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writes:I was making love with my fiance and by mistake I call her an random celebrity name. She got really upset, then angry she threw her engagement ring at me then she went her friend's. I called her friend (my fiance wouldn`t pick up) and ask her to tell my fiance to come home but she wouldn't because she came to her crying, What should I do? By the way it was our anniversary.
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (8 July 2009):
Wow, see to me a random celebrity name would not bother me at all.I was having sex with a girl and she called me by her ex-bf's name.. THAT one stung.But a celebrity? Eh, i would laugh that one off and probably play it up :P Still, though, yeah. Lots of apologising.. Though i do think she could have handled it a BIT better..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2009): ok damage done - solution is lots of over the top groveling, flowers, diamonds, gifts, thoughtful acts etc. BUT if she forgives you then no more names, just baby, beautiful and honey - if that doesn't work just say nothing during sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): time to start grovelling. flowers/ jewellery, anything to show her how sorry you are.
i think she had guts to throw the engagement rings/tomp out/and not come back. she got some balls after all. not a good anniversary present for her now. but don't worry she may slip up and call you her ex's name while at it with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): i really don't think this is a big deal.I would just laugh about it.she will come round just give her time.and just reassure her that ou love everything about her and say your sorry.end of.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 O_o
You CALLED her? Just how braindead are you?
You knew where she was. You should have gone over there and begged her on your knees.
You did wrong, now you are going to have to beg. In fact I think this is the kind of situation they invented diamonds for. Big ones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): My wife and I both called each other by another name the first year we were together. She avoided doing it by not using my name at all for a while after that. I accidentally called her by my ex wife's name 3 or 4 times. It does hurt a bit at the moment, but it happens. Why make such a big deal out of it? It is no reflection on how one feels about their partner.
Any person who leaves the other person for a mistake like this automatically makes the other person the luckiest person in the world that day. They are better off without someone as immature as that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): hmm
its not a big a deal as people are making out
sure you screwed up, but its not like you cheated with Angelina Jolie.. lol
come on people, guys do think of other woman, this world is too unreliastic, as long as it was a one-off. try not to do it again lol i think its kind of funny, you and your wife might life about it later :P
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 I don't blame her! I would have done far worse than just gone to my friends! She's an idiot if she goes back with you! And you're a total idiot for calling her someone elses name! How can you expect help from this site when you have done something totally ridiculous!? X
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (6 July 2009):
I don't blame her! I would have done far worse than just gone to my friends! She's an idiot if she goes back with you! And you're a total idiot for calling her someone elses name! How can you expect help from this site when you have done something totally ridiculous!? X
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 July 2009):
Oh you silly silly boy.
You just have to do some really really really big apologising.
Don't you dare "tell her to come home" you follow her with flowers and gifts and you get on your knees and you tell her how much she means to you and how much she means to you.
She is going to think you don't find her sexy and you think about other people all the time. She is going to think this means you don't really love her.
You have to convince her otherwise.
Don't expect her to be your fiance straight away. Get her back as your girlfriend and then really WORSHIP her for a while. Then you can propose again in a really romantic way and she'll be all yours.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, guywithlove  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Hahaha!! you definitely screwed up boy....its hard...but not impossible to get her back....SORRY..SORRY...SORRY is the word...
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