I have a serious problem with trusting my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 months (a long time for me) and we just argue A LOT we get on most of the time but a while ago, she was going home after seeing me, she usually catches the bus home, because it's 2 far to walk 2 hers and she said she would ring me because I wanted to talk to her about something, but after she went, I waited 45 minutes and no call, I text her couple of times no reply. I rang and she cut me off about 5 times and then she accidently answerd her phone and I was sat there listening to her with some lads so I just recorded the conversation. It was hard to tell what she was saying because of music playing in the background but I heard her say "he doesn't stop fucking texting and ringing me" and then she realized she was on the phone and cut it off. Later on I kept ringing and she finally answered. I asked her about the lads and she just started lying saying it was her dad and brother, but I knew it wasn't and she said her mate was there also who I hate.So yeah I managed to get it outta her that she was with two lads in a car going home apparently and her mate wasn't there at all, this hurt me a lot because what's she doing in a car with 2 lads and ignoring me in the process if they're her mates I'm sure she could have answerd the phone. Anyways I forgave her in the end but today she was apparently going out with her mate and then I got a phone call from one of my friends saying that my gf is on a certain street with a girl and a lad and seeing as what happened about the whole car situation I don't know whether to trust her because I've realized she can easily lie to me about anything. I've asked her about the girl and lad, she says it was her mate and her mates bf but I don't really believe it so what am I supposed to do?I've told her to fuck off at the moment and not to speak to me helpp someone pelaseeee???
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009):Let her be you cant do this to yourself trust your gut and stay away from her, its so unfair that some girls mess around and they are the ones who gets all the trust, I am a good looking girl and have men flirting with me all the time, but I have never even thought about reacting to that because of who I am but because of girls like yours my man cant trust me, I say leave her forget about her and get yourself someone who is actually worthy of your love and trust, not all girls are like that, some of us actually believe in true love and being committed to one man only, so don’t give up on love because of some chick who lies and cheat, you just keep the attitude you have right now and you will get a woman deserving of you, trust is a bitch it really is once you lose that in a person you will try forever to get it back but there will always be doubts, if you stay with this girl you will be subjecting yourself to another couple of months of questions and doubts that will drive you crazy. Walk out while you still sane.Good luck dear
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009):good stuff man, tell her to get bent!!! Then she will realise what she is doing when you run off and do your own thing, dont give her the time of day dude, you can do better!!!! Good Luck.
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