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writes:HeyIve been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, I never fall badly with guys as i have trust issues from previous stuff.But when i met him i fell completely in love with him. I can think of no one else, In fact i know no one else in this world who is like him.The problem is im getting the impression he's going off me, or he's treating me like shit because he can. I dont kno.Like a week ago he was texting me at 3am saying he misses me and wishes i was sleeping next him in his arms blahdy blahdy blah.Then i said i was going to come up and see him (we like a couple of hours away from each other) and he was like meh, totally whatever about it so we've hardly spoken this week, and i didnt go up this weekend.What the hell is going on?argh.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 These are mixed signals. This is what I am getting the impression of:
1) He wanted a booty call at three and when you were going to visit during the day it was "eh whatever."
2) He is cheating.
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reader, charli 1603 +, writes (25 November 2007):
 this guy needs to make his mind up about what he wants. if he's not interested in completely committing to you, tell him not to bother at all. he either wants you or he doesn't. don't take crap off a guy just cause youv'e fallen in love with him. let him know his attitude is unacceptable. if he cares for you, he will change. if not, show him the door. remember, he's lucky to have you too, not just the other way around.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (25 November 2007):
u r probably not like this, but is sounds like you are being quite clingy. this guy is giving you mixed signals. if hes saying he wants u to be with him at 3 am then he must like you. ask him wats up.
lol
ellie
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reader, clh91 +, writes (25 November 2007):
 hi hun! i know how you feel. my current boyfriend does that to me.
one minute he's saying he misses me n the next he acts like he doesn't care.
i talked to him about it and he didn't really listen or take much notice so i'm gonna have to do something about it soone or later.
so i suggest you talk to him about his constant change in mood and he you get not a lot of interest or response from him then think about whether you really wanna b with someone like that.
hope i helped
feel free to message me if you wanna tak about anything :)
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