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writes:Hey Guys,I had posted a question on this forum earlier on the confusion i was having with the signs i was getting from this girl i have never met and known and have only seen from a distance for the last few months.On that situation i got a strong response from some readers here that she was clearly interested and i could go ahead and approach her.Now i did that but got nervous while talking and wish to understand her response.....I walked upto her and said..Xcuse me,cud i speak to u for a minute..she stopped and said..about what..she looked straight in my eye and this question got me nervous and i mumbled something that i need sometime to explain myself or something like that i said...then she said..I am kinda busy..i just said OK and came back..i dont know what this response means,i have heard girls never respond positively in the first instance and that had she wanted to avoid me she wud have said NO to my my very first query and walked on..that she stopped to talk and only said I m busy could be a signal that i can talk to her later....I am confused..Please guide..[Moderator's note: Please write your updates at the page of your initial question next time! The succession of events will be much easier to follow. Readers will not remember your "earlier" question related to this one given the large number of posts we approve daily.] Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 December 2008):
Well she probably was interested and then you went up to her and you mumbled and it got awkward and she said she was busy to break the silence and get rid of you.
Next time you talk to her, have something to say.
Good Luck!! xx
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