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My girlfriend wants to adopt a child and I discouraged her. Should I have encouraged her?

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Question - (9 March 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2014)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I recently started dating this girl,who I met thru a common friend and I one look at her and my heart literally started pounding,I jus couldn't take my eyes off her..everything is going soo well but nowadays I don't see her that much!cuz not only is she working but she also volunteers helping the orphange and the old age home,and I'm so proud of that but yesterday she told me she's adopting a child from the orphanage!now I know its her life but I know after this adoption right now is not the right thing to do,only because she's working all the time,she's not married no experience handling children and its not as easy as she thinks it is,I expressed my concern..do u think I was wrong to do so,I feel guilty may be I should have supported her rather than doubt her!how do I make this right?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 April 2014):

eyeswideopen agony auntLet her do want she wants to do...there is nothing else you can do. If you want to stick around that is your decision. Plain and simple.

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