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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My anxiety issues are destroying my life and my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hello I have some issues that I would like someone to give me an advice, I am a 27 years old woman, I have a wonderfull career and a wonderfull job and the best guy as a boyfriend. My problem is that I have been in this country for one year, an...

I'm having an emotional affair with a married guy, I want to forget him and a player who's after me, what do I do?

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4 December 2008 (F) - Ok, I´m in love with a guy who ended up being married. We are having an almost emotional affair, since he´s long distance. I did not want to fall in love with him, but I did so that´s my misery. I´ve tried so hard to get him out of my heart and ...

Is fantasizing about other guys tantamount to being unfaithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Ladies! Imagine you were in a faithful relationship when a dashing, debonair, handsome, lean and lithe, sensitive, passionate, caring, tall, good looking, cute man with nice buns, nice smile, deep voice, great shoulders (and what's more he thinks ...

When a guy is checking out big boob porn, what is he thinking of his small chested GF?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - When a guy is watching a porno with big breasted women, what is he thinking in that moment if his girlfriend has small boobs? What about afterwards? When they are watching, do they wish they could squeeze, lick and just play with big breasts? Do ...

Should I spend Christmas Day with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I hope you can help. This sounds like a trivial dilemma but I have no one else to ask and I can't stop thinking about it. It has veen been waking me at night. My boyfriend and I decided to spend Christmas day together about 2 months ago. It ...

I'm having trouble believing that he doesn't just want me for the sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi really hope there is someone who can advise me. I met a guy about a year ago online and have met up a couple of times since. We both work shifts and find it hard to meet especially as we also live a good few hours drive away. The second time we ...

Sometimes he rings, sometimes he doesnt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Sometimes he rings, sometimes he won't! - HELP!! - I'm involved with a guy who I only see now and then as we live in different cities - he knows I would do anything for him (even give him money)- but he doesn't really show me his emotions alt...

His motto is enjoy them and then forget them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hello everybody. I am 20 years old Indian girl. I have a frnd here in canada. He clearly says that he just wants to have fun. He want to have sex without any attachment. He says I have slept with many girls but you are different from all of them. He ...

I have done wrong, please help me fix this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I have been in a wrong relation for last 3 years. Please read my story and guide me.i was working in a company. I had huge crush on my MARRIED coworker. He also used to flirt with me. Once he asked to hug and kiss me. I denied becoz i wanted to keep ...

He's had over 50 sexual relations?!?!?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year now. I have fallen in love with him and completely have devoted myself and my life to him. BUT-- Just a day ago, I found out before he knew me he had taken part in over 50 sexual r...

Is he seeing someone else? Should I just forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi there l need help. l don't know if my boyfriend is seeing somebody else we have been dating for 2 months sometimes he doesn't call for say 3 days and then after that he calls saying he misses me.we meet and everything is normal but yest...

I feel like I've wasted my time and energy in college because of her and just want some closure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I arrived in college as a transfer student the same year a new professor in my department was hired. I thought she was attractive and interesting, so I began casually getting closer to her. I felt we hit it off the first time I spoke with her in her ...

I want to date him but I'm not sure how to proceed! Is he a rapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I hooked-up with a guy when I was 20 but he had some sex issues. We messed around tons, but he couldn't get it up. I told my friend (who thought he was hot) and she had sex with him. She claimed that he basiclly raped her. I believed her but was ...

My partner of 15 years is treating me like, well, sh*t... please advise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - My partner of 15 years who I love and very much do everything for like a 50's house wife treats me like shi.... I am in my late 30's and he is in his 60's. When I ended up in Sept this year having a brake down and I had to live on our boat for ...

Should we keep spending his money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - My wife an I are about the same age, 28. We've been married for 8 years and have 2 kids. She has an older friend who is nearing 40, and has known the guy before highschool. We live in a town of about 3000ppl so you get to know just about everyone ...

She thinks we should break up, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Have been in relationship with alady for about 10yrs. we haven't had sex tog' and recently i fail to communicate with her for about 3wks and she call saying that may be i am comparing here with someone else or am thinking smthng else or may be Gods ...

Love is found at the strangest times, I need help....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - OK People this is deep and I need help. This will be made into a Novel one day, so don't be surprised. I am 37 years old, I have had more than my share of realtionships, both good and bad. But this one has me going in a whole different state I ...

How do I deal with this and regain the trust between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i hope someone here can help me, im with a man for a over a year now, when we first started dating he was going through a messy breakup with his ex of five years, 2 months on and they had finally parted ways. he put his house on the...