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Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

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Question - (28 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *uckerfreediet29 writes:

I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer was I have 2 jobs which was true. Shortly after that we had intercourse 3 or 4 times weekly, 7 months later he asked how did I feel about more children I told him I was not ready.

Anyway 1 year later I became pregnant. 6 months into my term I saw a handsome man on his screen saver on his phone. The guy had a nice jean outfit on, anyway I asked him who was that guy he told me it was his artist. For some reason I did not buy that answer so i told him he in turn told me that I was just upset because I was not on his screen saver. I told him I would have rather seem a big butt with a g-string like Lil' Kim or Mary J Blige - anybody but that guy.

To me that was strange so in that year I see 2 naked men on his cell phone, one of the men had big breasts and a huge penis totally naked and the other guy was a bbw naked guy. I asked about the pics and he told me a guy at his job sent it 2 him - 2 weeks later they are still on his phone because I checked so I asked him about it again and his answer was the guy with the breasts was a hermaphrodite - that answer blew me a way because it was not, it was a tranny as clear as day im no longer with him but im devastated and blame mymyself for having a child outside of wedlock with a person who i dont know what his sexually prefrence is. sorry im a bad speller

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A female reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (23 June 2009):

Ivanna22 agony auntOkay I had sex on the 11th, my last period was on the 25th, my period usually comes from 25-29 days. Today is day 29th, and it's not coming. About 3 days after my new bf and i stared having sex (the 11th), my breast got bigger, just like when I took birth control pills a while ago (which makes your body think its pregnant). So my breat feeling bigger and my period not coming plus peeing more than usual are really making me think i might be pregnant. I know, i know, i shoul've used protection, i'm stupid, but its done now and i need to find a solution. I will not have unprotected sex ever again and that's a promise i'm making, but right now I can't even sleep weel. My stomach is also bloaded, which could be another sign. I made an appointment for next monday to get a free pregnancy test, but i dont know how i'm goon be able to wait that long. I NEED to know. Also, another thing i'm worried about is a dream i had a couple days ago. That a tooth was falling out and it will NOT stop bleeding. In my country we believe that if you dream that you lose a tooth it means the death of someone, i'm afraid is mine. I was reading that if you get medical abortion (which is what i'm thinking of getting in case i'm pregnant) you could bleed to death, i'm scared that's what my dream is trying to tell me since in my dream my mounth just woudln't stop bleeding. By the way, ever since i moved back home my mom is in my business too much an di hate it. I dont have a job yet so i don't know how i will pay for the abortion so my bf better pay for it, he's sure he didn't come inside me but that doesn't matter because maybe he pre came, specially because he stopped himself from coming several times INSIDE ME. Do u think i might be pregnant?? :(

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