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*atie vinslet
writes:I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): I think as you are at the age of 36 - 40 your future husband would be very surprised indeed if you were a virgin. However, if he thinks you are - and you've made him believe that you are - it would be best to come clean and tell him you're not.
A DNA test would prove exactly nothing - it's not what DNA tests do - and neither is there any other 'virginity test'! A ruptured hymen or lack of one proves nothing.
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reader, planepocket  +, writes (30 January 2009):
How has it gotten to the point where you are getting married without telling him already? Did he just assume you are a virgin,or did you tell him you are?Either way you need to tell him before you get married.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 January 2009):
 No you can not "DNA test" for virginity. But a gynecologist can easily see if you are one or not. Why not be honest about your sexual status? Starting a marriage of on a lie I don't think is a good idea.
If you are in the age-group of 36-40 I would be pretty normal not to be a virgin wouldn't it?
Or is there more to the story?
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