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14 March 2008: She lay on the living room floor with a glass of wine in one hand the bottle in the other love songs sang out of the stereo and tears slowly fell from her eyes everybody she knew seemed to be set on hurting her. Her heart was broken and there wa...
My view on whether love is selfish or not.
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21 December 2007: I'm just 17 years old and had to do this for an English class i've read many other peoples articles on whether they think it is or not so I wanted to submit mine. You may not agree with anything in this article but it is just my opinion I am not t...
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My boyfriend Jake or the new guy Brad?
Q. I don't even know where to begin with this one. It's gonna be a LONG read, sorry guys. I guess I'll just jump right in.. So I have been with my boyfriend (Let's call him 'Jake') for a year and a half. I'm turning 23 and he's turning 24. We h...
A. 17 July 2012: Okay well first things first, if you and Brad got together what would stop him from doing this kind of thing with another girl when you two got together, yes I know you've said that you haven't kissed or anything like that etc but you said there is ... (read in full...)
I'm having issues with oral sex. Help!
Q. Hi everyone. This is really embaressing. My guy wants me to deep throat him but he's too big! I literally just choke and have to stop and go back to just normal oral. Will the gagging go away with practise or is he doomed to never be satisfied? ...
A. 16 July 2012: I have only just mastered deep throat, it takes time and practice hun but before that I just took him my mouth as far as I could and used my hand for the rest as he is big! But you just need to relax your throat thats all and the gag reflex will ... (read in full...)
Do you get turned on by tickling?
Q. I have liked tickling for as long as I can remember. I find it fun and love tickling girls, especially on their feet. Does anybody enjoy tickling or being tickled? And to make the discussion even more interesting, does anyone get turned on by it? I ...
A. 16 July 2012: If you were to tickle me, ESPECIALLY my feet...I would kick you in the face.
I HATE IT!
:)... (read in full...)
I want to give him a BJ, but he smells and tastes kinda funky...
Q. Hello. I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I can't, because he smells kinda bad down there. He's clean, he takes daily showers, but his penis still has some funny smell. I also tasted it once and I wanted to throw up - it was very salty. ...
A. 7 February 2011: I actually felt sick reading this lol as one of my exes tasted real bad too he didn't smell bad but the taste made me want to throw up, it was all down to his diet, like what he ate.... (read in full...)
How can we get over this petty fight that all started because of an iPod?
Q. Ok people I bet you will laugh and cringe equally when you read this little issue I'm having. Last night I asked my boyfriend if I could use his ipod at the gym this week (because he never uses it when he's there). Much to my surprise, he sai...
A. 7 February 2011: Why would you want to be 'perfect' for him when he spoke to you like crap threaten to leave if he doesn't want you there! Stop being weak or else you're going to get walked over for the rest of your relationship.... (read in full...)
She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?
Q. Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...
A. 7 February 2011: As a woman, I would absolutely LOVE if my husband did this for me, brilliant idea!... (read in full...)
Do I tell my current partner about my past?
Q. im currently in a 'happy relationship' but recently my ex keeps coming in to my trail of thoughts.... but my main question is that do i tell my current about my past,since he doesnt know nothing about it, or do i not? iv had 2 miscarriages one t...
A. 5 January 2011: Only tell him if you really WANT to not just because you feel you HAVE to.
If you think you can trust him with this information and are willing to tell him then do it but don't feel obliged to.
They are YOUR secrets nobody else's.... (read in full...)
He's distant after I caught him sexting my friend!
Q. I need help figuring things out. My boyfriend of almost 4 years has always been faithfull and full of love twards me up until two weeks ago. I just returned from a trip to my home town and decided while he was sleeping to look at his phone just ...
A. 5 January 2011: Not being funny hun but he's saying he's 'tired' when you're trying stuff in bed and you put it down to work. Have you ever thought it actually because he's using all his energy on your friend?
So what if he apologised and she said it wouldn't happ... (read in full...)
Going to visit my holiday crush, what if I get there and realise I am not into him?
Q. I met a guy while I was abroad and he was the guy that all the girls wanted - girls were literally crowded around him - everyone goes about how he looks so much like Jesse Metcalfe. Now Jesse Metcalfe isn't my "type" at all even though I recognise ...
A. 9 November 2010: You said yourself you don't want to look back and regret not doing it so good on you for booking those tickets. Just wait and see don't pre plant ideas into your head about it. If its not meant to be, it's not meant to be... but what if it is?
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He is saving an old love letter from some other girl! Why?
Q. Hello the other day i saw my boyfriend going threw his stuff and pulled out a letter her glanced at it for a few seconds and folded it up and put it back in hes box then when he left i went and read it. IT was a old love letter for some girl? why ...
A. 6 November 2009: Its in the past I still have stuff from some of my exes and my boyfriend doesnt mind at the end of the day he is with you and you should get over your jealousy. Sometimes its just nice to have these little memories of things from the past. You cann... (read in full...)
I let the love of my life go and didn't even realize it.....
Q. I let the love of my life go. I knew there was a better opportunity (work) for him and decided to take myself away from the situation so that he would go and realize that he really did love me and want to be with me forever. HUGE MISTAKE!! He now...
A. 17 June 2008: You really should go and see him to find out the outcome if you don't go you could you really regret.
Keep me upto date yeah?
Take care.
x... (read in full...)
Should I go against myself and be a FWB, and enjoy myself with him and be heartbroken if he finds true love elsewhere, or do I cut my losses and run?
Q. I'm 32 and recently began chatting online to a really great 37 year guy. We got on really well, and after about a month, we met up. And got on really really well. I stayed at his and we had a great weekend together. (yes we slept togethe...
A. 17 June 2008: To be honest when I started reading this I thought he was just using you for sex but as I carried on reading it and I got to know more about him I thought that maybe he is just too afraid to let himself get emotionally involved with you. Has he be... (read in full...)
Heartbreak is bringing me down-how do I cope? Advice?
Q. Wow, where do I start...basically the short story is, my girlfriends parents always had the prejudice about me that I am a typical college guy, and all I want is to "get laid". That is not me, I am the type of guy who cares about someone and ...
A. 22 December 2007: Thanks happy holidays to you too x... (read in full...)
We fooled around and now I don't think he's interested, am I paranoid?
Q. I had a bit off a one night stand about 2 weeks ago with a guy who is a friend of a friend. Didn't have sex but did everything but. I was slightly tipsy. When I got home, I added him on facebook - he was on my friends page and sent him a message ...
A. 21 December 2007: Agree with Richard 100%.
No offence but you let yourself get attached which means you end up getting hurt.... (read in full...)
Heartbreak is bringing me down-how do I cope? Advice?
Q. Wow, where do I start...basically the short story is, my girlfriends parents always had the prejudice about me that I am a typical college guy, and all I want is to "get laid". That is not me, I am the type of guy who cares about someone and ...
A. 21 December 2007: Man I wish I could find someone like you.
This girl doesn't realise how lucky she was.
I'm not trying to hurt you but it seems the love was unrequited.
I know how you feel i've been there.
The only thing that can heal a broken heart is time tr... (read in full...)
His flirting has gone too far but now he's ignored me for 3 days, what does it all mean?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I'm a girl. I have two questions.... This guy who is also 13 has been bugging and flirting with me, but one time he took it too far. At the end of the day I was by my locker talking to my friend and he rubs my shoulder and says ...
A. 21 December 2007: It means hes a jerk... (read in full...)
Are we falling in love?
Q. hey,i have a problem(again!)and i need your help..i am 16 and i really like a guy who is 17.he is one of my friends,but not a close one because i met him 2 months ago.we hang out together every day,but not alone.we have the same friends and we all ...
A. 21 December 2007: First of all love is a strong word...
You're not falling in love this is just a crush.
If you love someone you don't need to for someone to tell you that you do you just know I can't explain how you know but you just do - it comes naturall... (read in full...)
Is love selfish??
Q. This is actually something I wrote for my blog but it is based on a question written here.... An interesting question on this site was posted the other day from a American teenager (Is love selfish??)who was writing an essay on the question of ...
A. 21 December 2007: Hey I had to write about whether I thought love was selfish for an english class it led from watching the story of romeo and juliet where they couldnt be together in life so ended up dying together and our teacher wanted us to write about whether we ... (read in full...)
My friend is really irritating me, and I can't take her crap anymore. What should I do?
Q. I have a friend who lies about basically everything. She even made up a rumour about one of our other friends having a backstreet abortion. To be honest I think that's sick. She's aparently been pregnant twice, once she had an abortion (she would ...
A. 21 December 2007: Oh my god that reminds me of one of my old mates one the girl
Katie* she said she had her dad died and get alot of attention and sympathy from everyone until one day she said "sorry I can't come out I have to go out with my dad today" so we were... (read in full...)
My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?
Q. im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...
A. 20 December 2007: First of all get rid of Jesse!! You're just using him and cheating on him it's pathetic!! And what would your mum do if she found out about you and Jayden?!... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin with low self esteem, all my friends are in relationships but me, how do I find a boyfriend?
Q. im 23 soon to be 24, ive never had a boyfriend,i was kind of seeing this guy and then it finished as i would not sleep with him untill i was sure. im still a virgin, all i can see in myself is im fat and ugly even tho my friends say im not fat or ...
A. 19 December 2007: Hiya, listen i'm only 17 and I lost my virginity when I was 15 and it was a huge mistake.
I actually really admire you.
I have had so much hassle with my love life it's unbelievable. I've totally given up which doesn't sound too promising consider... (read in full...)
Everyone say he's using me for school, but I can't get over him. Help!
Q. I am 17 years old I started college last october and met someone who had the charm to make me weak at my knees! we were chatting for 2 weeks every night and during cay in college we would do work together but every1 came to know about it and loads ...
A. 16 May 2007: Instead of listening to what you're friends & everybody else is saying talk to him and find out yourself the poor guy wont know what hes done wrong if he does like you. ... (read in full...)
Do you have to like ALL the same things to be compatible ?
Q. how would you know if you was compatable or incompatable with your fella,if you both like 95% of the same things,wouldnt that mean your compatable?or do you have to like 100% of the same thing im confused...
A. 11 May 2007: No you don't have to like 100% of the same things that would be just like being in a relationship with yourself if you get me. It's nice to be different and even if you don't like somethings ABOUT each other thats okay because you still like each ... (read in full...)
Am am totally stuck about what to buy my boyfriend on valentine's day. Any ideas anyone?
Q. valentines day is coming up and i have been racking my brains for something to buy my 17 year old bf. he's got me something but i dont know what hmm. Does anyone have any ideas as i am totaly stuck! please someone help me! lol xxx...
A. 11 February 2007: Hey, I was stuck on what to get my guy too but I got him a top from JD sports and a plain silver mens chain he loved them. I don't really think you can go wrong with a chain. Also after shave etc Sorry if that wasnt much help. Also whatever ... (read in full...)
I can't help it-I love my current girl and ex gf! Why am I this way?
Q. Hi, my name's Joe, and I have a dilemma.. Is it natural to fall in love with two people? I mean I've been going out with this one girl for 6 months, thinking that it's going somewhere.. and then recently, after meeting up with my ex-girlf...
A. 7 January 2007: Hey, I felt the same bout two lads my current bf and ex but then I realised it was just the memories with my ex that I was in love with because they were all so great maybe its the same for you or maybe u just think you love ur current gf but if ur ... (read in full...)
Anyone ever been hit by their partner and taken them back, when they really did change?
Q. Has anyone ever been hit by their partner, taken them back and found they really have changed?...
A. 26 November 2006: Hi, i'm only 16 but ages ago I was at my sisters and her fiance just hit her when they were rowing she left him straight away and hasn't been in contact with him since this was 5 years ago and 6 years ago my parents split up and my mum re-married ... (read in full...)
I want my mate to know that I feel jealous of the girls he dates...!
Q. Hi there, I need some advice on my sexuality. I am 16 and have been best mates with someone for over 4 years. Recently, he has become interested in girls and has started going out with a few. I am glad for him and support him, as well as liking ...
A. 2 July 2006: I think you aren't confused about your sexuality its just that when he is with these girls he spends less time with you which is obviously going to make you feel left out. My boyfriend felt the same when his best mate got a girlfriend he spent less ... (read in full...)
I think the class flirt likes me... But when he tried to break up with his girl she cried for 4 days solild!
Q. Hey... There's this guy in my class, ok. He's really hot, and most of the girls in our class (and out of it) flirt with him. In class, he talks to me the most, and he's always like, turning round and borrowing my stuff. (when this hapnd once, th...
A. 1 July 2006: Well I think its obvious he likes you the thing is he's finding it hard to break up with the girl hes with because some guys cant deal with emotions so he probably doesnt want to put up with her crying all the time and feels bad.
I think you shou... (read in full...)
Decided to keep the baby but now I'm having 2nd thoughts... Is adoption the answer?
Q. Im in a right pickle. Im having a baby in a few weeks and the baby's dad left me as soon as he knew I was pregnant, telling me to get rid of it. I was sure things would be ok, that id manage on my own, but now he has started saying he wants to see ...
A. 8 April 2006: Hey well I hate the idea of adoption and abortion. I really think when you give birth and see the baby that you will realise you dont want to give it up. A baby isnt supposed to be a burden its supposed to bring joy and have you considered what you ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about what my daughter is doing with her female friends?
Q. I found out my 15 year old daughter was making out with a girlfriend. Now whenever she sleeps over at her other girlfriends house, I am concerned that they are making out. I don't even know what same sex making out involves. Is it possible that ...
A. 17 February 2006: No I don't think yuo should be concerned as it is quite normal for teenage girls to experiment. I doubt anything went any further than making out. I dont think you should worry about it but if its really getting to you confront her.... (read in full...)
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