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well what can i say.i always that kind of a girl that would give advice to all my friends and i love it.its usually relationship things so if you have a problem or want to ask me something dont be shy actually ask me

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I thought he liked me, but he hasn't used my number.?

Q.   There is a guy at work . There's a guy at work, I emailed him my number on pretence of work , we usually have a hot and cold relationship. He has his other colleagues numbers and talks to them. But hasn't called or texted me with my numbe...

A.   15 December 2012: if he likes you he'll text you. dont let it stress you out. He has his number, the ball is on his court.... (read in full...)

Is keeping things from exes and stealing panties normal for a guy?

Q.   I've been dating my bf 8 months now. Everything felt perfect at first, like it was meant to be and everyone still says so, but I feel uncomfortable with him lately. He keeps presents and cards saying "I love you" etc. from past girlfriends. He ...

A.   15 December 2012: unfortunately his behavior is not normal a lot, and it may have to do with the whole "nice guys finish last" he may be acting like that because his most likely socially awkward. i dont want to sound mean because i do understand that not everyone is ... (read in full...)

I thought he liked me, but he hasn't used my number.?

Q.   There is a guy at work . There's a guy at work, I emailed him my number on pretence of work , we usually have a hot and cold relationship. He has his other colleagues numbers and talks to them. But hasn't called or texted me with my numbe...

A.   15 December 2012: I definitely agree with honeypie. i don't believe its a good idea to even try something to begin with. Doesn't sound like his interested either. Unfortunately you just read too much in between the lines. speak with him say hi but dont try to hard... (read in full...)

Do I sign up with him or ignore him?

Q.   What should I do? Please help. I'm upset:(? This guy works at my gym and he has been staring at me for months now. He's always watching me and even watch me through the doors when I'm in a gym class. Anyway, I went up to him yesterday ...

A.   15 December 2012: His definitely interested in you. He wouldn't be acting that way if he didn't. I wouldn't say he likes you just yet.But his definitely interested in getting to know you. You caught his eye so his just flirting with you. It's your choice wheater or ... (read in full...)

Everybody else gets invited! Why not me?

Q.   Hi, I just need some opinions please. I began dating this guy about a year ago. He has a shore home that he has access to anytime. He has been to the home several times last summer as well as this summer. He usually takes friends and also has a bo...

A.   28 July 2012: sometimes guys want "guy time" but thats not always an excuse. he should feel comfortable to invite you. the only way to know or even get invited to that would be if you somehow mantioned it without seeming like your jealous. joke about it be like ... (read in full...)

My ex changed his number without telling me. Will I ever hear from him again?

Q.   We had been dating almost a year before we suddenly broke up one day. It had been months since we talked again, but eventually we became friends again and even started to act more and more like a couple everyday, when suddenly, out of the blue, he ...

A.   25 September 2011: Dont worry about it,ignore it,dont worry about him period. just by the way your acting and worring here,it shows not only you are desperate but that you have not moved on at all. If he cared for you he wouldn't put you through this. the only rea... (read in full...)

Does he like me, or is he just a flirt?

Q.   The guy that I like took my phone the other day in class and was like, "I'm gonna give you my number okay? Where's the heart symbol?" and I was like hahah what? He gives me back my phone and he saved himself in my address book as "hisname3" I was ...

A.   25 September 2011: Dear yogurtplus,when it comes to guys playing games and flirting every guy is the same. I dont know if he takes every girl's phone and puts his number in them,but it sure doesnt seem like his shy enough not to do it,which means he has a lot of conf... (read in full...)

I love him, but my family says he's from a lower caste!

Q.   im 19. In love with this guy who is also 19.im a roman catholic. My parents are dead against our match. They say he is from a low cast family and the family is not suitable for me. His family has accepted me and they love me absolutely. We have had ...

A.   25 September 2011: religion is one of the main things that seperate the ones that want to be together. I think everyone is destined to have somebody weather its same religion or not. I think your family just needs to come around,maybe meet him? ..try talking to them ... (read in full...)

The love of my life has been online cheating. I've never felt sadness like this before. Please help.

Q.   Last night my heart was broken. I found out the girl that I planned to marry and live happily ever after with, has fallen for some online with someone else and spends hours each day flirting with and getting emotionally close with him. I'm in shoc...

A.   24 September 2011: She is definitely not the girl you should marry, if she spends hours and hours online talking to a guy that she maybe doesnt even know who he is..its horrific,i believe that the best thing you need to do is move on. if for those three years she ... (read in full...)

What should I do? Wait? Make a move? Run away?

Q.   I met a girl a month ago and we started a great friendship, probably the closest and most sincere friendship I've ever had. We're both very much alike. We have great conversations and we always find new ways to make each other smile. But as yo...

A.   22 September 2011: sounds like you dont have to try as hard, depends always question "Am i really ready for a relationship" "Could i make this last" before going up to her,because the last thing you want is get HER to fall in love, and you not being into her as much ... (read in full...)

Ever since we had sex, I am an emotional wreck!

Q.   So i am 16 and i am a junior, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We are very much in love, and he is extremely special to me, so a few weeks ago we had sex for the first time. I ended up having to take a morning after pill ...

A.   22 September 2011: it is extremely normal to react the way that you have reacted and are currently reacting. You had sex for the very first time and being so young and going through that is emotional its self, without adding the complications. I dont believe that you ... (read in full...)

So far it's just a crush from a distance

Q.   I've started an internship at a workplace and have only got a few weeks left and there is this one particular guy that I have taken an interest in and find really attractive. However, we haven't actually spoken and at the moment it is just a crush ...

A.   19 March 2011: make a conversation with him like.. how long have u been working here,,how old are u,,do u go to school? easy ways to start a convo..if u dont u never will.good luck!... (read in full...)

How can I stop thinking about her?

Q.   There's this woman I know that I mentioned in my last question. I referred to her as Ali. I haven't seen her all week and it's starting to get to me. I miss her so much but then I just remember that chances are she doesn't miss me like I miss her...

A.   19 March 2011: you seem like you cant breath without her,you seem like you are a bit in love or obsessed? please stop. you dont know her that well do you? the only reason you are thinking about her is because you dont talk to her and when you do its a short term ... (read in full...)

I want to ask her out but I cant tell how she feels about me!

Q.   I worked with this girl the past summer and got to know her really well. We get along great and became good friends and I developed feelings for her. I never made a move or made my feelings clear because of our co-worker status and a past ...

A.   19 March 2011: the one thing that you have to make sure you know about women is that it is really hard to read us, we can read a guy from head to toe but preted we are confused. You didnt really give much information about her, like what do you guys talk about ... (read in full...)

How do I know? What Should I feel?

Q.   ok i met my boyfriend on myspace... we fell in love over the internet and became very very close! after about 5 months of that i moved down to texas to be with him.. and we have a great relationship, good sex, very open and we both love each other ...

A.   20 October 2010: your reading the little signs..no matter how long or serious you are in the relationship there will always be girls commlimening him..but i agree if he was with you he shouldnt really be commplimenting them back. He sounds fake so dont both with him ... (read in full...)

Am I just wasting my time? or do I wait and see what happens?

Q.   theres this guy i've met few weeks ago in a club i havent talked to him so when i saw that on facebook he has gave me a friend request and we talk everyday since. his cute really nice and it seems like he really likes me. he is 5years older then me ...

A.   28 September 2010: sorrya actually i've been talking to him and he seems like he actually likes me..his coming down here next month and i will see how it all goes..but thanks for your advice anyways i will watch my back.... (read in full...)

Am I just wasting my time? or do I wait and see what happens?

Q.   theres this guy i've met few weeks ago in a club i havent talked to him so when i saw that on facebook he has gave me a friend request and we talk everyday since. his cute really nice and it seems like he really likes me. he is 5years older then me ...

A.   16 September 2010: you guys are completely right..i imed him last night and he was being so sweet and everything was going great.but then i log on and go to his profile and the same girl that sends him kiss faces umm still does.... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my neighbor. Can I add him as a friend on Facebook?

Q.   Hey, i need to know whether this is the right thing to do or not.. i really like my neighbour, alot! i have for a long time, the problem is, he's married. I understand this and know that nothing can come from but just a silly little crush. I ...

A.   11 August 2010: you like him alot and your only 16? that is completely wrong. the last thing you need is to have an affair with a married man.i would say stay away from him..if he is close to his wife he'll laugh off the whole facebook request and you may seem like ... (read in full...)

Girl I met while travelling... or my girlfriend. Who to choose?

Q.   I have just come back from travelling for 10 days. Before setting off i had a girlfriend of two months, Whilst travelling i spent an awful lot of time with another girl on the same trip. I feel very strong about her and now im not with her i miss ...

A.   10 August 2010: i cant technically tell u wat u should and should not do because it is your life,your future,etc.at the end of the day what makes a relationship a good relationship is the fact that you love everything about them and you feel like u have so much ... (read in full...)

Dating a popular, mature, 'perfect' guy and it's starting to make me insecure of everything I do

Q.   I got out of a 3 year on and off relationship with an abusive man 2 months ago. Since then I started to see a few guys, but didn't like any of them very much, and that was no problem for them either because they all stopped showing interest in me ...

A.   3 August 2010: dont worry about yourself..if he didnt want to be with you he wouldnt be wit you be thankful that you went from the dark side of life to sunshine :)... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my moody girlfriend?

Q.   I have a girlfriend of 7 months and my head has been so twisted the last 1.5 months about what to do... Some times I could see me being with her but the next day I want to end it all. She is very moody and gets poutty when something disappoints ...

A.   3 August 2010: this isnt good. you cant do something in a relationship just because you "feel bad" if you feel like it isnt working then end it doesnt matter about how "bad" you'll make her feel if you feel like she isnt worth your time and is bipolar(not saying ... (read in full...)

What is important love or sex?

Q.   [OP's own title] I love my bf so much and we have a blast together but when it comes down to sex he has a hard time satisfying me. He always ends up finishing before i do.What should i do?i dont want to leave him but like every woman i want to ...

A.   3 August 2010: honestly love is love and sex is sex but if you are talking about spending the rest of your life with this guy and sex doesnt satisfy you then i'm pretty sure your love will die sooner or later. love is the connection the emotional attraction to ... (read in full...)

Wait for what I want or settle for the guys who want me?

Q.   I am 21 years old girl and i have never had a boyfriend but i would love to have one. There are a few guys that i know are interested in me but none of them are the kind of guy i am attracted to. But my question is, should i continue waiting un...

A.   3 August 2010: sometimes if you wait you miss out on the good stuff.i was just like you i always waited for that prince charming and all the men that were attractive to me i let down..and look at me still alone ha.so dont go through my steps.i think you should ... (read in full...)

What does 'Trust' mean to you?

Q.   Would someone tell me what you think "Trust" means in a marriage? What do you think both partners should be bringing to the table? I just want to see if I am normal?...

A.   3 August 2010: trust means you trust them til the day you saw them to they day you die.but trust also can either crumble down or grow more.it seems like you asking this question makes it seem like you dont trust your marriage partner.which isnt good.trust means ... (read in full...)

I like this guy but I'm shy! Tips, please.

Q.   There is guy up my street who i really like, but we dont go to the same school. I really want to talk to him the most we have said to each other is hi and bye my mom says he likes me too but im not sure. I need help im to shy to talk to him please ...

A.   3 August 2010: Dear Maidengirl101,just because you guys say hi and bye whenever you guys bump into each other doesnt necesserly mean you you are head over heels for him and he is head over sneakers for you just take it slow..if you have a dog walk him around or do ... (read in full...)

Tips for more attractive breasts?

Q.   i am 5.2 height and 34b breast....how can i make them tight....appealing and beautiful....need some exercises and massage advices ..my husbend is crazy for hight and big boobs.....how can i walk sexy...?plz reply soon...

A.   31 July 2010: buy a good bra in victoria secret..try push up bras like the new bombshell bra :)... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to kiss me but I'm not ready...

Q.   hi, i'm 19 and my girlfriend is 22, and we have been in a relationship for about 6 months. well recently she told me that she wanted to kiss me, now ive never been with anyone before (whereas she has), and i dont feel very confident kissin...

A.   25 July 2010: u guys have been together for 6 months i'm pretty sure she wouldnt break up wit u because u kissed her..obviously u mean alot to her..the experiance means nothing no one can tell whos experianced and who isnt when u kiss..and u cant mess a kiss up ... (read in full...)

What should I do about Guy A and Guy B?

Q.   I'm in a mess, and it's confusing. I met a guy a few years ago, we'll call him GUY A, when I was 15. He thought I was 18, nothing had happened or anything but it was clear that we fancied each other a bit. But after he found out that I was you...

A.   25 July 2010: the question is do u see urself dating any of them heres wat i think i think that guya wasnt as drunk as u think he is..i think he likes u and that night he pretended to be a bit drunk just so he can check if he can flirt with u and if u se... (read in full...)

I want my ex to chase me!

Q.   My boyfriend and i recently broke up. well yesterday. we were doing a long distance relationship for the last year and he is living 5 hours drive away from me. he is 27 and i am 21. we saw each other every 3 weeks for a few days. He went up to coach ...

A.   25 July 2010: first of all ur 21 u should be wit ur friends having fun driving it up clubbing and not worrying about an immature 27yr old. the reason he said i still love u and want to get married in the future was to make u regret dumping him and tried to make u ... (read in full...)

How to keep a guy interested with you

Q.   A question to all the guys out there, i need your advise: What can make a guy stay in a relationship with you? I have tried to be on both sides, my first ex i was clingy and it didn't work. The 2nd one, i wasn't so expressive of myself and was i...

A.   25 July 2010: hello i am a girl and i'm giving u some kind of advice dont press urself too much guys like a girl that is completely her self! the reason it didnt work the first time was because u stalked him to much wanted to know everything and wanted to get ... (read in full...)

Is he trying to stay away from me or is there a chance he likes me?

Q.   i talked to this guy for a while now he always texts me everyday and we talk i thought maybe he likes me because of all the signals and i thought that he might..his cousin even told my own sister asking if we were together because he keeps talking ...

A.   12 July 2010: is that a good idea?... (read in full...)

Just moved in but we fight. Should I call it off?

Q.   Me and my fiance just moved in together. Every other month we get into these fights and its over little things I want to call it off but hes the best thing thats ever happened to me. Its like the love is still there but just by a little bit. ...

A.   12 June 2010: its never good having second thoughs about something.i dont want to say yes you should or no you shouldnt because it is your life and i dont want to effect it. You have to know if its something you want but you also have to realize that not every ... (read in full...)

Does she still like me a little???

Q.   This girl and I had feeling for each other for 5 months. It was going good until at the end I went a little too fast on her. The next day she wanted to be just friends I said okay better than nothing. So we would hang after that and she would give ...

A.   7 June 2010: yea dont push it it seems like shes into u but is scared of getting into something serious shes just flirting with u if u have her number just text her first girls love when u text them first they feel special. and then try moving forward ask her if ... (read in full...)

He won't text me first!

Q.   Ok so i like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me to but he's very shy. But the thing is he never texts me first. I always have to start the convo. Does that mean he doesnt want to talk to me or what?...

A.   7 June 2010: guys like when u text them first but if u constandly text first means u may seem just a beat annoying the thing u can do is DONT TEXT HIM FIRST. dont text him at all even if it means a few days or weeks dont text him no guy is ever too shy to not ... (read in full...)

Do I leave my boyfriend for this other guy even though I might not end up with him?

Q.   this is a very long and complicated story lol. so i was very good friends with a guy named "j" and i always had feelings for him ever since we met but i never said anything until 10 months after meeting. he admitted he like me as well but there was ...

A.   4 June 2010: i dont u care about "C" since u are on here desperatly asking if u should stay wit him or not my advice break up with C! because u dont seem that into him the only reason u are with him is because of ur friends! thats not good u need to respect ... (read in full...)

Move or not to move?

Q.   I have a girl that I met in Berlin when I was there studying...i came back to the USA(where i live)...and then visited her in Italy(where she is from)....We have been talking for a very long time now and we are in love......I have a really good job ...

A.   4 June 2010: I dont think moving there will solve anything because ur stepping into a whole diffrent world u might not even see her as much there either u say shes busy? she has her own life there and she isnt going to make everything stop just to be with u and ... (read in full...)

How can I make him something other than my everything...without leaving him.

Q.   My boyfriend is 24, i am 18.. so of course he has done many things that i have not done, and i know this is normal. But for some reason i can not help but get upset/jealous when his friends bring up past times when he did this and that. Do you think ...

A.   4 June 2010: u guys arent so bad apart. u need to learn to have a life with and without Jake.i mean wat will happen if u guys broke up u would go into depression! you need to get a few friends if u dont have any then maybe his friends girlfriends or maybe some ... (read in full...)

How can I make him mine?

Q.   this guy and i are coworkers .. ive never really been in a relationship before this guy, but we're really close. we have been making out, flirting, etc.. last august he asked me to be his GF. it didnt work out in august we were never official ...

A.   4 June 2010: he sounds sweet but ur so shy he loves making u speechless and that is why he chases u. i think that u should just get over ur shyness i mean u guys have kissed and hung out so why not feel comfortable when he comes around? ur not as shy as u want ... (read in full...)

Am I misreading all these little signals?

Q.   There's this guy that I haven't know that long and we've recently began talking a lot. I suspect that he likes me and need some conformation. I've asked him questions about who he likes and everything points back to me. Like I'd ask what ethnici...

A.   3 June 2010: (moderated: the "u"' into "you") You're asking him wayy too many questions its eitheer he is into you or is just flirting but you asking him everything makes him seem like you're a little desperate..you can talk to him but stop being the creeper ... (read in full...)

My friend's ex made a pass at me. Do I get involved or run away?

Q.   My story is like this. Before this, i was in a college, i havev lot of friends there. Then, i moved to a better college, this college is where one of my friend (not my best friend but she is really nice) boyfriend’s college. My friends ask me to ...

A.   3 June 2010: if she isnt ur best friend but just a friend and if he likes u more wats so bad about being with him? are they still togehter or have they broken up.i think u should just wait and see i cant tell u wat u shouldnt and should do because i'm not in ur ... (read in full...)

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