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Fantasizing about my girlfriend, me and her best friend

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Question - (27 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Im in a awesome relationship. I love my girfriend but

lately ive fantasize with having a threesome with her best friends. why? is this normal? finding your girlfriends friends atrActive?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

Its perfectley normal to fantasize about your girlfriends friends, most men do, but thats exactley what it should be a fantasy just for you. Dont bring this up with your girlfriend if you value your relationship, as it could well be the end for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009):

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Thank you for your advice i have chosen to keep my thought to my self i think its best for the sake of the relationship

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009):

Hmm thats kind of awkward isnt it?

I've never really liked my girlfriends friends, not really attractive to me at all, definitely never wanted to have sex with them... best keep these thoughts to yourself i think, it might hurt your girlfriends feelings and make her friends feel weird around you. i dont know if its normal, i've never known any of my friends to do it (fantasize about their girlfriends friends). it's one thing to thik of a celebrity or someone you'll never meet but fantasizing about your girlfriends friends feels like a real betrayal to me. but maybe i'm the only one who sees it that way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009):

I think its very normal to fantasise about anyone. But I dont think you should act on it..as it would make things uncomfortable for ur girlfriend and her friends. If u really feel the need to act on this fantasy..which is fine and normal...do it with some one u both feel comfortable with and talk to ur girlfriend about it..goodluck

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