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writes:I recently slept with a woman for the very first time...and I really loved it. It was the most erotic, sensual sex I've ever had. I easily liked it better than being with guys (which I have a good amount of experience with). So this defenitely makes me a lesbian, right?
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reader, travelmate37  +, writes (2 July 2009):
Im definately not an expert on the matter, but you were experimenting. You found you like sex with this woman better than the guys you have had. As with the other answer, ask who have you had a relationship with? This was a one-off at the moment. Dont be in a hurry to label yourself - give yourself time to discover who you are sexually and go from there.
You may just be bicurious, you maybe gay its too early to tell. You may never want to have sex with another girl- just this one. What does that mean? Like I said, its too early to tell. But keep things updated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009): This is why I hate labeling orientation. I don't think it makes you a lesbian, no. I think that if you enjoyed it, you shouldn't worry about what it is beyond very enjoyable. Me, I classify myself as straight. However, if I fell in love with a woman or found myself very attracted to a woman I wouldn't fight it. Why not just go with it for awhile and enjoy it? Lots of women enjoy being with other women (I'd say almost all would if they let themselves). Enjoy the best sex of your life!
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reader, kokopebbles +, writes (1 July 2009):
Well, it depends. Have you ever actually been in a meaningful relationship with a girl? If not then perhaps this is just an exciting and new experience for you, a nice change apart from all the dull sex that you have been having with other guys. You may just be "only" attracted to the female form and not females in general. There's nothing wrong with testing the waters, just to see if you really like the opposite sex. In your case, you were just testing the waters, and hey, you ended up enjoying that sexual encounter with the girl. It doesn't exactly make you a lesbian. I believe that there has to be more than one sexual encounter with the same sex as well as a mutual attraction that is both mentally and physically stimulating, in order for a woman to qualify as a lesbian.
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