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writes:My boyfriend has jus been told hes being medically dscharged after several injuries from the royal marines and he is devestated. It was his dream 2 be a royal marines commando.How do i comfort and help him at this time and through it? :( x Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 August 2009):
I'm sorry to hear that.
Sounds like his head is in a right mess at the moment. Depression really brings out the worst in people.
I hope he sorts himself out and I hope you manage to move on and find happiness with no hard feelings.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, XHXMXBX +, writes (2 August 2009):
XHXMXBX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the answer
I tried but it didnt work and we ended in late febuary the nite before his 18th birthday
he jus felt like he had lost everything and just wanted to wallow without a girlfriend.
now he wont even talk to me which is very annoying seen as im best friends which 1 of his best friends and see him all the time at church
but thats life ... thankyou anyways :-)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 January 2009):
Let him have a bit of time to himself to be miserable and broody and hit things.
Men don't want to talk about their feelings as much as us girls.
In the mean time do some research on other "tough" jobs. There are many other things he could do, he just has to figure out what.
When he's ready then talk to him about other things. Find out what it was he really enjoyed about the marines - the fitness? The travel? The job security? Find out which bits were most important and then help him follow up on that in some other path.
Good Luck!! xx
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