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writes:Im not sure if im doing the right thing. My friend and i fell out mostly to do with our "relationship" He would tell me he loved me then he would back out. We eventually ended up making love and i was his first. A few weeks later he said he wanted to remain friends. I tried but we fell out and didn't speak for months. I was so upset by his neglect i asked him not to contact me again. He emailed me out the blue the other day and started "small talking" he added me back as a friend on facebook but im not sure if im doing the right thing. I think he's seeing another friend of his but i don't know for sure and im not sure i can cope with that and if i can maintain this friendship. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would love to be in a relationship with him i love him very much. Im not sure i can cope just being his friend but unless i maintain some kind of friendship with him anything else would be off the table. Don't get me wrong im not expecting a relationship but i want him. I sent him two very strongly worded letters one asking him to leave me alone and telling him he's free and one in responce to his email telling him i was very angry and i felt like he had disrespected me. But he just dodges the subject *sigh* For the record we have been the best of friends for 6 years and this dance between us has gone one for two always with him starting it.
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reader, melonface +, writes (17 August 2009):
maybe hes a man of commitment troubles if your still really into him, and you just want to stay friends tell him that before you let him back into your life againthat's probibly the most hardest thing to dogood luck
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