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Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

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Question - (1 July 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mmaxbaby writes:

I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed?

The only thing that worries me is that we might get caught.

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A male reader, makeyourwifehot United States +, writes (2 July 2009):

Having an affair can be VERY exciting. Of course, that excitement covers a double-edge sword which other people have CLEARLY commented on.

Your question of doing it in his bed at home is odd. If the "homewrecker" label isn't already bouncing around in your head, having sex where he and his wife lay, must certainly give you pause for thought.

Regarding him "leaving his wife" for you...the odds are 90% against it. You are younger and more exciting right now, but the odds are his loyalty to his family will overshadow the exciting affair you both share right now.

If you can get the courage to call it off, you can bask in the glow of doing something noble for him and his family.

Doug

http://makeyourwifehot.com/bragblog

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

BABES, I am so tired of reading of all the little tit bits of your sex life with your married man being posted daily on this site. i am sure your life is one big joke and you think nothing of yourself. so please do as you please. you know yourself, you will and you have always done whatever you want. morals. you can't even spell the word.

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A female reader, Alisa United States +, writes (2 July 2009):

I will not criticize you about seeing a married man, because the man I was dating is married. However why would you be seeing a man who is forty years old, and your 18. Your too young to be dealing in these situations. The man obviously has some mental problems. It's one thing to see another woman's husband, but to be in her bed is a serious violation. Plus he seems to be a child molester sweetie, an 18 year old is a child to anyone over 30. Get away from him, before things get ugly. Nothing good comes from doing things like this.

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A female reader, babymama99 United States +, writes (2 July 2009):

babymama99 agony auntIf the only thing you are worried about is that you "might get caught" then you have a bigger problem than can be solved by us.

Having sex in that womans bed is the height of disrespect. she does NOT deserve that!

It is disrespectful to you too. But you deserve to be disrespeced - you've asked for it.

I guess you've moved up from just the car in your previous question.

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A female reader, lovnlife United States +, writes (2 July 2009):

he is using you for a toy and i hope you are getting more then a wet ass from him and you should be worried what that lady will do if she catches you you think she gone wait around for you to finish and ask you why she gone try to kick your ass!! and then prolly forgive her hubby so you will end up witha wet pussy and a swore ass and you will be alone it aint worth it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

He isn't going to leave his wife for you. End of story. You need to get out of this situation. He's ONLY using you for sex, period. Why would you even want this sleazebag to leave his wife for you? He would only do the same to you. You couldn't have a future with someone that much older either. He wouldn't want anyone to know he was with someone so much younger.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

What ar u doin wth a married man.clearly hes using u 4 the sex.get urslf sum1 else n move on.the sex in the main house is nt doin it 4 him n ur perfect to fil in dat space

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

What ar u doin wth a married man.clearly hes using u 4 the sex.get urslf sum1 else n move on.the sex in the main house is nt doin it 4 him n ur perfect to fil in dat space

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

What ar u doin wth a married man.clearly hes using u 4 the sex.get urslf sum1 else n move on.the sex in the main house is nt doin it 4 him n ur perfect to fil in dat space

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A female reader, kokopebbles United States +, writes (1 July 2009):

Not a good idea. You will most likely get caught. And the age difference, too huge. Shouldn't you be worrying about your future? Your only 18. Leave the man alone, he has a wife for heavens sake. Someday you will find a single man who respects you. A married guy who sleeps around with a young girl has no respect or morals. Do yourself a favor and stop messing around with him.

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