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female
age
30-35,
*oniqueEE
writes:Me and bf have started having sex and whilst I love being with him, I don't think I'm getting any satisfaction from it. On the contrary I still bleed everytime we do it :SI know sex isnt the only thing but I'm starting to feel like its all about him, however he is always asking what he wants me to do. I plucked up the courage once to tell him that I want him to down on me but this was over the phone and he said that he doesnt like doing it.I'm not sure how to make sex better for myself, do you think I'm not getting emotionally involved in it? For some reason this is plagueing my mind and I cant think about anything else. Its worrying me because people are telling me to break up with him because he wont do it.What do I do? I care about him deeply, and I dont want to push him to do something he doesnt want to, but I need to feel something in sex, I want to feel like we're both involved.Any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): Seriously, I don't care how much you like or love him. If you are not sexually compatible, end it now and move on. It'll be the best for both of you. Neither of you are probably doing anything wrong (except he won't go down. I don't get that), you just are not right for each other. It's not going to change, and in the end it's not going to work.
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