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She seems keener on her ex's than me?

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Question - (25 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, *geek writes:

hey everyone, thanks for your time.

Me and my girl have been together 8 months, we are doin great have our problems just like any other couple.

I seem to be feeling jealousy at the fact that she is chronically texting to and talking to two of her ex's, significantly more than we ever do. Not quite sure if its fine for me to be jealous or not. But when she sees either of them she yells their name runs and darn near jumps right on top of them.

Never got a welcome like that before.

Also because of my relations with the school system here I was not able to go to prom this year, I instead offered to take her out for a nice date. Even though we are it still bugs me that she was seriously considering goin to prom without me having one of her ex's invite her.

Is it right for me to be a bit jealous over some things? And do you even think that she even realizes that she is makin me jealous? She knows me well enough to know that i get violent with other guys quite often, without needing much of a reason. I sometimes swear she is trying to instigate it between me n her x's, yet she is defiantly not a "drama" person.

a bit confused but any feedback of thoughts would be helpful.

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