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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey, this guy at my church has been checking me out in church for months. for example all through the service he looks back at me and sits two seats in front of me. I have been trying to introduce my to him for a long time but he always ccomes late and leaves as soon as church ends. i thought one day to look for his profile on facebook and after alot of debating i emailed him. that was 8 days ago and he hasnt emailed me back. i saw him again in church yesterday and he did the same thing he always does. he was checking me out like usual but this time he left 15 minutes earlier. was i stupid to email him on facebook? please help?
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reader, hotongue4u1000 +, writes (28 April 2009):
no, just be careful how far you want to go with this guy.
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reader, Loah  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Not everyone with a facebook account checks it on a regular basis. I for one can go weeks without out logging on and have friends who have the same habit! But then have to play catch up, returning messages that have been piling up. So don't give up hope just yet!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): If he's not saying anything to you, but keeps looking..he sounds like he's interested. But he also could be scared and tense. An awkwardly shy person will have troubles in making the first move. Or perhap he has a gf, already and is just scoping the females at church...you, mostly.
You made the first move on Facebook and perhaps he was intimidated by that...or maybe as said before, he's not single and doesn't want to encourage you? There are a lot of reasons why he could be doing this. But the predominant problem is...he's not responding to you.
It's time to move on and find someone else who may be less complicated, a bit more confident and will respond in kind to your overtures. Sorry, don't focus on him. Because when a guy snoozes...he loses, girl. Plain and simple.
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