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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him sex then someone else is getting it from me and I told him that he's the only one for me.. he said I am lying.. I asked him if he has any proof that I'm cheating and he didn’t say anything, just said he knows and I know that am cheating.. but I am not cheating on him, I like him.. I've started falling for him.. he says I'm playing games with him.. it seem like he doesn’t care about me any more.. and always starts arguments... I TOLD HIM THAT IS HIM THAT I WANT and that am not cheating on him.. We made up.. I asked him if he still likes me and if he's still interested in me like when we first met.. he said yes.. and he told me to call him we reach home.. I called but he didn’t answer so I text him and it's been 2 WEEKS now he hasn’t called or texted me.. Not even on NEW YEARS.. And I haven’t contacted him either...What is going on? WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW? Please help me..x
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reader, megan1111  +, writes (16 January 2009):
Sorry to tell you but he's involved with someone else or he's playing a very common game "no good" guys place to get into your panties.
You can do better and should!
Move on now before you get hurt further and deeper.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (15 January 2009):
 One thing I have heard on numerous occasions is that a guy will constantly accuse you of cheating when that is what he is doing. He realizes how easily he is getting away with it so he suspects you are too. Even if that isn't what is going on, he is controlling (telling you repeatedly you are lying/cheating), and doesn't seem to care about you (calls you a liar and hasn't called in 3 weeks...) I hate to tell you that that isn't a relationship. It isn't normal to not talk to your boyfriend for 3 weeks, especially around the holidays. It's best to let him go. It wouldn't be too much of a difference from now anyways right? You aren't talking either way. Staying with him will make you feel even more lonely. There's nothing quite as lonely as being stuck with someone not being able to meet anyone else and not even talking to who you are with. Good luck on your own, I seriously doubt he is on his own...
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reader, simplegirl  +, writes (15 January 2009):
Get the hell out of the relationship!!!!!!!!! like right now, this guy is not right for you, and you can clearly see it too.
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 teo words came to me as i read this...MOVE ON. this isn't a healthy relationship. you might think that your falling for him but it seems he'l fallingout of it with you... i know its not fair and we don't get what we want but you need to find someone who is special to you and they feel the same way about you.
hope this helps
jenni hearts
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): get rid of him. simple.
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reader, Spendy +, writes (15 January 2009):
Spendy is verified as being by the original poster of the question It's gunna be 3 weeks tomorrow that I havent heard from him.. what should I do now, please help me. I am soo depressed.. I can't even sleep.. I feel sooo empty and lonely..xx
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