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Why doesn't he treat me like her?

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Question - (25 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i've been talking to this guy for over two months now just msn and phone

we are close we know alot about eachother and i do love him tbh he is like a good friend to but he doesn't want a relationship or anything.. hes 28 im 18

hes nearly going to get married arranged and says wants us to fuck for ever

we've been tlaking for ages about sex and well i've never felt like this for another guy we fight so much before but always made up and he knows i dont talk dirty or do stuff like pics for any one else. im a virgin and some time he has backed away saying its a big thing.

but he wants to be able to fuck other women to..we fight i say what ever...today hes meetin a friend via internet hes had over a year..meeting for first time today and she fancies him he knows it

and there going to go for coffee or sumat then who knows..and im like to him..u want us 2 meet ina hotel room for the first time to have fun when we meet..whereas with her ur going out.why dont u respect me like her and why never take me out

he said. i never said i wouldnt take u out and i respect u more then her..

i'm just ignoring him.he told me he's gna kiss her etc and knows i get jealous. why doesn't he treat me like her?? he told me im more decent cuz hes the only guy done stuff with and want to do stuff with whereas she's been around etc

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A female reader, Mikados are lush! United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2009):

Mikados are lush! agony auntI reakon its too soon to be going out on dates with other guys, if you are that cut up still. Not really fair on the new guy? But obviously its your choice.

Good luck, your ex sounds awful

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

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he told me he kissed this married friend of his who wants more from him.. my heart just broke i thought i could handle it but i couldn't i offereed him everything and i still didn't understand why he droped me for her.. yeah thats right he dropped all his other girls just for that one married women.

i ended up gettin drunk and sendin him abusive texts telling him he meant nothing to me and he's not a real man etc. He blocked delted me off msn for past two days i been crying and begging him. he left me told me to delte his number he said he couldn't be friends with me and its all my fault.

IT took ages and alot of me saying how he never kept his word of always staying etc he said we can jst be msn pals...but only on the account he never goes onto. i said ok and then said we will see how it goes... i've decided to jst enjoy life a bit there a lad who likes me so gna go on a date with him. but he's sitll in my mind and the tears dont stop flowing. i don't know what to do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009):

I wouldn't even bother to meet him. He is already cheating on the woman he is to marry and hasn't even taken you out anywhere. You are right he doesn't respect you, in fact he doesn't sound like he respects women at all.

Save yourself for someone better who treats you right. You don't have to settle for crumbs.

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A female reader, Mikados are lush! United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2009):

Mikados are lush! agony auntWell first off I will just say, would you really want to go any further with this guy, knowing that he is treating the woman he is supposed to be marrying so badly??? If he can treat her so bad, how is he going to treat you well?

I'm not you, and ultimately its got to be your choice, but I wouldn't want to lose my virginity with someone that holds women in such poor regard bab. You can do so much better I am sure!

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