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writes:I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer was I have 2 jobs which was true. Shortly after that we had intercourse 3 or 4 times weekly, 7 months later he asked how did I feel about more children I told him I was not ready.Anyway 1 year later I became pregnant. 6 months into my term I saw a handsome man on his screen saver on his phone. The guy had a nice jean outfit on, anyway I asked him who was that guy he told me it was his artist. For some reason I did not buy that answer so i told him he in turn told me that I was just upset because I was not on his screen saver. I told him I would have rather seem a big butt with a g-string like Lil' Kim or Mary J Blige - anybody but that guy. To me that was strange so in that year I see 2 naked men on his cell phone, one of the men had big breasts and a huge penis totally naked and the other guy was a bbw naked guy. I asked about the pics and he told me a guy at his job sent it 2 him - 2 weeks later they are still on his phone because I checked so I asked him about it again and his answer was the guy with the breasts was a hermaphrodite - that answer blew me a way because it was not, it was a tranny as clear as day im no longer with him but im devastated and blame mymyself for having a child outside of wedlock with a person who i dont know what his sexually prefrence is. sorry im a bad speller [NOTE: Re-written by moderator to make this more legible]
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (23 June 2009):
 Okay I had sex on the 11th, my last period was on the 25th, my period usually comes from 25-29 days. Today is day 29th, and it's not coming. About 3 days after my new bf and i stared having sex (the 11th), my breast got bigger, just like when I took birth control pills a while ago (which makes your body think its pregnant). So my breat feeling bigger and my period not coming plus peeing more than usual are really making me think i might be pregnant. I know, i know, i shoul've used protection, i'm stupid, but its done now and i need to find a solution. I will not have unprotected sex ever again and that's a promise i'm making, but right now I can't even sleep weel. My stomach is also bloaded, which could be another sign. I made an appointment for next monday to get a free pregnancy test, but i dont know how i'm goon be able to wait that long. I NEED to know. Also, another thing i'm worried about is a dream i had a couple days ago. That a tooth was falling out and it will NOT stop bleeding. In my country we believe that if you dream that you lose a tooth it means the death of someone, i'm afraid is mine. I was reading that if you get medical abortion (which is what i'm thinking of getting in case i'm pregnant) you could bleed to death, i'm scared that's what my dream is trying to tell me since in my dream my mounth just woudln't stop bleeding. By the way, ever since i moved back home my mom is in my business too much an di hate it. I dont have a job yet so i don't know how i will pay for the abortion so my bf better pay for it, he's sure he didn't come inside me but that doesn't matter because maybe he pre came, specially because he stopped himself from coming several times INSIDE ME. Do u think i might be pregnant?? :(
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reader, AnitaBerber +, writes (28 April 2009):
Sometimes we have fantasies that we don't actually want to make into realities. For example a common fantasy for women is rape but we all know that when that happens in real life its a terrible crime and deeply traumatic. It could be that he doesn't actually want to be with a man or a tranny but just enjoys looking at them, if he's an artist it may even be an artist appreciation. Of course he could be gay or bisexual, and he may or may not be comfortable with his sexuality yet much less have come to terms with it, this may just be the first stage of him figuring it out and if he doesn't know fully how can he tell you? Obviously you are not comfortable with this and b/c you aren't its probably going to be very difficult for you to get him to open up, b/c who wants to open up to someone they feel will judge or attack them it just doesn't feel safe. If you can talk to him about this in a none confronting manner that would be best. Also you shouldn't really be snooping around that implies trust issues and a relationship with trust issues is already doomed. If it was on accident you saw it, that's different of course. If he's bi and the sex has been great, he enjoys it too and you are happy otherwise and he is a good man you can still be together, just b/c he's bi doesn't make him a cheat are you inadequate but only you know if you can live with and accept that. Since you are having a child together you need to be on good terms (perhaps you can't work through this, maybe he's gay and you don't want to be a cover marriage) but he is still the father of your child. Do not assume b/c he may be gay or look at explicit picture that makes him a deviant. Aside from the images you found, how has been to you as a partner? Is he a good man? Obviously if he's abusive then you don't want him around your child but if he's just a gay man, but a good man then he has a right to be involved in his child's life and so you will need to get along and have to learn to accept him for your child's sake.
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