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Scared of losing my virginity.

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Question - (28 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hiya,

I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared of losing it because i was sexual harrassed in high school, and i've never had a real long relationship. When i was sexual harrassed i had a bf and he did nothing, he didn't comfort me or do or say anything to the lad who did it.

There's this lad i like and he knows everything about me, that i'm a virgin, i was sexual harrassed and that i'm scared, and i feel comfortable around him plus i told him that i liked him.

please help me with my problem

thank you

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

SamuraiRick agony auntYou shouldn't be involved in a sexual relationship until you know you are ready. If you feel your fears are keeping you away from such a relationship, it may actaully be normal. Its only society that tells you to have sex at an early age, but truly the answer is inside you. When you are ready you will know.

Have you recieved counseling about your harassment issues?

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI'm scared of losing mine and I'm 21. Take your time. A guy will love you for you, not your vagina.

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