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anonymous
writes:I am in engaged to be married in 8 weeks and my fiance parents has a house that will be passed on to him. We are planning for our wedding and also trying to buy a house that will accommodate 7 total of our children from previous relationships. Every time his parents are mainly anyone need help he wants to be the Captain save and he's been like that for years before we start seeing each other. But from what I been noticing for the past 2 years being with him he's really never been able to afford to support people the way he has been because he owes the Government a lot of money. He continue wants to help people out when I think he needs to take care of himself and his new family first and he seems to think he suppose to be there when his father needs help on maintence of the house that he will be inheriting. It's like a never ending conversation because he can't see it my way and I can't see it his way. I don't want to go into this marriage always taking care of people when they call out like he has been doing for years. But he is such a very sweet and loving guy I'm not sure what to do. I love him and he is a man for me to marry but I know this will cause a lot of problems in our marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): If it's a problem before marriage it will be an even bigger problem afterwards. You need to sort out your differences beforehand or there will be trouble ahead.
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