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How can I stop arguing with him?

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Question - (11 September 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2007)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 30-35, *raze writes:

my boyfriend an i have been together for 4yrs and i always argue with him for everything and i do it any where now. he doesn't even want to go out with me or talk to me and i feel like i'm losin him what should i do to stop it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007):

Hi Love,

Can you think back to when all this started? I want to help love but if you could just give a little more info it may be easier to get to the bottom of this horrible problem that you really dont want to happen anymore.

Has anything in the past set this off, as it is usually the ones we are closest to we take all our hurt out on, So I wonder if this goes deeper. We all argue and most of the time things are said in the heat of the moment that you or the other person dont mean, I do believe that to hurt someone we have to be hurting inside ourselves.

You dont want to be this way its hurting you so something is upsetting you and you need to find the real problem here, If you would like to talk more im only happy to help TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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