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My guy seems to have no emotion and I always feel like sex is a one night stand with him. Does he love me?

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Question - (9 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i love him but i feel sex doesnt mean anything to him as it does me

he was my first and i was hes 14th that he had been with like its no big deal

i ask him to make love

then he gets into it saying aww i really cant wait to get u off as i am fucking you real good

he has no emotion and it hurts me i feel as a one night stand

what do i do ??????

does he not love me any more

or did he ever

im so confussed

he never tires in our relationship

how can i get him to understand how i feel ????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007):

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i tell him and he doesnt tell me he loves me at all when i ask him to make love it ends up in pointless ruff sex

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (9 September 2007):

duce00 agony auntSorry, but it may be that you are learning a hard lesson here. Getting used for sex. Thats what it sounds like to me.

Your not the first to deal with this. Theres alot of folks here who now the story well. The same advice applies to you.

RESPECT YOURSELF!

Sadly there are men who wont give you the respect you deserve. You need to have it for yourself allways so that your not looking for somebody else to give it to you. Taking pride in yourself and being confident is very attractive. When you do this you will atract a man that wont do this crap to you.

Chin up dear, get on with being a happy confident woman and move on to somebody better.

Duce

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A male reader, Darius South Africa +, writes (9 September 2007):

Darius agony auntThe only way u gona get an answ from him is if u ask him in face does he loves u and if he replys with wat do u think tell him in his face i dont think so, and if he has nothing to say then u know that he doesnt, and when u 2 make love does he tel u he loves u? or do u tel him u love him when u make love to him?

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