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As of now a single male , father of 4 boys, most are all grown up. love the outdoors and have gone through enough shit in my life to be of help to others. been cheated on , lied to , devorced, have kids, work. Im 1 of 6 kids. see alot and been through alot , so I may be able to give some good advice. . Just ask if you like.

He's a wonderful man, and loves me very much, but I've been faking it for four years. Help!

Q.   I have a problem where I am not sexually attracted to my man... he is a very handsome man, very romantic, loving, respectful... he's the best boyfriend you could ever ask for. I often listen to woman who are just wishing for a man like I have. He is ...

A.   15 April 2011: wow. been there done that, moved on.. like the other reader said find out what it is that your not sexualy attracted to him. have you been or are sexualy attracted to anyone in your life , do you know what that means. and what it feels like. dont ... (read in full...)

Can I be subtle and trigger more from him?

Q.   Hey guys, I like this guy, well, man. He's a few years older than me and we work together. We are only to be professional around each other as that is what is required of our posts. He is higher than me at work. On my third day of working w...

A.   15 April 2011: just come out and ask him if he is into you or wants to be, or ask him out for a movie drinks dinner, or hint at that see what takes place after that.... (read in full...)

Success With Squirting

Q.   Lila here~ If you’ve been listening to our radio show you may remember that I’ve been on a mission for a couple of months now. I’ve been trying to squirt, with little success… until this morning. Pinkee reviewed a DVD in January called “Nina Hea...

A.   15 April 2011: good for you. I had a lady friend that I was able to teach how to squirt. she loves the fact that she can. it is a little messy . but she feels good and I allmost drowned a few times .. ... (read in full...)

At what age is a woman no longer attractive?

Q.   When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...

A.   15 April 2011: are you kidding me . its like breast size or whatever, you can be hot your whole life , Its up to the persons doing the looking. age has nothing to do with it, believe me... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't like my nude pictures?

Q.   Every time I send my boyfriend naughty or nude pictures he doesn't say anything, how do I know if he actually likes them? I am embarrassed, every other guy I have sent them too seems to drive them crazy haha We have been dating for 5 months and he ...

A.   15 April 2011: I cant talk for him but im sure he loves the pics most guys do. it is a turn on seeing a woman a girlfriend naked and if he is not interested in them , maybe he has his own problems.. you could just ask him if he got the pics see what he says.. ... (read in full...)

Is it too weird to have sex with my friend's mom?

Q.   I need some help with my situation. Would it be wise to enter into a relationship with someone older. I am 20 and she is 45. The whole thing is kind of complicated. She is my friend's mother. She was kind of like my second mom growing up and I ...

A.   26 April 2010: wow , having sex with a older woman is not a bad thing as long as both are over the age and know one is cheating on a spouse. but haveing sex with a friends mom is kinda out there, does he know and if he doesnt then something is wrong . It become ok ... (read in full...)

Scared my son will start getting sexual

Q.   i am a 29 year old mother of a 14 year old son.i have noticed recently that my son has started dating and i am so scared that he will start engaging into sexual activities. i do not know how to talk to him about this matter and i do not want him ...

A.   26 April 2010: I have had these talks with my boys and so far all is good. the older one is in his mid twenties and the other 3 are allmost out of teen hood. talk to him tell him the story of life and how much there is to being a mom or a dad at a very young age, ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a man to become addicted to sex with a particular girl?

Q.   I had sex with this guy whom I thought would be a one night stand, but he is calling me nonstop, texting me all the time, and asking me to be his girlfriend and if I will commit to him etc. He's already telling people I'm off limits and "his". But I ...

A.   26 April 2010: sounds like he is latching on to the first lady that shows him a good time. some people dont know this but not every one has confidence in themselfs. or he is just a man pig. like some are. Get rid of him . I think he is nothing but a problem.... (read in full...)

My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?

Q.   Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...

A.   26 April 2010: I think Korculan Queen , said it best, she is just trying to ruin her daughters life. I think you need to think things over. I understand having a fantasay but to think of maybe carriing it out and with a memmber of your family thats way wrong. If ... (read in full...)

What's a 69'r???

Q.   My boyfriend has recently asked me to perform a 69er with him but I don't know what to do :S please help ...

A.   9 March 2010: your not alone , lots of young people have no idea about sex , first , allways be safe birth control rubbers etc, secondly , read books go online ask questions and talk to your partner, get as much info as u can to make the right choices about what ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't understand that women can "get off" through other means!

Q.   Ok so my bf and I have been having sex for almost 2 months now. We've done it about a dozen times, I have orgasmed once out of the 12 times. While I realize that I'm lucky enough to be able to get that point since I know some girls never orgasm from ...

A.   9 March 2010: sounds like to me that he is very selfish, all he really cares about is himself when it comes to sex, really it should not matter if he is finished or not he should still take care of your needs, find yourself someone that can and will do this for ... (read in full...)

My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!

Q.   My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding...

A.   9 March 2010: first off, any man that could say that to another mans wife while the wifes hubby is there should have been beaten within a inch of his life, on the other hand when your wife said ok with the blowjob you should have said something to her , like ... (read in full...)

How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(...

A.   9 March 2010: being sexy haveing a hardon comes from the brain not from below, first u have to think sex then you will get a hardon, so her is what u do . talk to him ask him things sexy things and see what happends get him thinking sex . ... (read in full...)

I've got the opposite problem to most. So how can I come sooner?

Q.   I know this is an odd problem, and most guys would ask why I'm complaining, but what can I do if I'm lasting way too long in bed? I'm not very sensitive down there to begin with, and wearing condoms only makes this worse. Whenever I get with my ...

A.   9 March 2010: I know there are creams that you can use so try going to a sex shop or talk to your doctor about that, another thing to try is get you lady to give you oral sex or jack you off just close enough befor u cum that will help in some cases, I too take ... (read in full...)

Bedroom tips?

Q.   My boyfriend said to me today that I'm not experimental with sex and that we are confined to four postions. But he said he is happy with our sex life. Any tips for the bedroom?...

A.   9 March 2010: well play games dress up or find new places that make you hot for eachother, try talking to him and see where that leads. sex should be fun and there are so many ways to get to were your wanting to be. play truth or dare with each other . make your ... (read in full...)

Sex with my friend's mum!!!

Q.   i want to have sex with my frinds mom and she has a guy. how can i hook up with her? she is about 30-37 and i am 20. help!!!!! her boobs are so hot !! how can i stop this ? I dont want to do it but she looks at me like she wants it to!!! ...

A.   9 March 2010: seems more like a wish dish then something that is real. ya take a shower and find a woman your own age , she has a man . now you need to be a man and respect that . move on there are plenty of woman out there looking for love sex or whatever so ... (read in full...)

Can all women cum?

Q.   Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...

A.   9 March 2010: Yes all woman could have orgasams if thay let themselfs go, our biggest sex organ is not your penis or a womans breast but our brains, think about it you will understand, if u think something is sexy then it is if you think of it as being dirty then ... (read in full...)

Do you always have an orgasm during sex

Q.   plz what did my friend (boy) mean when he says that when he has sex sometimes he cums sometimes he doesnt i am a virgin and always thought that sex ended when the man came???????????...

A.   9 March 2010: no you can have fun sex what ever you want to call it and not allways will you have a orgasam, but it will still feel great, buy the way your just starting out so take it slow and be careful. read as much info as u can about sexual health. we can ... (read in full...)

I worry my penis wont measure up

Q.   i just wanted 2 ask any girls out there that have had a guy or more in the past that had a gigantic dick, what happens in the future when u find someone u fall in love with that just has a 6 or 7 incher? does it mean that since u already had ...

A.   9 March 2010: I think your over reacting, size has nothing to do with making your woman feel good. Its all in her mind and should be in yours . Woman need tenderness love and compassion, make her feel sexy ontop of the world and she wont even know you have a what ... (read in full...)

I am away from my wife and I don't want to masturbate or have an affair, so what can I do?

Q.   i am married but abroad away from spouse.i am feeling frustrated as i have not been able to have an intercourse and even i have not masterbated and have not had wet dream even for the last 3 months. how do i get relaxed,when i do not want to maste...

A.   9 March 2010: find something that will keep you bussy, play pool cards or call your wife and talk to her , Im sure she misses you allso, but you must find something to keep your mind away from something that you will regret doing. my I ask why your away from your ... (read in full...)

I'm desperate to experience an orgasm...

Q.   I am with my boyfriend 2 years and I am not able to let him make me cum. I get to a certain stage and then I push his hand away, I have tried at home myself but I'm just not able. I have never experienced the feeling of it before and really do want ...

A.   9 March 2010: Veronika, is so right with what she told you , Its in your head were the problem is. let go you have to tell yourself that you are allowed to feel this and that you want to feel it. let your mind go. ... (read in full...)

Husband thinks I'm cheating on him but I'm not!

Q.   I recently got a new job and my husband was very excited for me. i am a broker for a shipping, trucking company and in the office it is just me and an older un attractive guy that is my boss. My husband came to my work to have me sign some papers ...

A.   9 March 2010: I agree with one of the readers that sometimes one things of others as thay themselfs think of them. people that cheat offten think that there partner is cheating , Try and sit down with him and get this sorted out. Maybe there is a bylaw that says ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my husband I made a mistake...?

Q.   Hey I have a problem right now with my marriage and would love to receive some advice on how to handle my situation and also if I am doing the right thing. To start off I have to tell you a little about my marriage and myself. My husband and I ha...

A.   9 March 2010: If your love for each other is strong and you are being honest with him , that will go a long way into sorting this out. you have lots to deal with and need to have a good supporting group so find that as well as AA and Im sure you will be able to ... (read in full...)

My husband doesn't seem to care about sex anymore

Q.   Am worried. My hubby of 5yrs used to be passionate about sex. Thing is, now he does not care. We go 3 weeks to 1month no touch. He gets no erection when i walk around naked. When i force him to touch me, he sleeps with hand on my part. Think he has ...

A.   9 March 2010: Sorry to hear that, maybe he had medical problems and he has not been able to talk to u about it. Or he doesnt find you attractive anylonger, I dont think it would be hard for him to get hard if he was having an affair. unless he really cant stand ... (read in full...)

Marriage in a rut???

Q.   Married for 8 years 2 kids ages 6 eayrs and 6 months. Me and hubby dont like the same music, tv shows or food. I like to go out, he likes to stay in, I like talking he does not, I sleep with baby girl, he sleeps on the couch because he snores and ...

A.   9 March 2010: wow , you too dont seem right for each other, both of you need to seek help marriage counseling. Be there done that but if you do go to Marriage Counseling you need to be as honest as all get out. If you cant your wasting your time... (read in full...)

Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT

Q.   ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...

A.   9 March 2010: wow , masterbating is one of the ways you can learn to last longer when you are with a woman. It allso will help you teach your partner more about your body then she will know without you telling her. being able to please yourself gives you the gift... (read in full...)

How much time should I give myself before dating again?

Q.   when you break up with your partner to allow yourself enough time to get over the person a good time line to follow is: for every year you were together add one month i.e 1 year 1 month 2 years 2 months. Add another two months onto the tota...

A.   9 March 2010: Really there is no time line . I have been though this myself , being shy and the one to be told to get lost , took any of the selfconvidence I had and took it away from me. but I soon learned that I have lots to offer a special someone as do you so ... (read in full...)

Was my cousin trying to have sex with me?

Q.   Was my cousin trying to have sex with me? About 4 months ago me and her and the family went to France and stayed in a hostel one night our parents left and there was a friend sleeping on the sofa and my cousin was taking a shower and came out nake...

A.   9 March 2010: well nothing happend . mabye she was just being a tease, maybe she was just wanting to hear from someone how good she looked. AND YES sometimes people close to us do things that dont make sence at first but its your thoughts that make you ask the ... (read in full...)

Shaven or not?

Q.   A simple question to ask, for both males and females if you please: Shaven pubic region or unshaven pubic region? I myself find shaven definitely more preferable, and don't say you like both, because you are bound to like one at least sligh...

A.   9 March 2010: shaved or trimed. It very difficult to eat a woman that has too much hair between her legs, I find it a turn off. trying to lick her there and all you get is hair in your mouth, so if you shaved things will feel much better for both, Now you can ... (read in full...)

He's got someone else, but I'm in love with him

Q.   Hi, I've been good friends with this guy, he's so sweet and charming. But the problem is, he's already committed. I know all his secrets because he told me that he "love" me, but when I confessed that I love him, he told me to just let my feeli...

A.   9 March 2010: really its time to move on . One day you will find someone that really loves you and you will know by everything that he doesfor u and to you. best of luck , but move on... (read in full...)

Is it true - DO big shoes mean a big penis?

Q.   hey guys im just a bit curious if this is correct, but is true that guys with a big shoe size have a big ding dong? like for example if a guy had a 12 inch and a half shoe size would his penis be larger than a guy with a 5 inch shoe? is this true?? ...

A.   9 March 2010: Hell no , men come in many different sizes and it has nothing to do with shoe size height, or size of his hands. And as for pleaseing a woman , the truth is that only the first few inches of a womans vagina has nerve endings , so again size does ... (read in full...)

I'm worried I'm being deceitful...

Q.   when i first met my current boyfriend, i told him i had had one sexual partner which was true. however before he and i became exclusive there was one more guy, but i didnt tell im about this because it was after we met and so im worried what he will ...

A.   9 March 2010: Believe me when I say you should tell him , I think most people male or felmale would still rather have someone tell the truth about that then to hide it . You will gain his respect I think, Things that are hard to do are sometimes the most ... (read in full...)

Female always climaxing too soon and now it's becoming a problem! Help!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old girl and my partner is 18 we have been together for a year now and our sex life has always been good. For about a month or so i have been climaxing too soon and then i dont feel in the mood anymore and reluctan...

A.   9 March 2010: Well as far as having your orgasam too soon, Im not really sure that should be a problem, some woman cant cum at all. I think you must be either really turned on with your man . or your just very lucky that u can cum at all. some woman cant have a ... (read in full...)

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