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writes:i found a pregancy test in my husband toolbox and a pic. of a girl. he told me that the test and the pic. had been in thier a long time,the test was his exwife and the girl he don`t rem... how do i no he telling me the truth. rem.. he lied to me about a affair he had 2 years ago
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reader, Angel-Chris  +, writes (24 June 2008):
i think you should take it easy with him first don't make problem with him yet but rather take it to God in prayer to make your husband to open up to instead of trying to pack-up. for sure with God all things all possible. Fighting with him will make him to know what's in your mind, just try and wake him up at the middle of the night in tears to ask him why he is chaeting on you. i pray God will change and he will open up to you. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007): female replyer....i think he is teling porky pies and u should get rid of him straight away! if u have kids then trust me it will be easy and bbetter for them but if not it will be much better for you get rid of him now jst say u dont trust him and u dont wna carry on with living with him and u think u should sort it out badly before he carries on getting away with it... because it has happend before and he neally got away with it he thinks he can do it again and it will be easy u gota show him it isnt..! xx gd luck
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reader, Midge  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 I think the question here is that if his "excuse" is as he has stated, then why is he holding onto an ex partners pregnancy test and a picture of another girl?
I personally think he is telling tails and that he just thought of the first thing that popped into his head. I think there is more to this story than he is telling you and the fact that he has cheated on you before, kinda would tell me that something is seriously wrong with this picture.
You now need to make the one decision you probably dont want to. Do you stay with someone that is possibly cheating, or do you go and find a man that is going to love you, and not want to cheat on you?
I dont think he is being fair about this at all! If you are cheating and your partner finds out, why dig yourself into a deeper hole. They will find out and by that time, there is no possibility of sorting out any issues there have been. A very very silly man!!!!
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Duh!
What more proof do you want?
I know this hurts and it the last thing you want to learn about. I know cause I've been there. What you are going through is denial. The evidence is right in front of you and you don't want to believe it. Just like you, I confronted a bit of information, and after digging a little deeper my worst suspicions were proven true. If there’s a way to check his cell phone records do it. You can do this on the internet with your cell provider's site. You can also do a reverse lookup of numbers using anywho.com.
But if you ask me it’s fairly obvious that he's cheating. And if he's using a pregnancy test it means they aren't using condoms...How scary is that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): This certainly doesnt sound good if he has had an affair in the past! Why is he keeping a test kit that belonged to his ex? Why keep an old photo of a girl? Odd behaviour to me but that is how it goes with some people. You need to get to the bottom of this and as soon as possible and if its bad then boot him out of your life for good. Sorry, but once a cheat, always a cheat.
take care
xx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Does the test have a date on it?
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (30 November 2007):
 well how old are the test, and the pic? has the test been used?
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