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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I feel that my BF is selfish as he doesn't try to make me orgasm when we make love. I have bought toys, showed him numerous times, tried to talk about it...He is aware and says he will try, but everytime we make love, and he's had his share of pleasure, he just rolls over and goes to sleep without acknowledging my needs. We've had afew trust issues with our relationship as i have found him looking at porn. Am i right that his actions are a reflection of lack of care and love for me here? I am frustrated and ready to suggest to him that i am leaving him.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hi sugar, i feel your frustration. My boyfriend of 17 months is the same. You have tried to talk to him, and he has achknowledged it, however he is too tired after sex. Maybe before the full on sex, then get him to pleasure you a lot to make you about to orgasm and then have sex.. or during sex, squeeze your pelvic muscles and this can make his erection last longer as it sstops the blood meaning he wont orgasm as soon.. I hope i helped :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x
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reader, muffy  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 well don't leave him.maybe he wants you to start.take some handcuffs and cuff him to the bed.do what you please this time and then let him have his fun when your done.and the whole porn thing,yea,guys watch porn all the time its just nature.so do what i said and youll both have fun.;)i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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