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Should I be upset that on the first night of meeting my present girlfriend, she left with another dude?

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Question - (27 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been dating this girl for one year. The other day she said she had something that she had been hiding from me. On the night that I met her, she had a casual sexual encounter with a mutual friend of ours. Now granted, we had just met (scheduled a date for a few days later), but after she dropped me off at my house, she went over to this other guys house (a mutual friend) and had sex with him. Should I be upset?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007):

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collaroy you are god damn right....hadnt thought of it that way. thanks for the response.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (27 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntNo, because you guys were not dating. She was free to see whoever she wanted and she did.

Now it may be a bit embarrassing that its a mutual friend, but look at it this way, she slept with this guy and she then started a relationship with you. How do you think this guy feels, I'm sure he's asking himself what have you got that he hasnt?

So forget it, she chose you so you must be pushing the right buttons huh?

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