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female
age
36-40,
*abe01
writes:I'm in luv with a guy who's 2 years younger than me. I'm working and he's doing his final year at university. He loves me and is everything i'd ever want from a guy. Problem is i still love my ex and i know he still loves me too (he's been begging me to give him another chance). My boyfriend loves me and has introduced me to his family and all his friends. believe me i love him too, bt can't stop thinkin about my ex. When my ex and i were still together things weren't good but i loved him anyway. How do i forget about my ex and fully commit to my boyfriend. i really need help.
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reader, Aunt Iris  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Dear friend!
Its sometime hard to deal with a ghost from your past. You didnt mention why you broke up with your ex-boyfriend. But quite frankly it doesnt really matter as you are now in love with a good man. If your ex boyfriend is begging for you to go back to him, its only natural for you to think of him as he is giving you more attention than he probably did when you were with him. Though you love your boyfriend you cant ignore if somebody is giving you attention. Everybody likes to feel special. But what is important is that you realise your true feelings and bid your ex goodbye. Dont deliberately get yourself confused. You are in love with another man now for a reason.
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reader, deafguy  +, writes (17 August 2009):
It seems to me that you have unresolved issue with your ex boyfriend. It seems to me that there is something you need to find out for yourself.
Perhaps inform your boyfriend (he might be hurt but will understand) that you need a half day out
to meet a cafe with ex boyfriend and let him know that you have new life or etc things to sort out.
After that, see if you can move on.
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