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writes:My husband does not want it at all when I try to instigate it. He has no sex drive at all. Our sex life used to be fairly active, but now it's non-existent.I've tried everything to get him interested: I wore sexy lingerie, I've dressed up for him, had romantic meals, but he's just showed no interest at all.I asked him why he had a lack of interest - asking if it was money or work worries, but no, there weren't any, he said.I asked him sensitively if it was anything to do with an inability to perform, but he insisted it wasn't.He admitted that it was because my body wasn't "as chiselled as that of Denzel Washington or Gael Garcia Bernal's body".He also said to me that my body wasn't muscular enough, and that I needed to get a six-pack.However, he's not being hypocritical - he certainly does work out a fair bit.I feel shocked by this revelation. I asked him if he was gay, but he insisted he wasn't. I also asked him if he was bisexual, but he said no, he isn't.He isn't taking steroids or any drugs, so I've no idea why he is thinking this way. It seems a bit odd - I mean how many men actually WANT their girlfriend/wife's body to look like that of Denzel Washington/Gael Garcia Bernal's?What should I do about this situation? Talking to him got nowhere, so I just don't know where to go next.Alexandra
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): This may be a possible hoax.Shame we have no method of marking hoaxes for attention here, like on some other sites.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): i do believe this is fake...
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reader, Starlights +, writes (1 July 2009):
 what a strange reply u got from him!
was he being sarcastic in his reply or was he being serious with that statement?
listen honey there is no way ur ever gonna have denzel's body so u need to put your bf straight.
its unfair he isnt having sex with you thats your womanly right!!
if he's healthy & strong he should not be alone!
thats my motto!
speak to him again and ask him to clarify what he meant. if he still is withholding sex and not giving u a satisfactory answer you might want to review your relationship with him.
good luck!!
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reader, betty_black +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Do you think he could be homosexual??
Ive never met a man thats wanted his woman to look like his own gender! I'd ask him why that attracts him so much, and dont go changing for a man. You stay your lovely womanly self!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 July 2009):
 Get a six pack and tape it to your abdomen (unchilled preferably) then your best cast iron frying pan and use it upside his head. He's being ridiculous.
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