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36-40,
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writes:I can't help but to feel jealous when my boyfriend talks about his baby mother. He tells me he can't stand her and they will never be together again. He will never mess with a younger girl again; But he says he loves her cause she takes care of his son and they were friends 1st. He never says he loves me, I know its only been 7months but y doesn't he say anything about liking me or being in love with me. I tell him all the time but never get it back so I just stop telling him. He see his son every week about 2 to 3times so he see her to but he claims he don't go in her house, he just pick up his son and go.Their son was born a month before he talked to me. The relationship he claims has been over he was just with her for his child at the end but he couldnt take her attitude anymore.His son is 7 months old now, he didn't tell me about a kid intil 2months in our relationship. I try to leave him last month but he talked me out of it. Do you think he started a relationship to early with me, not giving him time to get over her. Im glad he step up to being a father but how can I move on with him knowing he still loves his baby mother? What can I do?
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (14 April 2009):
Hi! - I am in the same situation as you! - I'm with a guy who has a child to a woman who he says he doesn't get along with and is always arguing with him!
The trouble is there will always be that bond and even when guys say they aren't in love with their ex anymore they will always feel something for them!
Whether these men are on the rebound or not remains to be seen - but if he got with you quite quickly after the split chances are he will be on the rebound!!
Good luck - we can only hope they move on from there ex's to something better with us!
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