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female
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36-40,
*atie vinslet
writes:I'm not a virgin and now I'm getting married. Is it possible that my husband would come to know that I'm not a virgin and moreover can it is possible to know all that through a DNA test? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): I think as you are at the age of 36 - 40 your future husband would be very surprised indeed if you were a virgin. However, if he thinks you are - and you've made him believe that you are - it would be best to come clean and tell him you're not.
A DNA test would prove exactly nothing - it's not what DNA tests do - and neither is there any other 'virginity test'! A ruptured hymen or lack of one proves nothing.
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reader, icelordess  + ♥, writes (30 January 2009):
 Is your man expecting you to be a virgin? That would be pretty uncommon at your age, so does he have a reason to expect you to be one? As the other ladies stated, a gynecologist could tell, but your man probably couldn't unless he is expecting you to bleed, or have alot of pain/resistance. Your post doesn't really give us alot of information, so we can only go by what you say. If you have told the man that you are a virgin and you are not..I'd say its not a great way to start a marriage. If it's for religious reasons that you are supposed to be a virgin, again I could understand if you are not one but the man thinks you are..but it isn't very solid foundation to start a marriage off based on a lie.
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reader, planepocket +, writes (30 January 2009):
How has it gotten to the point where you are getting married without telling him already? Did he just assume you are a virgin,or did you tell him you are?Either way you need to tell him before you get married.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (30 January 2009):
 Are you marrying a foreigner? A DNA test will not show up this information. I agree with Honeypie best to start your marriage off without lies at your age most men would think you would have been involved in some relationships why is this important to you?
Gina
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 January 2009):
 No you can not "DNA test" for virginity. But a gynecologist can easily see if you are one or not. Why not be honest about your sexual status? Starting a marriage of on a lie I don't think is a good idea.
If you are in the age-group of 36-40 I would be pretty normal not to be a virgin wouldn't it?
Or is there more to the story?
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