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female
age
41-50,
*tomic_ant
writes:I've been in this relationship for over a year and I know that I may be quite needy for quality time and love. I've given everything but haven't recieved the amount needed in return. I love him but these days all I do is cry over things he's doing. Not really serious but just he doesn't like to spend time with me as much i would like to that with him.And that hurts cause he's showing he doesn't love me the way I DO. He is great and nice and caring and loves me for sure. But I feel bad even now.Is it better to terminate this relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, beautifultrustnlover  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 i feel for you i do
what i think and this is my opion you need to givr him s little space and maybe talk to him abit how you are feeling just try not to push him away thats the last thing you want to do
i think running out and not even giving a chance to repair something that isnt as broken as you think can be a mistake but in the fact you can only do what you feel is right
plan a date just you and him
spend some much needed time together but also give him space no need to make him feel like he can not breath
he will catch on if you show him the way with limiting you beening so needy and clingy
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