A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am very paranoid about exposing my breasts, I'm not sure why. My boyfriend is very respectful of it and never asks me too but I can tell it is beginning to hurt his feelings like I'm not comfortable around him or something...any confidence boosters?? Or should I go with the leap of faith and just do it??
View related questions:
breasts, confidence Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, BadDog  +, writes (28 July 2009):
You should definitely try the leap of faith. Next time you meet up with your BF try not wearing a bra and when things start hotting up take your top off and give him a nice surprise! If he doesn't get the picture, guide his hands to your boobs and let him feel them. He'll be over the moon.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone :) you were all really helpful
...............................
A
male
reader, Your friend  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Just show them to him and the rest will fall into place (so to speak).
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Assuming that your sleeping (actually sleeping) in the same bed, overnight... turn out the lights and take off your top. Let him get to know your breasts in the dark. That way he can get aquainted with them by touch and then increase the lighting slightly step by step.
You have ZERO to be ashamed about. Everyone's body is uniquine and beautiful, and virtually NONE of them look like the girls in the magainzes. Remember, if he loves you, it's you he loves... you, not the ideal breasts from a magainze... he's not going to stop loving you when he "discovers" your human! Good luck!
...............................
A
female
reader, annie-d +, writes (14 July 2009):
i used to be self-conscious with my bf, but then i realised there isnt anything to be uncomfortable about after all he is a boy and they are fascinated by breats and vaginas... so let him feel them if you want him to, he wont say anything horrible about them as he will be in love with them too much. for example when i first got with my bf i would be uncomfortable with it but after a while i got used to it and didnt mind now he does al sorts of things with my breats, he even got off with them once.... just enjoy it, if he wants to grope you it means he just wants to explore your body and know about it...... but remember if you definetlly do not want to do it dont let him
hope this help xx Annie-d
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've always had big boobs and my friends have always playfully teased me about it since we were all little because my body type is very short and slight and it makes my boobs look out of place
...............................
A
female
reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 Has anyone ever given you reason to feel insecure about them before?Maybe try starting out wearing sheer bras, so you're not fully exposing them but you get a little more comfortable doing it one step at a time?
...............................
A
male
reader, Your friend +, writes (14 July 2009):
You haven't mentioned why it is a problem eg do you think they are too small or large, has someone said something to you but ultimately you will have to show him. Why don't you have some fun with it and tell him you have a surprise for him.
...............................
A
female
reader, Heartbroken-xx  +, writes (14 July 2009):
I use to be like you too, I hated when my boyfriend looked at my breasts or even touched them. I was very self conscious of them, probably because they didn't look like they were straight out of a porn magazine.It's okay though, I got over that, eventually I was comfortable enough with my body to expose it to my boyfriend. My boyfriend did help a lot along the way though. Take baby steps, like wearing a bra in front of him, and then let him touch and feel, and eventually in the heat of a moment you'll let him take your bra off and you will probably be surprised at his reaction.Don't feel ashamed of your body. Your boyfriend will love you no matter what.
...............................
|
