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writes:My friend has a girfriend (lets say Amy), Amy's on the phone a lot with (let's say Ben) talking for hours on end and stuff and tonight Amy and Ben have gone walking in a park. So my friend is getting really worried... she's reassured my friend that she has no feelings for Ben and he believes her. It's not that he doesn't trust Amy, it's that he doesn't trust Ben.What should he do? or is he just being silly? By the way, they're like 16/17 years old if that makes a difference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): my partner has a friend that he has known much longer than he has known me, she rings and texts him every day,its not that i dont trust my partner i dont trust this woman as far as i could throw!!! she rings him at the weekend with stupid stories/excuses(such as my fellas brother is in a fight &when my fella rings his brother ge is ok and sat at home!!! to try and get him to go to meet her at the pub!!! tell your friend to trust their instinct i am a 28 year old woman and i have a nagging feeling about the intentions of my partners friend so i have asked everyone i know to keep their eyes and ears open for me i want information and facts before i confront this woman,as i do not want to go in guns blazing!! hope this helps your friend
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reader, teenageheartbreak  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 no, he's not being silly. he's a boy, so he knows how other boys can be. and if "amy" has been constantly reassuring that she has no feeling for him, isn't there a chance that she's trying to reassure herself instead?
being a girl, i think that it's possible for her to be good friends with a guy, and just friends. but i don't think that she would talk for hours to a boy that wasn't her boyfriend if she didn't have some sort of feelings for him.
in my opinion, i think that your "friend" should confront his girlfriend about it, and tell her he feels cheated because she speaks more to "ben" than your friend. maybe tell your friend to ask if he could tag along sometime, just to reassure himself that there's nothing between amy and ben. if she gets defensive about it tell him to ask her how she would feel if he talked to hours upon hours to another girl.
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