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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi.I have a problem with a boy (let's call his Ed) that has been in love with me for about 3 years. I used to be flattered, but now he is turning obsessive. When I had a boyfriend a few months ago, he spent his every waking hours trying to split us up, saying to my boyfriend that I was going to dump him and things like that. A few weeks ago a guy in my year kissed me and I was really happy. I told my friends about the kiss but Ed overheard. Ed then went straight over to the guy that I kissed and shouted at him, telling him to stay away from me. From then on, The guy I kissed hasn't talked to me at all.I forgived Ed for doing that, but just yesterday he did the same thing to another guy who asked me out. I am so angry at him. I wish he would just leave me alone and realise that I am not his property. Is he going to ruin every relationship I have?!How can I get this guy to back off?Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): you can talk to him,honey.sometimes a simple conversation can solve even the toughest of problems.why don't people talk to each other????anyways it is my opinion that you should approach him nicely,ask him why he's doing these things and explainto him the impact that all this has on you and that it's only pushing him further away from you.tell him how you feel and ask him to stop.it really is that simple.
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