know what love is?
Q. im 14 years old and ive been going out with my 15 year old boyfriend for 6 months now i think i love him but how do i know what love is and am i too young for love x?x ...
A. 16 August 2007: Your not too young to fall in love. Its just that younger people may not know what real love feels like, which i never did until i met the person of my dreams. I do look back on my previous relationships and they was just a phase, but this, its ... (read in full...)
I've got a lot of deadlines to meet before I get back to school and I'm considering dropping one of my subjects...
Q. I really need some good unbiased advice. I'm doing ten gcse's at the moment (just about to do my second year of them) and I'm currently suffering from depression which doesn't help. I've got a lot of deadlines to meet before I get back to school a...
A. 16 August 2007: Oh my, no wonder you are feeling down. That would get to me to. All this pressure isnt do you much good. I agree, consider dropping the subjects that wont really benefit you in later life. Decide on what you want to do when you leave school and only ... (read in full...)
I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out.
Q. I may be wrong about this, but I think you may be able to help me. You see, I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out. Funny thing is, the guy I like is also single too and shows signs of ...
A. 16 August 2007: Well, go for it then! :) Dont lose his interest.
Make a move girl.
:) Good luck xxxx... (read in full...)
16 and looking to loose weight. How do I do it?
Q. hey all. im a 16 year old girl and i weigh 101 kg. i really need to lose weight. i want to lose weight fast but not gain it again. anybody got some advice for me? i want to do this for myself. i cant stand being fat anymore. i want to dress sexy. ...
A. 16 August 2007: Well im 14, and im looking to lose weight as well. So throughout the 6 weeks holiday i have started doing more exercise and eating less junk food and bringing in fruit and wholemeal snacks.
You cant lose it with a snap of a finger, it takes upto... (read in full...)
Should i change myself for him?
Q. I am 17 years old and fell for a friend of mine (23 years old). i just recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i have liked him for a long time and would really like for us to start a relationship together. the reason i fell for him in ...
A. 16 August 2007: You shouldnt change yourself for any man, unless hes the actual one for you. And if he liked you, he shouldnt ask you to change and what does he expect? You should act your age.
But if you do really like him then its upto you. Or only act more mat... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a relationship with the same sex?
Q. Is it wrong to have a relationship with the same sex? I have this relationship... I know it's against everybody's eyes but I can't afford to lose her. I really love her.. She also loves me, I guess.. but she is afraid to show-up because many people ...
A. 16 August 2007: You shouldnt be interested in the outsider's opinions. There is nothing wrong with dating someone the same sex, i cant stand homophobes. There is nothing to be ashamed of, and if you love her then you shouldnt feel like it is wrong. Family and ... (read in full...)
I'm dating 2 girls just now, one very good looking and one NOT good looking. Who should I choose?
Q. I'm 13 and I'm stuck between two girls. I am dating one and she is beautiful and nice but her dad hates me and the other one is sweet and one of the nicest girls I've met but she isn't good looking at all I like both of them but I don't know wha...
A. 16 August 2007: You shouldnt just choose one because she is attractive and beautiful, looks arent everything. I do agree with Lethal Injection, its unfair to both girls, you are seeing both of them at the same time. I would walk away from both of them because you ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when you have suddenly started having dreams about a teacher that taught you back in junior school...?
Q. What does it mean when you have suddenly started having dreams about a teacher that taught you back in junior school because I have, although we mever got on, she was my favourite teacher out of them all. The dreams aren't sexual just general life. ...
A. 16 August 2007: Probably because you miss seeing her and talking to her. You have dreams based on what you think of throughout the day, you generally just miss her company.
Dont worry :)
Take care xxxxx
If you want to chat, message me. ... (read in full...)
True love at any age
Q. Hello I'm 15 and I have known a man for a bout 2 years now and we are in love. We have talked about things and decided that we do need to wait until im of age to have sex or anything. When we were created God made us souls. Our soul's don't age. You ...
A. 16 August 2007: Awh, that is sweet. That is very sensible and he is a gentleman for agreeing to wait until you are at the age of sex. Which in most cases on here, children at the age of 13 are having sex with fully grown men. Its nice to see that there are sensible ... (read in full...)
My fiance is 33 and I am 24. He has some friends his age and he also has some friends that are girls that are 13 and 15.
Q. My fiance is 33 and I am 24. He has some friends his age and he also has some friends that are girls that are 13 and 15. He knows I think it's weird that they are young, so he never takes me out with them. They sit on his lap. Is that weird?...
A. 16 August 2007: That is weird. They sit on his lap? Hes a grown man, these arent even adults! They are still classed as children. He could get in trouble with the law for this. Take care xxxx... (read in full...)
Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?"
Q. Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?" We were talking about teenagers for some reason and he said that but didn't go into their body parts or saying anything sexual about them. He babysits his 8 year ...
A. 16 August 2007: That is very disturbing of a man to say that about teenage girls. Id pull him up about it. Yet, i do agree that he could just mean they look good as in older than their actual age. xxx... (read in full...)
I have fallen for the guy my best friend likes
Q. i haven fallen for the guy my best friend likes! i mean fallen hard- i dnt want to hurt her, or lose her! me n this guy hooked up a couple of times but the second i found out how much she liked him i backed off (i knew she used to have a thing for ...
A. 16 August 2007: Well it sounds like hes a waste of space to be honest, playing you to pass time to get with her. I really wouldnt waste time with him, it is a hard situation though so i can understand, i realise your concern when you say that you want her to be ... (read in full...)
I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?
Q. I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?...
A. 16 August 2007: You cant do much, because he would lose his job and you wouldnt be in a very good situation. So really, as i know what its like, i understand, but you cant do anything. Like duskyrowe said, you can only admire him from a distance. Tak... (read in full...)
Want to lose weight by not eating.
Q. Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...
A. 4 August 2007: Whatever you do, do not stop eating entirely, it doesnt work in the long run to be honest. As previous answerers have said, your body eats itself because of you not eating, it does this to keep you alive, your boobs do shrink, and if you kept this ... (read in full...)
Is it just a crush or something more?
Q. Ok, this is my first time doing this, and i am pretty nervous about who is going to read this, but i've read a lot of other answers and such, and the people seem to be really understanding so here goes. Well, this summer i met this girl from pol...
A. 27 July 2007: I think its much more, theres an obvious physical attraction, and she obviously feels alot for you. Although, I agree with dropping a hint to her, see how she reacts and then you can see if you really do feel that way for her, take it slow and see ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, bisexual but I like older women.
Q. Hi, my problem is I am bisexual, but prefer older women, (I am 17). I really like my friends mum(50) the other day I went round to my friends house when I knew she wasn't in, but her mum was. I invited myself in, and we had a chat and a coffee. I we...
A. 27 July 2007: Hm. It would be quite awkward for your friend. :S Although she is single, its really dangerous circumstances, you could lose your friend and arguments will start between your friend and her mum. I doubt that its worth it.
Although it is entirely... (read in full...)
What are the chances that i will bleed the first time we have sex?
Q. Hey, me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex. I wanted to know how much of a chance there is that I will bleed? I've never had sex or done anything sexual with anyone else before. I've heard that the hymen can be broken by exercise... well ...
A. 27 July 2007: You probably will bleed, but like Just a Girl said, everyone is different. But there is more chance of you bleeding the first time.
Take care love :) xxxx... (read in full...)
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