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writes:ok here's my story, i left a guy for my ex, me and my ex were together for almost 2 years, then i had to move overseas to work,that's when he cheated on me with another girl, as soon as i knew, we broke up and i moved on to another guy, me and my new guy decided to get engage and soon to be married next year. then recently, i came in contact with my ex as frens, my ex started to apologize for all the things that he put me thru and expresses his regret for leaving me...he even told me that things are not working between him and that girl, he even asked me if he still wants me, would i accept him, at that time i then realize i still love my ex..however, eventhough i still love my ex, i told him he had hurt me in the past and im not sure if he could love me more than i want him to love me in addition, i told him that i've promise myself to someone and im going to honour it. the problem is that, i still love my ex, but im afraid he would hurt me again and i'm getting engage. i know im doing the right thing by letting my ex go, but why i dun feel right and how do i know i'm not making the biggest mistake in marrying someone else? help me please..im too confuse...
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reader, monkey17  +, writes (12 September 2007):
Well I know what you mean...I think you should put off your engagement for a while just so you can figure out who you really love...it's really not fair to your fiancee that you still love your ex after all your ex did cheat on you and how do you know he won't do the same thing again???
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): There's nothing quite so attractive as the things you can't have.
He can't have you which makes you more attractive and top of his wish list.
You've now moved on. Forget the ex. Get on with the rest of your life. It would never work out a second time if it didn't work out the first time!
Phil
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